Amarabae:
A sharpner may not be able to stop the pencil from going to other sharpners.
So a sharpner must make its blades sharp to be on top of the game in trapping the pencil.

Ezioku... O di too harsh.. Chineke.. When the sharpener becomes too harsh won't it break the pencil ?

Why Do Side Niggas Break Homes; Why Can't Men Support Each Other?

connectpoint:
The thread has been derailed..the thread begs for an answer .. simple.. women can't support each other on this cause it's a game...a game that doesn't permit weakness, it's a cash cow.... a casino to cash in on... and the dirtier it is played, the greater d results...plus, it's safer than money rituals.. money rituals is for men, sugar dady is women's money ritual..they can't do without it

you set are among those that derailed the topic

sunshineG:
who says men are the only one chasing
Look at those senators for example, there are like 10 girls chasing and running after their contact
Apart from married men, look at how davido baby mamas are so proud of how davido slept with them both, look how many picture they display on the interne

Now tell how davido was chasing after those once

I don't give a flying fvck about who is chasing who. All I know is side chicks ain't to be blamed for the unending infidelities in our society. Let these men keep to their vows and watch the rate of infidelity reduce drastically.

babyfaceafrica:
you set are among those that derailed the topic

Benita27:
Actually, these hungry bìtches should also be faulted. If the cheats called husbands decided to proliferate around, and single girls who're strong-willed say 'No' to their proposals they'll definitely not get whom to cheat on their wives with but I know it's impossible 'cause most of them are after material gains not minding their actions could wreck another woman's marriage.

The husband made the vow, not the side chic.

pocohantas:

Envious of what Sir?

Funny question @OP.
A man cheats on his wife, and you think the problem is women supporting each other? You go on to see the other woman as the enemy who isn't supporting you. The men that support you women, why can't they keep to their vows?

Side chick spotted.

If your sister's husband has a side chick (God forbid), and the girl happens to be your friend or someone you know...
will you encourage the girl to continue 'chopping money' and blame your brother in-law for cheating

Many women nowadays are only interested in married men cos they believe married men are responsible, caring and financially buoyant than most single guys. The fact is that most of this women just don't give a f_ck about the men's wives at home as long as they have their own piece of the cake.

connectpoint:


Now you're talking...Ya'all need to be careful.. One thing we should ask when you see complete package is how come are you single... no be only you sabi catwalk na.... yu no imagine am ?

Yes! We need to be careful, but your people need to stop preying on innocent and weak minds.

Trust me, I know better now.

Blackhawk03:


Yes! We need to be careful, but your people need to stop preying on innocent and weak minds.

Trust me, I know better now.

Sorry but we don't describe women as weak or innocent.... Men take it as epp.. that they are trying to epp so d engine does not damage.. Can i ask you.. have you not turned down over ten guys that are really single?

tosyne2much:
An evil person is not only someone that wants you dead. An evil person is someone who knows a man has wife at home yet decides to have an affair with him

Karma is always there to pay back those kind of ladies in their own coin sha

its funny when women use words like " evil " " wicked" etc to qualify the woman in the extra marital relationship but keep quiet about the real culprit ! The sidechic owes nobody nothing, was she the one vows were exchanged with ? The husband is the evil one who should have kept his d in his pants .

Afam4eva:
The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it..

This is not an issue of women not supporting women. It's an issue of humans being at the very wicked and covetous self. If a man who said his vows to his wife, who probably now has children can insult the sanctity of his marriage for another woman, why should another woman be castigated for having an affair with the said man. I think we need to stop putting the blame at the door step of the side chicks.

A man saying the truth,
Not those men subtlety trying to exonerate the man and put the blame on the side chick

connectpoint:


Sorry but we don't describe women as weak or innocent.... Men take it as epp.. that they are trying to epp so d engine does not damage.. Can i ask you.. have you not turned down over ten guys that are really single?

You can imagine! The side chicks also take it as epp, the men are keeping their pockets filled.

I have, more than 10 actually. Does that have anything to do with the matter on ground?

Rants and more banter is all I see!!
Do you know the kind of drama the man may be experiencing at home?like the wife not cooking or perforing her wife duties?

No one should form judge abeg?because you'renot der to know what's going on?
Wen it happens the wife would play victim but was enjoying bringing one drama after another

Chommieblaq:

A million like for all your response.
A man cheats and the side chic is being blamed. Who took the vow with the woman? What made the husband to look for succour outside his home in the first place?
A man cheats, instead addressing the issue with the man, they will be busy slut shaming the side chic.
Not to mention, some women even cheat more than the men.

Blackhawk03:


I don't give a flying fvck about who is chasing who. All I know is side chicks ain't to be blamed for the unending infidelities in our society. Let these men keep to their vows and watch the rate of infidelity reduce drastically.

I have heard
I think we may be deviating from the topic a little sha
But as you are my person I hear you
Have a good night rest. I am having hot temperature

Man why don't you ask your self y does electricity shock

giving it a fancy name is like putting jam on shit, it's not side chick,,,na Ale�� concubine.... most single guys still dey hustle, and ladies believe That for a guy to be married_ that means his account weigh,hence the need to tap from d Glory...

Amarabae:
A sharpner may not be able to stop the pencil from going to other sharpners.
So a sharpner must make its blades sharp to be on top of the game in trapping the pencil.

Hehehe

Pataricatering:
its funny when women use words like " evil " " wicked" etc to qualify the woman in the extra marital relationship but keep quiet about the real culprit ! The sidechic owes nobody nothing, was she the one vows were exchanged with ? The husband is the evil one who should have kept his d in his pants .

Yes I get you. But you know an adage says "if a wall is not porous, a lizard will not be able to go through it"

Benita27:
Actually, these hungry bìtches should also be faulted. If the cheats called husbands decided to proliferate around, and single girls who're strong-willed say 'No' to their proposals they'll definitely not get whom to cheat on their wives with but I know it's impossible 'cause most of them are after material gains not minding their actions could wreck another woman's marriage.

Thank you so much for saying this

Please help me pass on this same message of yours to people like lionessza and lalas247

Thank you

Blackhawk03:


You can imagine! The side chicks also take it as epp, the men are keeping their pockets filled.

I have, more than 10 actually. Does that have anything to do with the matter on ground?

Yes it's your fault...why turn down men that want to marry you and then blame men for trying to epp you? If you weremarried you would not have found yourself in the situation..its your fault for staying single..ur not sweet 16 anymore..

sunshineG:
I am not saying men are saints in all these but ladies are no saint too

Makes you wonder, despite all the feminism and strong women groups supporting women right all over the world
The main assistant that helps men in hurting women is still women

Don't you think the main enemy is within then

so feminism should be fighting for women not to f each other's husbands? Of all the problems women face � lol Infact feminism should also teach women how to f and s their husbands so no woman would be able to take him from from you .

Pataricatering:
its funny when women use words like " evil " " wicked" etc to qualify the woman in the extra marital relationship but keep quiet about the real culprit ! The sidechic owes nobody nothing, was she the one vows were exchanged with ? The husband is the evil one who should have kept his d in his pants .

is this the truth or your trying to protect your interests?

in the end it all looks like a game of economic interests,,,I cream ya.. yu rub mah...

pocohantas:

Tiri gbosa for you. The babes that date men knowing they have wives are just there to enjoy the offer while it last. The man should know better....

Really What if the offer last forever then the babe will date the man forever.

In days past, this wasn't an issue, because polygamy was accepted, the men that could support multiple wives were not condemned for doing so, therefore the matter of infidelity rarely came up.
Then came forced monogamy, coupled with stringent economic conditions, there'll certainly be an imbalance and infidelity must happen. Fact.

If only parties concerned can find ways not to hurt and disrespect each other...

memories1:
In days past, this wasn't an issue, because polygamy was accepted, the men that could support multiple wives were not condemned for doing so, therefore the matter of infidelity rarely came up.
Then came forced monogamy, coupled with stringent economic conditions, there'll certainly be an imbalance and infidelity must happen. Fact.

If only parties concerned can find ways not to hurt and disrespect each other...

You have spoken well. Excellent point

memories1:
In days past, this wasn't an issue, because polygamy was accepted, the men that could support multiple wives were not condemned for doing so, therefore the matter of infidelity rarely came up.
Then came forced monogamy, coupled with stringent economic conditions, there'll certainly be an imbalance and infidelity must happen. Fact.

If only parties concerned can find ways not to hurt and disrespect each other...

You have spoken well. Excellent point...

sunshineG:
I doubt that though

But I didn't say men are men best friend too
But do you see men support groups like we see ladies support group
So why the deceit?

female support groups should exist to help you fight off other women trying to seduce husbands ? There is underage marriage, disenfranchised widows, girl education etc bit you feel it's more important for them to help stupid women do what they cant do themselves - call their husbands to order ! If a woman cannot call her husband to order if he cheats then she deserves a sidechic

connectpoint:


Yes it's your fault...why turn down men that want to marry you and then blame men for trying to epp you? If you weremarried you would not have found yourself in the situation..its your fault for staying single..ur not sweet 16 anymore..

They were obviously not what I wanted and I'm also not in haste to be a Mrs, marriage no dey waka biko. I have to shine my eyes before I rush in, end up with a man that loves to "epp" and comman open thread on nairaland.

I might not be sweet16 but I'm not aunty gwegwe either.

Blackhawk03:


They were obviously not what I wanted and I'm also not in haste to be a Mrs, marriage no dey waka biko. I have to shine my eyes before I rush in, end up with a man that loves to "epp" and comman open thread on nairaland.

I might not be sweet16 but I'm not aunty gwegwe either.

Why did you turn down more than ten guys.. time is going o jeeee ( IN FUNKE AKINDELE'S VOICE ) Won't you cut your loses and get hitched?

NwaAmaikpe:




Umu akwunna abata go kwanu ulo uka Chukwu!!!!

Bro please can u translate 2 English ahbeg
I know dose are heavy words