Danpersie31:

was a victim of dat recently .loved a girl since 2007, I never told her about it.2months ago I decided to open up to her only for her to tell me she loved me all those times but got tired of waiting for me and just recently started a serious relationship. I felt like d cloud should fall on me.
LESSON TO LEARN.: GUYS IF YOU LIKE A GIRL ,TELL HER,ITS BETTER SHE TELLS YOU NO DAN FOR YOU TO BE SORRY. STILL HURT THOUGH BUT WILL MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT

Hmmm! word

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

Some girls act odd too. Okay there's this Muslim hijab wearing girl in my hood, doesn't talk to no guy whenever she's on hols from one these northern uni..but I notice she keeps staring or rather our eyes always meet and I admire her cos of her beautiful face and skin. Even with the hijab I swear she is the finest chic in the hood. Although I can't tell why she keeps staring back I know she fancies me or something about me idunno. But apart from her beauty and charisma I don't even see myself dating her honestly.. So it became so obvious.. The green light I mean & I decided to break the ice.. First day I said hi she just kept walking on.. Another day hello pretty.. Trying to start a harmless convo she didn't even raise her head.. Then third time we crossed paths I just made up my mind to be mean and said some shocking things to her.. About her timidity & that she shouldn't categorize me as one of those guys toasting her because I don't even see myself dating someone like her and then I let her be before she would scream anything, she just kept quiet.. Only this time she looked up at me when she got to her gates.. She still stares whenever she's @home but I care less I just ignore her eyes like a plague & she's usually very mouthy when with her sisters or female neighbors and truly some guys dey disturb her up and down the hood. I have even witnessed one where the guy gave her a name like zainab & she stormed back at him " I am not zainab stop following me" & I was just walking past minding my own

Chi59:


5 years and you didn't say anything?

Chai!

Mine is 3 years now and counting.. Probably get to the 5 years mark

Danpersie31:

was a victim of dat recently .loved a girl since 2007, I never told her about it.2months ago I decided to open up to her only for her to tell me she loved me all those times but got tired of waiting for me and just recently started a serious relationship. I felt like d cloud should fall on me.
LESSON TO LEARN.: GUYS IF YOU LIKE A GIRL ,TELL HER,ITS BETTER SHE TELLS YOU NO DAN FOR YOU TO BE SORRY. STILL HURT THOUGH BUT WILL MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT

IF YOU HAVE PHUCKED MANY GIRLS, YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOUR LESSON IS JUST A PIECE OF SHIIT!


ONCE YOU START SEEING WOMEN LIKE FISH YOU WONT HAVE THAT KIND OF FOOLISH MENTALITY OF REGRET.

RIGHT NOW IT MAY BE THAT THE GUY IS REGRETTING THAT HE PUT HIS PREEK ON THAT WOMAN YOU ADMIRED SO MUCH


QUOTE OF THE DAY: ONE TREASURE IS ANOTHER MAN'S DUSTBIN.

ps. the wiseape

Young man, at this stage in ur life, ur priority should be to be gainfully employed then u can talk about love.

fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

It doesn't matter whosoever make de first move. Once you have the feel, spill it out, bcuz "LOVE[color=#990000][/color] has no meaning until someone comes around to give it a MEANING".

That was how I jokingly told a girl that i like her and I ended up buying her food with my tfare yesterday. no be joke o. lol

fastgyal:
Not its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

Really?... and all along I thought such ladies were bold... independent.... husband snatchers...ehmmm... go getters ... don't care a rat's toe nail what people think or will say. ..never thought them to be cheap or desperate. Feel free to chase me...I'm very chasable!@ topic...express what feelings?... that's when the woman hold you hostage!

pocohantas:
Okay naaa

I like you too

thickminaj:
oya let me spread my mat here..... Here for the comments

Lemme say this b4 I regret it later

I like you

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

I hope the laps on your dp belongs to you because I already used it to the imagine your full picture, you are very pretty.. If not for anything, the guy typing this post does admire pretty damsels.

Is there any chance for this guy you are cheerfully reading his post to better know you? See the full picture

DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

Mumu, call her... 100kg of brain fall on you..

Flashh:
I am not shy to meet any girl. What I do first is to collect her number; then, the rest is history.

Flash boy with cash

NwaAmaikpe:


Fortunately I speak body language with girls..

Trust my preek to always say his feelings.
If I like you, it stands like Mount Kilimanjaro instantly.

That way you know it is straight to business...no long thing.
Just open your leg and I plug and play.

Who feelings don epp?



Afterall the Kalabaris have a proverb that says.
'Na on top bed "I love you, I love you" dey end.'

Lol. I don confirm you today say you be ph boy

I still regret one occasion till this day

She was sitting by my side in a bus

Everything about her was just my taste - her skin, her complexion, her hair, her aura, her teeth, her face... oh my Gawd

I just had this feeling she was mine just for asking

But I didn't say a word or do anything

When she eventually left the bus, I had this mind to stop too

But I didn't

And that was how I lost my soulmate and wife

To this day, I still regret as I reminisce what could have been a great love affair

If only I was just courageous enough to at least ask her what her name was

Damn

Qyubee:
Introverted folks like me v ds kind of experience plenty....i didn't waste tym with my wife tho...dropped it like it's hot

This thread was created in April and only made it to FP in July?? .... in fact in that time @Santi69 who made it to FP has even deleted their account

Not really. I did but I didn't say it loud enough. And I still regret it

0b10010011:
Still hurts me till date that I never told my secondary school class teacher how much I loved and cared about her!

French President emma macron is your mentor.

Stevengerd:
I Came Home From School, Last Year June To Be Precise, As A Guy I No Fit Stay At Home. So I Decided To Learn Something New So I Enrolled At a Computer Institute In My Area To Add To What I Have On Ground.

There Is This Pretty Damsel, Very Neat At The School, I Didnt Notice Her When I Started, Bt As The Program Was Going We Started Talking. She Told Me About Herself, Her School/ Course [ Imo State Uni, Medical Lab Tech]. We Exchange Numbers, We Started Talking.

So On This Particular Day On A Friday, After The Whole Lectures We Talked For Length. I Was About Telling Her I Have Feeling For Her, When She Me Told Me She'll Going Back To Imo State On Sunday Since The Strike Has Been Called Off, That She Only Came To See Her Aunty... When I Heard All She Said, Kon See As I Dey "Sweat".

Tears Nearly Commot From My Eyes, I Just Manup Life Goes On. Moral: If You Have Feelings For Anyone. Speak Out Don't Let Anything Hold You Down.

my own case should be,if I have regretted talking to a girl,the answer is yes. That was my final year nd the way I was shunned bby dis girl nd d level of embarrassment was too difficult for me to handle.Well the good thing was dat,after 4 years,she was crawling to even be my sidde chick but iam nt a cheat.but even if iam,what she said to me on dat fateful day destroyed everytin I had for her.because she is so beautiful nd has eyes for money,as a guy who is. Nt working,i waasnt her class.she is nt goodd character wise cos I was swayed by her beauty.four years later after God smiled on me,she have turned to an slowpoke on my case.some guys in such situation will mess her up nd den dump her,but I showed her class.rejected all her advances till she got married,even nw,she is on my case.

Story of my life that year..I got over it sha..after kicking myself for being a great jackass..

Back then in skul..all I virtually did was read, read and read not having time to tell her how i feel..
She was my reading partner..she started showing me signs that she liked me.

And d yeye boy was just reading and reading ignoring her..


Being introverted shaa

Since I'm matured, I have never imagine if a female lady is biger than me in level I always go for them because I don't have fear for them, highest thin, she will slap me, if I say what she don't like,but as a getto guy(mushin) we always ready for any sh*t

We met in Service and extended gesture to her. She still said NO thou I never for once asked the rationale behind the reply whether she ve got someone somewhere.

Had to seek financial assistance fr her despite our far distance ( thou didn't need d fund just to identity my status with her) & she do renders.

It rare for ladies to exercise such gesture to a guy having known such amount might turn bad debt..........abi it nothing worrying of !

Can I rekindle my feeings for her (any chemistry) or forget it. What do u think it her thought?

Refined refiner !...

Comman see it ooh..bfor tomorrow dem will say I didnt tell u my feelings.

I have lost count of this topic

mr op stop corrupting the word love (feeling),
what the you are talking about is sekz,
yes intercourse which most of the time happens when you have created the right environment.
only then will they give you all parts of their bodies to play with.

DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

wow, you're such a good writer.... Though ur story is quite unique but ur writing captivated me... kudos

Stevengerd:
Ur Own Case..Pass My Own Oh! 5yrs U Were Scared!

Lolzzzzz my only prayer is that he doesn't pass dt scary gene to his unborn son/sons.... Like damn for a whole freaking 5yrs u were scared.... Hala HEAVEN

Admin should please answer to my request ooooo, anytime i create a topic or post i get BAN . kilode oooooooo

I have problem when it comes to wooing girls .. Don't know whether its spiritual or psychological.. But whenever am in the mood to spill my hearth... My brain seizes and cold shill takes over. Over the last years in my life it has been the girls making the move..
Real reason why I dont feel love cos I never been in one on my own volition.
Am heading to 30 and yet to sincerely tell any girl how I feel about them...
I blame it on my busy head, no love childhood/lonely childhood and attention issue plus fantasy mindset.