I've been trying to conceive for a few months now..im really concerned cause my husband doesn't even act like he's upset... I don't even know why he's acting so cool...he wasn't cool with me going on family planing and now that I have complications..... I feel like he should be so upset....I really don't know what to do...he's so caring now that it makes me feel guilty...I love my husband nd I just don't understand why he's not upset about it..i'm scared he might be cheating

Gosh!!! You don't care they complain. You care too much they still complain. Women & complains sef...

Is there something you're not telling us? Because it seems like you're hiding something from him and us

Because I don't see why you should be feeling guilty

Can't you share your fears with your own husband anymore? What happened to the no-holds-barred communication between couples?
You know him better than we do and you have better access to him.
Please let him know you're bothered and he will tell you what's going on in his mind.

tollahni:
I've been trying to conceive for a few months now..im really concerned cause my husband doesn't even act like he's upset... I don't even know why he's acting so cool...he wasn't cool with me going on family planing and now that I have complications..... I feel like he should be so upset....I really don't know what to do...he's so caring now that it makes me feel guilty...I love my husband nd I just don't understand why he's not upset about it..i'm scared he might be cheating

my sister you maybe right and you maybe wrong...PRay Now!

Shouldn't you be happy he isn't complaining but so caring?. Do you have a child already or none?. I asked 'cause if you do have a child, I'll assume he isn't that interested in another but if you don't; perhaps he understands the situation you're in, and waiting on God's time.

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Women we can worry ourselves...
Okay.. While not ask him why he's not upset over you not conceiving yet ,then you can conclude from his reply....
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Babies are coming.

You should start paying him back for not treating you as bad as you expected him to. That will balance the equation, and the guilt will leave.

Your husband is my replica sha. I don't really care whether my wife is able to give birth or not. I seriously don't see an issue there.

My problem is her getting pregnant for another guy and pretending that I'm the child's biological father. DNA test is a must!

Women


Someone told me even your mere breath pisses of a woman. I'm starting to believe that.

Have you actually tried to find out the reason behind why getting pregnant is difficult for you? How long has it been since you came of the contraceptives?
You cannot transfer your anxieties to him, you are frustrated and anxious considering the cultural implications of a woman failing to conceive on cue. What do women really want? He has not blamed you, has he made any demands or threatened or given you an ultimatum? He is being supportive what's the point of both of you being upset who will be the rock in the relationship?

Don't create more problems where none exist. It's not all women who will instantly fall pregnant after stopping contraceptives it takes time. Stop trying to get pregnant stress hornomnes won't help. Enjoy the intimacy with your husband sex is not just for making babies. Don't be so hard on yourself.

VargasVee:
Women


Someone told me even your mere breath pisses of a woman. I'm starting to believe that.

It's men who gave them that stupid impression that the world revolves around their bum bum. No wonder some men believe that the best way to tame a woman is to treat her like trash.

Why did you go into family planning in the first place?

I asked because from your writeup it's like you people don't even have a child

Thunder fire Satan!

Cholls:
my sister you maybe right and you maybe wrong...PRay Now!

I do try to at times but I dont really know how to pray

Joeblack01:
Why did you go into family planning in the first place?

I asked because from your writeup it's like you people don't even have a child

It was based on an agreement...we have lil girl

ikp120:
It's men who gave them that stupid impression that the world revolves around their bum bum. No wonder some men believe that the best way to tame a woman is to treat her like trash.

There's truth in it. The moment you start being all gentleman-ish, you're taken for a bellend.

Does your husband really want a baby now?

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tollahni:




It was based on an agreement...we have lil girl

Ok.
First thing first you need to go for checkups if possible go with your husband at least to know if there was any complications. Then from there you will know what next to do. And you need to to it as soon as possible.

Secondly it is either your husband is the understanding type or he is about to do something foolish. Like playing away game

Joeblack01:
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Ok.
First thing first you need to go for checkups if possible go with your husband at least to know if there was any complications. Then from there you will know what next to do. And you need to to it as soon as possible.

Secondly it is either your husband is the understanding type or he is about to do something foolish. Like playing away game

I have complications nd we've been to the doctor...I was told it'll take time before I get pregnant

thorpido:
Does your husband really want a baby now?

Yes he does....

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I feel like it's all my fault....maybe if I had not gone for the last one I wouldn't be having issues getting pregnant

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tollahni:



I have complications nd we've been to the doctor...I was told it'll take time before I get pregnant

If so then you have nothing to worry about.
Try and win your husband love and attention back. Best of luck

tollahni:
I've been trying to conceive for a few months now..im really concerned cause my husband doesn't even act like he's upset... I don't even know why he's acting so cool...he wasn't cool with me going on family planing and now that I have complications..... I feel like he should be so upset....I really don't know what to do...he's so caring now that it makes me feel guilty...I love my husband nd I just don't understand why he's not upset about it..i'm scared he might be cheating

I believe there's more to this story


It's either you ignored his better judgement and I'd what he's against and it turned out bad or you are involved in some sneaky shits that you're not ready to share.

tollahni:
I feel like it's all my fault....maybe if I had not gone for the last one I wouldn't be having issues getting pregnant

What do you mean by 'gone for the last one'?
You should take away all these anxiety.Contraceptives alter menstrual cycle and it takes time for your body to normalize if you have been on contraceptives.
Get to know your ovulation period and make love every alternate day starting from your 11th day.
You may need to see a doctor and run some tests.

Most importantly,relax your mind.

Kondomatic:
I believe there's more to this story


It's either you ignored his better judgement and I'd what he's against and it turned out bad or you are involved in some sneaky shits that you're not ready to share.

I actually didn't listen when he said I shouldn't go for it

VargasVee:


There's truth in it. The moment you start being all gentleman-ish, you're taken for a bellend.

Exactly!

I've noticed that again and again.

The moment I tell a girl who has been all over me "I'm sorry" because of something (maybe I missed her call) or tell her "I really missed you" or "you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen (like I tell all of them ), guess the next thing? She starts misbehaving by either not replying chats again or not picking my calls. But if I use another number that she doesn't know to call her, she go pick am before the 4th dial tone.

thank God you said, he is your husband. probably he understands the situation at hand.

ikp120:
Exactly!

I've noticed that again and again.

The moment I tell a girl who has been all over me "I'm sorry" because of something (maybe I missed her call) or tell her "I really missed you" or "you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen (like I tell all of them ), guess the next thing? She starts misbehaving by either not replying chats again or not picking my calls. But if I use another number that she doesn't know to call her, she go pick am before the 4th dial tone.

Lol. Nothing pains them more than not getting what they want.

Been a while

tollahni:




It was based on an agreement...we have lil girl

But you already have a child, he won't have much reason to be angry. Maybe he's ok with the daughter. I do not see anything wrong with his behaviour especially when you already have a child.