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Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by majesticprincess(f): 6:35pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Hi guys, been pondering on this for quite sometime and I need some help with it. Why do some guys find it difficult to take no for an answer sometimes? If you ignore the greetings, they say you're being proud. You welcome the greeting and you're said to have encouraged it in the long run. You're being yourself, and you're said to be stiff or emotionless. Or is it wrong to be friends with guys you're not interested in dating? |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by ITbomb(m): 6:37pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
You carry yam and goat see it, you come tell the goat he cannot eat it, do you expect the goat to be happy? |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by falconey(m): 6:39pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Select your type from many that may come your way and flush the rest down the toilet. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by kachi7021(m): 6:40pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
It's not wrong dear.. .u can't please everyone all the time.. ..i believe guys make d best of friends, I mean the ones without ulterior motives though 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Well, based on my observation...Nigerian men are really friendly especially those men i met in person.. OP, Maybe u met boiz..go and meet real men..they are very matured and open-minded ppol .. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 6:41pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
I think it's wrong to be friends with other guys if you're in a serious relationship. I can't stand my girl having guys around her all in the name of "just being friends". |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Fadiga24(m): 6:43pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
ITbomb: #On point, what's the essence of making friends with someone when what I want is clear to me? |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by vcente(m): 6:43pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Is it wrong the yam to be friends with a goat |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marshall7: 6:45pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Nope.. nothing wrong with it. Let them know where they stand if you're not going further. The ones wey wan dey, make dem dey 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
majesticprincess:this comes to mind
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Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marksleek25: 6:51pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:you wan give yourself arrythmia! Trust your babe enough when she says they're friends. Abi you wan tlk say you don't have girl who are your friends? |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Lucario007(m): 6:52pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
majesticprincess: As long as you make it clear that you intend to be friends and only friends from the get go. Don't lead him on or imply things that aren't really there, otherwise you'll be accused of "friendzoning" and that'll lead to some issues you'd be better off without. The issue isn't a matter of you being friends, it's a matter of some dumb guys misinterpretating your friendliness for romantic interest and that's a no no. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by ITbomb(m): 6:52pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
vcente:Nothing wrong But the yam should make it very clear with the goat that it is just friendship not a situation where the goat will be washing the yam, dressing it up, when e reach time to peel and prepare for eating, tori come change. Personally, you tell me you just want to be a friend, I will look at your intellectual capacity whether we can actually hold a good conversation, if you are good, why not. But if you are the fast food type, I insist or I walk |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by vcente(m): 6:56pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
ITbomb:so you are buttressing my point |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by ikp120(m): 7:01pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Naaaah, it's not wrong at all. I love keeping ladies as friends, especially with exotic benefits. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by NairalandCS(m): 7:23pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx: Truth right here.
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Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by mofeoluwadassah: 7:27pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
theres nothing wrong in it......if you make freinds with the matured ones |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Prevho: 7:35pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
There is nothing like matured or immature men. It is only a Matter of time before your male Friend will be scheming to sleep with you. Do not bring what you will not eat close to your nose. You cannot be friends with a guy, with time, his loins will stir. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 7:45pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
marksleek25:I don't have a girlfriend. I think I'm naturally not compatible for relationships; I can't stand someone I call mine being all friendly to other guys, but which girl can adhere to that? I guess none, so I rather stay single. And talking about female friends, I'm introverted and have very few people around me, whom I don't even call friends. If I find a female with this same quality, maybe we could just work out. I bet you don't know what goes on behind with those guys she says "we're just friends ". |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Funky123(f): 7:58pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
ITbomb:In short,no matter how nice u re to goats they will surely eat your yam..... |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Davidgrey: 8:00pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:That's "insecurity" not logic. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marksleek25: 8:02pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:same thing goes for us guys as well. And why find a babe who's an introvert? House go de over quiet. Just my opinion sha. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 8:05pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
marksleek25:Make I just kukuma dey my dey na. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 8:06pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Davidgrey:Based on the stories I've heard and read online, I'll say it's safer to be insecure. Plus, the ones I've seen too. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marksleek25: 8:06pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Davidgrey:word brother! A guy who's secure about himself doesn't deprive a babe of her friends. After all,she knew them before she met you. All this talk about her not having male friends is crap. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marksleek25: 8:08pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:funny you. If man was meant to be alone, God himself won't have created Eve. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
ikp120: la wah o benefits dey always dey your things |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 8:10pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
marksleek25:Lol. Let's set religion aside, any other reason? |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by Davidgrey: 8:14pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:Then she(they) never liked you. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by marksleek25: 8:16pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
chyckxx:well you be introvert you love your own company. Still you can't tell me sometimes you don't desire the company of a woman. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 8:17pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Davidgrey:Not me. You'd be surprised to know that 90% of those girls preaching love are mere objects of deception. |
Re: Is It Wrong Being Friends With Guys As A Lady by chyckxx(m): 8:18pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
marksleek25:I do, most times. But, definitely not affiliated with the idea of "true love". |
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