damilare96:
a girl wan join d group ??

damilare96:
a girl wan join d group ??

Olarababy:

dont mind my gender......am a guy

HARDDON:


No u r not! Olara=female
Baby=female


Then dere is d lil "f" attached again!

iykizzy:


Boss harddon, I'm not ready to leave either of 'em bro... Dats why I came to seek superior advice from d Lords here... Pls tell me how to go about it bro.

HARDDON:


S

One more Brother Unshackled! Ma heart leap for joy!

tell, i pray, your tale


while @ it, do know that without practice, all u have learned wud soon vaporize.

johnson232:

this ur comment got me laughing
but u are funny na...
Meaning u haven't dated before?
Are u a christian & do u belong to any group in your church?
Because we need to start from the basics, u first need to be comfortable around girls, before u can woo them.
U are always in a hurry to leave because u are nervous when around girls.

martoz:

Dis was my thought den.... Going out den to practise..aldo no success to encourage me ... Which gave opportunity to my friends wu told me m jex wasting my tym.. Cos dey kip telling me dat money z d key to hv success with girls..even told me it look immature walking toward girls on street... Aldo m telling u to u learn frm my story... Dou hv neva given up.. Buh hv bcum worsen... Wish to get any help to build my confidence again.. Geting depressed already.

deafeyez:


I had a girl then who could call almost all day and i had no idea to reply all she is talking. I would talk while i keep quite without any contribution or reply then one day i told her i am a shy boy and don't really have any answers or contributions to her discussions and right from that minute, she stopped calling. Now she would demand for money if i want to see her.
I don't belong to any group. Although on Sunday, i meet a church member and she asked me what group i am. I told her i am not in any while she is an usher. We agreed to meet today so she can list all the groups so i can know where to fit in.
Yea, i am always nervous and all ladies do notice that. When i call my sister, my voice would always be low and she would scream I AM NOT HEARING but when my voice is high which i thought i am shouting, should say what happened to u today, ur voice looks sweet but at my end, gosh, am shouting.

johnson232:

Even with your sister?
Are u serious or u are just kidding?
What level are u in school?
What kind of friends do u roll with?

deafeyez:


I just finished my ND as a Civil Engr. I have friends but don't go out with them like tht. Just yard friends.
Am not kidding, no.

iykizzy:


Boss harddon, I'm not ready to leave either of 'em bro... Dats why I came to seek superior advice from d Lords here... Pls tell me how to go about it bro.

johnson232:

Engineering!!!! & u dey do like this!!!
The most effective way i can help u is if we were to be living in the same area...This is not sth we can treat online....where u dey stay?

deafeyez:


I DEY FOR PORT HARCOURT. U?

HARDDON:


Selfish somebody!
While si many guys r on soapy therapy u r here manning two @ a blow!

deafeyez:


I just finished my ND as a Civil Engr. I have friends but don't go out with them like tht. Just yard friends.
Am not kidding, no.

bamtos14:
pls oga hardon help me o....z der any tin i can use to enlarge my dick is 2 small.... pls help me ask around

bamtos14:
pls oga hardon help me o....z der any tin i can use to enlarge my dick is 2 small.... pls help me ask around

johnson232:

We are very far apart....
Abj currently...

deafeyez:


I had a girl then who could call almost all day and i had no idea to reply all she is talking. I would talk while i keep quite without any contribution or reply then one day i told her i am a shy boy and don't really have any answers or contributions to her discussions and right from that minute, she stopped calling. Now she would demand for money if i want to see her.
I don't belong to any group. Although on Sunday, i meet a church member and she asked me what group i am. I told her i am not in any while she is an usher. We agreed to meet today so she can list all the groups so i can know where to fit in.
Yea, i am always nervous and all ladies do notice that. When i call my sister, my voice would always be low and she would scream I AM NOT HEARING but when my voice is high which i thought i am shouting, should say what happened to u today, ur voice looks sweet but at my end, gosh, am shouting.

Hey bro,

You have issues with conversations because you believe there's nothing you have to talk about with a girl.

But guess what....

Talking to a girl is easy. In fact you don't need to do much talking. All you need when conversing with a girl is to listen.

Girls naturally talk a lot. So all you have to do is listen and encourage them to talk (ask questions based on what they've told you).

That girl that used to call you, did she complain to you that you're not contributing to the conversation?

If she had issues with you not talking, do you think she'll continue calling you?

All you had to do was listen!

That's the secret to great conversations - listening.

People have a lot to talk about. They want to brag about how awesome their life is, they want to talk about their problems.

But guess what...

There's usually no one to listen cuz everyone wants to talk!

As an introvert, you have a skill girls crave for! The skill of just keeping quiet and listening.

I'm an introvert too A very proud one. Allow me blow my trumpet a little biko, girls love me.

Why?

Cuz they connect with me on a deeper level than they would with most guys.

My secret: I listen and encourage them to talk.

What you should do is: get e-books on how to have conversations. Read them and practice.

One book i'll recommend you start with is: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Heads up...

When you start practicing, you'll meet some girls that you can't connect with.

What to do:

1. Try talking to them face to face
2. Try taking them for a walk instead of sitting and talking
3. Try talking to them via online chat.
4. Try talking over the phone.

If none if these works, bounce.

Meaning, leave her and move on to someone else.

Easiest way to practice:

Talk to females who you have nothing to lose or gain from.

eg Your sister, That little girl in church, That lady you buy airtime from. etc

Cheers! Happy talking

deafeyez:


We can do sth on whatsapp 08174695200

DavidTheGeek:

Hey bro,

You have issues with conversations because you believe there's nothing you have to talk about with a girl.

But guess what....

Talking to a girl is easy. In fact you don't need to do much talking. All you need when conversing with a girl is to listen.

Girls naturally talk a lot. So all you have to do is listen and encourage them to talk (ask questions based on what they've told you).

That girl that used to call you, did she complain to you that you're not contributing to the conversation?

If she had issues with you not talking, do you think she'll continue calling you?

All you had to do was listen!

That's the secret to great conversations - listening.

People have a lot to talk about. They want to brag about how awesome their life is, they want to talk about their problems.

But guess what...

There's usually no one to listen cuz everyone wants to talk!

As an introvert, you have a skill girls crave for! The skill of just keeping quiet and listening.

I'm an introvert too A very proud one. Allow me blow my trumpet a little biko, girls love me.

Why?

Cuz they connect with me on a deeper level than they would with most guys.

My secret: I listen and encourage them to talk.

What you should do is: get e-books on how to have conversations. Read them and practice.

One book i'll recommend you start with is: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Heads up...

When you start practicing, you'll meet some girls that you can't connect with.

What to do:

1. Try talking to them face to face
2. Try taking them for a walk instead of sitting and talking
3. Try talking to them via online chat.
4. Try talking over the phone.

If none if these works, bounce.

Meaning, leave her and move on to someone else.

Easiest way to practice:

Talk to females who you have nothing to lose or gain from.

eg Your sister, That little girl in church, That lady you buy airtime from. etc

Cheers! Happy talking

DavidTheGeek:

Hey bro,

You have issues with conversations because you believe there's nothing you have to talk about with a girl.

But guess what....

Talking to a girl is easy. In fact you don't need to do much talking. All you need when conversing with a girl is to listen.

Girls naturally talk a lot. So all you have to do is listen and encourage them to talk (ask questions based on what they've told you).

That girl that used to call you, did she complain to you that you're not contributing to the conversation?

If she had issues with you not talking, do you think she'll continue calling you?

All you had to do was listen!

That's the secret to great conversations - listening.

People have a lot to talk about. They want to brag about how awesome their life is, they want to talk about their problems.

But guess what...

There's usually no one to listen cuz everyone wants to talk!

As an introvert, you have a skill girls crave for! The skill of just keeping quiet and listening.

I'm an introvert too A very proud one. Allow me blow my trumpet a little biko, girls love me.

Why?

Cuz they connect with me on a deeper level than they would with most guys.

My secret: I listen and encourage them to talk.

What you should do is: get e-books on how to have conversations. Read them and practice.

One book i'll recommend you start with is: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Heads up...

When you start practicing, you'll meet some girls that you can't connect with.

What to do:

1. Try talking to them face to face
2. Try taking them for a walk instead of sitting and talking
3. Try talking to them via online chat.
4. Try talking over the phone.

If none if these works, bounce.

Meaning, leave her and move on to someone else.

Easiest way to practice:

Talk to females who you have nothing to lose or gain from.

eg Your sister, That little girl in church, That lady you buy airtime from. etc

Cheers! Happy talking

DavidTheGeek:



Bro join the Whatsapp group for coaching. Honestly, I can't roll out drills like Harddon is doing here.

Enough respect to him!

The highest thing i can do is to give you some good ebooks to read and answer any question you might have.

My Nairaland mail is working... PM me if you still want to connect.

DavidTheGeek:



Bro join the Whatsapp group for coaching. Honestly, I can't roll out drills like Harddon is doing here.

Enough respect to him!

The highest thing i can do is to give you some good ebooks to read and answer any question you might have.

My Nairaland mail is working... PM me if you still want to connect.