Angy55:

So pathetic. The girl when break your heart no try at all.

EfccBoss:
this ur write up sha

25thJOE:
Sometimes it's better to be silent , keep our pride and avoid rejection. I had a crush on this girl since last year , and I was shy to talk to her so I admired from afar. Later I discovered she didn't like my type, so I wasn't her taste for an ideal guy.
If I had gone ahead to tell her my true feelings, I would have received an hot slap from her and become a center of gossip.

cristianisraeli:
i still regret not sleeping with some ladies when i had the chance..it was too obvious they wanted it..but i was trying not to be forward and i was forming good boy,funniest part..those ladies regret it as well when we talk..damn!!!till now am still in pain..LOL.but they are still on my to do list if they are not MARRIED by the time we meet again,but am smashing even if they have a BF.LOL..i have learnt never to be slow..once the lady is flashing the green light..am going with full speed.no dulling..omo ti gboro!!!

sinistermind:


I won't mind wooing you right now

TrumpDonald2:


Yea, I really feel for you ladies on this. I know it definitely hurts.

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

Reiyvinn:


That freaking beautiful picture over there was uploaded on my birthday so I deserve a gift from you for that!

Originalsly:
Really?... and all along I thought such ladies were bold... independent.... husband snatchers...ehmmm... go getters ... don't care a rat's toe nail what people think or will say. ..never thought them to be cheap or desperate. Feel free to chase me...I'm very chasable!@ topic...express what feelings?... that's when the woman hold you hostage!

pocohantas:
Okay naaa

cristianisraeli:


yea thats what i meant when i talked about a lady giving u the green light..the thing is..most guys would not want to be forward and some when the lady is flashing the RED light they would take it for GREEN and be embarassed in the process and i guess then i was pretty young and i was a gentleman and all that..but as a grown man now i can figure when a lady is GREEN the light and i can flash back..and i dont think that makes the lady cheap..i just think she want what i want or we both want the same thing and thats to smash smash and smash

Pylony:
Guy introvert got category oo.

elmas:


Take Tomtom dear
Sweetheart I could clear your sore throat

Stevengerd:
I Came Home From School, Last Year June To Be Precise, As A Guy I No Fit Stay At Home. So I Decided To Learn Something New So I Enrolled At a Computer Institute In My Area To Add To What I Have On Ground.

There Is This Pretty Damsel, Very Neat At The School, I Didnt Notice Her When I Started, Bt As The Program Was Going We Started Talking. She Told Me About Herself, Her School/ Course [ Imo State Uni, Medical Lab Tech]. We Exchange Numbers, We Started Talking.

So On This Particular Day On A Friday, After The Whole Lectures We Talked For Length. I Was About Telling Her I Have Feeling For Her, When She Me Told Me She'll Going Back To Imo State On Sunday Since The Strike Has Been Called Off, That She Only Came To See Her Aunty... When I Heard All She Said, Kon See As I Dey "Sweat".

Tears Nearly Commot From My Eyes, I Just Manup Life Goes On. Moral: If You Have Feelings For Anyone. Speak Out Don't Let Anything Hold You Down.

She mustn't say yes. Most of the times, about 80% of the times, she might not like you back. The goal is to not end up wondering what could have happened if you had summoned enough courage to talk to her in the first place. At least you'd know you'd have tried. And a few times, the girl might just be interested in you.
You people should not get me wrong oh, I'm not saying you'd see a girl that you may like and the first thing you'd do is to go and confess your love for her. No girl will even gree for you. Just talk to her, be friendly, make her your acquaintance, then friend, and then after a while, if you notice that you're both compatible and that she's into you, drop the bomb on her. Wooing a girl is an art, you don't just rush things

macanthony25:


Introverts like me, would see this as a trap. What if she says no, or friendzoned you? That are the questions that will be popping up in your head. So you rather leave it at casual friends level to avoid stories that touch the heart

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

Inanna:
Of course it's not a taboo, like I said, I find it admirable. But it's something I just CAN'T do!!! End of story

fastgyal:
Not just guys, even I as a lady. Let me be sincere, there are guys I admire and silently wished to be wooed by them.Most times I try to initiate the conversation. its just a pity that when ladies make the move first, they're tagged as being cheap or desperate.

TinaAnita:


What a bad temper! Why are you so pained and temperamental? Jeez! Did you lose a contract, job, money or something? Your reaction was uncalled for. Go drink some cold water and go to sleep, you will be fine bruh.

Lool that's so cute He actually ran??! ;DThis one is also shy, I think. He keeps stealing glances and looks away quickly whenever I catch his eyes. I don't know if I look like a serial killer or what.

sisisioge:



Awwww...pls help him. Say the hello first.

This sheet happened to me sometime ago. It was an event I co-planned. Dude kept looking at me. Eventually, I said hello but he practically ran away I swearit, I was shocked.

He was looking at me again, he didn't know my side eyes could see him, I suddenly jammed eyes with him and said hello...he just ran away I would have loved to chat a bit with him o, he was so cute I think. Painfully shy dude.

Inanna:
Don't judge me by my harsh comments here. I just get irritated by bullshit easily and I'm always forced to make truthful albeit acerbic posts. I'm not as caustic as I appear to be.

Addicted2Women:

No, I don't regret not expressing my feelings or decisions i make when it comes to women, sometimes it turns out to be tragedy/misfortune avarted

Last time i checked there are millions of other good and hard working girls left i can choose from

I only regret business or investment decisions

There are millions of good girls to choose from but there are no businesses or in vestments to choose from when you miss one

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

Albert0011:
Tank God this post jux came up,thr is this damsel i hav being eyeing since.we hav knw each other quiet well now,i luv her so much but i dnt truely knw if she has any atom of feelins 4 me.She always cums 2 my place nd even enta's my room but dnt knw if she is tryin 2 friendzone me...my greatest fear nw is dat wat if she's gonna reject me once i pour out my feelins 2 her.

DanXplore:
very well. My secondary school crush. I was just too timid, gosh!

This girl rejected most of the guys that came to her but for some reasons, i felt some kind of strong vibes oscillating periodically between us. whenever we catch glances, she just smiles...i mean, i could see the glow that resulted from the involuntry expansion of her facial muscles and the dilation of the surrounding blood vessels. Towards graduation, she told me with what appears to me utmost sincerity that she hoped to see me again but the guy typing this post was just to timid and dumb to see through this green light that was greener than the Nigerian flag!

It didnt end after grad. She called me twice and i never returned the call not because i was a snub, but because i was a complete Raj Koothrapali when it comes to this lady. I wished i could cut open my brain at such instances and introduce electric sparks to jump start my cerebullum because the region responsible for speech just freezes without warning. I am a natural introvert, but this lady's aura made me atleast 10 times as much introverted as i already was. aswear she made me worse. As i am typing this, i am also scratching my head in regret. It is 10years now and she is a medical doctor, rounding up nysc this year. It was difficult for the person i see in my mirror to get this lady off his mind. Damn it! love could be a terrible thing

25thJOE:
Sometimes it's better to be silent , keep our pride and avoid rejection. I had a crush on this girl since last year , and I was shy to talk to her so I admired from afar. Later I discovered she didn't like my type, so I wasn't her taste for an ideal guy.
If I had gone ahead to tell her my true feelings, I would have received an hot slap from her and become a center of gossip.