I Came Home From School, Last Year June To Be Precise, As A Guy I No Fit Stay At Home. So I Decided To Learn Something New So I Enrolled At a Computer Institute In My Area To Add To What I Have On Ground.

There Is This Pretty Damsel, Very Neat At The School, I Didnt Notice Her When I Started, Bt As The Program Was Going We Started Talking. She Told Me About Herself, Her School/ Course [ Imo State Uni, Medical Lab Tech]. We Exchange Numbers, We Started Talking.

So On This Particular Day On A Friday, After The Whole Lectures We Talked For Length. I Was About Telling Her I Have Feeling For Her, When She Me Told Me She'll Going Back To Imo State On Sunday Since The Strike Has Been Called Off, That She Only Came To See Her Aunty... When I Heard All She Said, Kon See As I Dey "Sweat".

Tears Nearly Commot From My Eyes, I Just Manup Life Goes On. Moral: If You Have Feelings For Anyone. Speak Out Don't Let Anything Hold You Down.

this ur write up sha

It happens at time buh life goes on

Many atimes

EfccBoss:
this ur write up sha

Bro Dnt Mind My Write Up

Memories

One of the downsides of being introverted

Santi69:
Memories

One of the downsides of being introverted

Yh. Exactly

Okay naaa

pocohantas:
Okay naaa

Lol. Where Is Ur Picture

pocohantas:
Okay naaa

I like you

jonili:
I like you

I like you too, what next?

Stevengerd:
Lol. Where Is Ur Picture

Naso una dey take marry fine girl with zero home training. Look beyond the physical

sure,u were with the lady for just few weeks.My own case is so funny I was unable to express my feeling to a level mate through out my stay in the University 100l -500l

I still can't due some barriers

Introverted folks like me v ds kind of experience plenty....i didn't waste tym with my wife tho...dropped it like it's hot

I don't let it out unless if I know we are both feeling each other's vibe..... I fear such rejection more than anything.

The last time this happened to me, it took me 3years to realise I liked her but shid! It was already too little too late, she'd lost the feelings already.

The truth is, all guys have experienced it, the problem is to learn from it or not

Yormit442:
sure,u were with the lady for just few weeks.My own case is so funny I was unable to express my feeling to a level mate through out my stay in the University 100l -500l

Ur Own Case..Pass My Own Oh! 5yrs U Were Scared!

pocohantas:

I like you too, what next?


Naso una dey take marry fine girl with zero home training. Look beyond the physical

Hmm! I Love This Sentence " Look Beyond The Physical"

TGoddest. Would Love To You Better, Hope U Dnt Mind??

Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

Feelings bawo

Yes

Fortunately I speak body language with girls..

Trust my preek to always say his feelings.
If I like you, it stands like Mount Kilimanjaro instantly.

That way you know it is straight to business...no long thing.
Just open your leg and I plug and play.

Who feelings don epp?



Afterall the Kalabaris have a proverb that says.
'Na on top bed "I love you, I love you" dey end.'

Yes. They were painful experiences, but I've learnt my lessons, to strike when approciate and to avoid being to nice and desperate. Now I can press their Emotional Button within 10mins convo...

I only regretted not asking for her control

no I have never asked any girl out

Very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

oya let me spread my mat here..... Here for the comments

i still regret not sleeping with some ladies when i had the chance..it was too obvious they wanted it..but i was trying not to be forward and i was forming good boy,funniest part..those ladies regret it as well when we talk..damn!!!till now am still in pain..LOL.but they are still on my to do list if they are not MARRIED by the time we meet again,but am smashing even if they have a BF.LOL..i have learnt never to be slow..once the lady is flashing the green light..am going with full speed.no dulling..omo ti gboro!!!