cristianisraeli:
i still regret not sleeping with some ladies when i had the chance..it was too obvious they wanted it..but i was trying not to be forward and i was forming good boy,funniest part..those ladies regret it as well when we talk..damn!!!till now am still in pain..LOL.but they are still on my to do list if they are not MARRIED by the time we meet again,but am smashing even if they have a BF.LOL..i have learnt never to be slow..once the lady is flashing the green light..am going with full speed.no dulling..omo ti gboro!!!

jfleece:
calm down bro... AM ur frd on this platform.. Pls don't bite my neck..

I hardly quote ladies on this forum when romance is involved; because I don't want a girl to start feeling genuine unnecessarily

I was only playing around with her, which she doesn't by keeping mute. Even, I have forgotten I quoted someone like her; not till when you mentioned the post.

We are cool.

Yuneehk:

The question is "Have you regretted not telling a girl you have feelings for her" and not "have you regretted not sleeping with a girl". I'm sure you didn't understand because na so so fvck dey your head. Keep fvcking bro till STDs come for you.

DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

thickminaj:
oya let me spread my mat here..... Here for the comments

fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

fastgyal:
hehehe *clears throat*

FoolishBoy419:


Is your father still alive?

NwaAmaikpe:


Fortunately I speak body language with girls..

Trust my preek to always say his feelings.
If I like you, it stands like Mount Kilimanjaro instantly.

That way you know it is straight to business...no long thing.
Just open your leg and I plug and play.

Who feelings don epp?



Afterall the Kalabaris have a proverb that says.
'Na on top bed "I love you, I love you" dey end.'

Flashh:

I hardly quote ladies on this forum when romance is involved; because I don't want a girl to start feeling genuine unnecessarily

I was only playing around with her, which she doesn't. Even, I have forgotten I quote someone like her; not till when you mentioned the post.

We are cool.

Yormit442:
sure,u were with the lady for just few weeks.My own case is so funny I was unable to express my feeling to a level mate through out my stay in the University 100l -500l

fastgyal:
hehehe *clears throat*

fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

shadrach77:


That's a lie! Nobody considers you cheap. It's ladies with low self esteem who hide under that

DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

cristianisraeli:


na wa oo..i call u..e concern u...mumu girl keep worrying about the question..whats the difference between feelings and sleeping with a girl..what does the feelings lead to..u are obvious still a little baby girl.i think u should worry about that YEAST infection or that TITUS smell..i dont want to sound like a bully,bkos i hate bullies with passion..but next time..watch what u say baby girl..let me stop here bkos i really hate bashing ladies..tonite is ur lucky nite

fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

jfleece:
nor worry I get one new neighbor.. The babe gallant like finish.. Her waste na end time waste and she get better milk factory.. Nor worry I go package her for u.. Buh u go pay development levy.

Bro, abeg no play with me oó. You mean am?

Kokaine:
yes.

one dark slim tall girl in my class in university of benin.
i dont know why but she was from a very rich home. we saw everyday. we talked casually, or sometimes not at all. but i could tell she had noticed i was deep into her. i mean: i virtually saw her in all my wild day dreams and blue sky thinking. you know that kind of wild imaginations where you start feeling like tupac when he was singing "picture me in my 500 benz" .funny enough the day she picked me in her car i was kind of nervous lol. i jonsed oh! probably she liked me because whenever i stared at her from a distance, i may either have found her eyes fixed on me, or it wont be too long before she turned my way. it was obvious to me she didnt like the fact that i was too shy. i just thank God nobody ever embarrassed me in her presence. that would have been the description of my most embarrassing moment. we had friends in common and my heart use to beat whenever i was in, or passing an exclusive place that had a high possibility of meeting her alone.

to make matters worse, after school, i joined a small firm in lekki into solar power installation. one day, our boss instructed us to go to one house (a self contained sha) to do a small installation. Oh My God!!! it was her høuse hahaha

i will never forget.





i just hope shes not on nl oh.... cos she will surely know who wrote this!

Flashh:
Bro, abeg no play with me oó. You mean am?

Flashh:
Bro, abeg no play with me oó. You mean am?

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

FoolishBoy419:


Some people are naturally stupid as fvck

Chi59:


Aww.. Eeyah

You should still try to get a bit closer, try to become friends with her. Who knows? She might still be single.

ncoolsome:




I feel most times we hide behind being an introvert...an introvert should be like a snail u come out n go in when u recognize danger in this case rejection(the am sorry No)...no matter how introvert I am I will stammer,laugh sheepishly n still tell u my innermost mind,thats what make s us a hunter.

Inanna:
So they'll now tag me as desperate abi? As admirable as it may sound, it doesn't work in this part of the world. The man should do the chasing and I want to be CHASED. That's how it's s'pposed to be. I doff my hat for all these women who slide into their man's DMs first, propose to their significant other and tell a man that she likes him. Very brave, I must say but I no fit.