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Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Sarah20A(f): 11:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Wait oo, are you a virgin boy ![]() ![]() |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
@ op how exactly is your predicament a bad thing? Well I guess it is because you're scared of approaching them but soon you'll realise that relationships aren't what they seem to be, its just really boring, time wasting, and a drag. If your fear of approaching girls is that bad maybe you can start by trying to chat one up online, for example on Nairaland/some people you actually know irl on Facebook/the Instagram DMs and then meet up later or something. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by blackbeau1(f): 11:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
You don't necessarily need to walk up to a girl and ask her to be your gf. That would be very stressful. You could start by just being casual friends with her and then ease into a relationship. That's way easier and guaranteed to last a bit longer than your average relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Yuji: 11:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
OP my advice to you is to focus on your studies or whatever business or job you are doing now and make investments for your future. Don't waste your youth chasing women when you can do that later. By then you must have been established and reaping the fruits of your labor. All the same, if you are a decent guy,I am sure you can try and find a decent girl like you too who is loyal. Don't mind these players here, because they all wish same thing you do,but think money can buy love. Meanwhile it's only sex they can get with their money and they wonder why no woman can be loyal to them! PS. Listen to the person above me. She is also wise! ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Nov6(m): 11:56pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
What is my consignment now ehn.... ![]() ![]() Me i don love.... ![]() alienhumam: |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by BERNIMOORE: 11:57pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
alienhumam:Naija social media is the worst place for you to seek meaningful advice because most people here lack moral training so expect to get hurt more but listen and select some mature advice too, i sensed that your background may not actually be the friendly kind but then just follow this principle Celebrate people or friends and you will be celebrated' buy gifts for a girl you actually like, send her commendable texts and a,y opportunity you got with her when she talks pls listen first and commend her, build from there but remember that the bad ones may feel you are not ok for them don't be discouraged continue you will find the right one, don't waste your time on facially beautiful girls but rather the moderate and well behaved ones are a treasure that will not give you heartbreak lastly pray over it and you shall succeed cheers. 9 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Kayleb26(m): 11:58pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
alienhumam: You need to deal with the underlying issue of low self esteem and learn to be cool with yourself... Getting a girlfriend doesnt guarantee hapiness if you cant find that yourself. At 24 and about to go for service... Hope you have something aside your cert? Find purpose and strive to live a productive life. You will realize that a girlfriend shouldnt be a priority. 8 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Mystic1(m): 12:01am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam:Where's your location? |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Nobody: 12:01am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Sarah20A: Anything wrong with virgin boy? 6 Likes
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Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by thesuave10(m): 12:01am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Yet to find an advice that makes an atom of sense. Come on nairalanders you can do this. About 30 people viewing this thread surely someone can drop something sensible |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by 0b100100111: 12:03am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Re u from Edo state? If yes, you need to go and appease the "Super Eagles" of your village. They re on your case! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by obataokenwa(m): 12:06am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam:Kai! Your type can fall in love with any kind of girl and your love will be so blind. Be careful and go for focus minded people. Hope you made First Class in school? If you didn't make first class without babe, my brother... your village people sit on your matter ooo ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by AAinEqGuinea: 12:06am On Jul 23, 2017 |
FreeSpirited:But some women are truly outta this world, so he'll find a suitable extra-terrestrial woman if he waits and builds now Tiffbuxas: Endless Friend zones loading 1 Like |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by PietroRico(m): 12:06am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Jodha:lol. |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Nobody: 12:06am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam: Are you sure you like women? |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by hokafor(m): 12:08am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Since U have stayed celibate for all this years, I will advise u to continue until u are gainfully employ, looking for a girl friend and the hassles that comes with it at this stage may distract u. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Elxandre(m): 12:09am On Jul 23, 2017 |
RealHaute:The same guy always chasing girls about on Nairaland talking about ignoring them. ![]() |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by junnyjake(m): 12:11am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam: You need to have a strong relationship with a member of the opposite sex, this may not be for the sole purpose of dating, but your confidence and composure because believe me you won't know how these skills would be of help to you. Stop approaching girls with the intention of a relationship, start things up with friendship just like you'd do with any guy out there, this douses tension and fear. Man up, any girl wey tell you nonsense, yarn her trash too. Don't take poo from no one, okay? Girls, no matter how beautiful or endowed are not angels, they are humans just like you are, don't take them as superior beings. okay? 8 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by obataokenwa(m): 12:13am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Kayleb26:having a girl friend is a priority as far as the both of them are focused. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by FreeSpirited: 12:13am On Jul 23, 2017 |
AAinEqGuinea: ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by obataokenwa(m): 12:18am On Jul 23, 2017 |
hokafor:Pls girl won't distract him. let him get a focused and reasonable girl. Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, [It is] not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by NovusHomo(m): 12:19am On Jul 23, 2017 |
24sqm: But for now, what should he do about loving and being loved? |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by nervegasfarts: 12:19am On Jul 23, 2017 |
You are 24, and going to youth service!!! You are at the prime of your life and you can plan your life without distractions and without anybody clogging up your mind. You can chase paper without stress! And the problem of your life is now girlfriend? Haba? 1 Like |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Rohzay(m): 12:20am On Jul 23, 2017 |
nigga upload ur pix let me see.....i need to no if its frm ur look or frm ur villa people |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by ponti93(m): 12:22am On Jul 23, 2017 |
You know if you had made money at 24, you wouldnt be complaining of not having a girlfriend... But dnt worry others posters hav already told you what to do... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Harkholarworle(m): 12:23am On Jul 23, 2017 |
My bro, many people Don tell u truth, God has help u not to be with any girl till this moment, I swear u don't know what God has done for u, more on with your life and achieve great things, don't be distracted by any girl now, the best girl in this world will create more problem than she will solve for u, sooner or later, many go come and then u will choose the right one. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by bigsmoke2(m): 12:24am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam:no big deal Bro am much older than u and I don't have a girlfriend. don't force it else u end up with the wrong person. Just keep an open mind. It will happen when it happens 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by grandstar(m): 12:24am On Jul 23, 2017 |
alienhumam: The problem with shyness is that you have a very negative view of yourself. This negative blinds your eyes to cues the opposite sex gives. For instance if you approach a girl and the girl is flattered and excited but tries to mask it by seeming uninterested, you may assume automatically that she rejected you and you reached that erroneous conclusion because of your low self esteem. First thing you need to do to gain confidence is to be ready to accept rejections with s shrug or gracefully. That's the secret of most womanizers. They don't care much about rejections. They just go on to the next babe. To get rid of approaching girls, give yourself this assignment: Approach 30 girls in the next 5 days preferably ones you don't know and ask them out. That is 6 a day. By the time you do the 30th, your anxiety would have reduced considerably. From a scale of 10, it will reduce to 2. The next stage is to approach a girl or girls you like and would really like to date. Learn a few pickup lines Example: hi, how are you? Has anyone told you you're pretty? Has anyone told you that you have beautiful cheeks( Make a genuine comment on something you really like on or in her). She would most likely blush and become a little self conscious, tongued and reply with a polite thank you. Try and recognise a blush when you see one. She may look down at her feet if standing which is an indication of blushing. Google women blushing. Go further by saying you'd like to know her. That you'd like her number. If she gives you her number, you've done quite well. Another advise is to be yourself. One fear you'll nurture is that you don't want the lady to see you as inexperienced as respects the issue of relationship. That'll be a big mistake. That will constantly put you under pressure and make you very defensive, nervous and apprehensive. Winning a girl is the easy part. Entering a relationship is the really hard part. Be open. Let her know you've not really dated before and she's your first. Rather than look down on you, she'll be impressed that's she's your first. You can even say you're a little a shy. It's a manly thing to be honest. Only weakling resort to lies to hide their weakness. With time, she'll show you the ropes and you'll learn. Be careful of your friends especially when they give you advise. Friends can and do mislead.. Also, treat her the way you'd like your daughter to be treated. Learn to treat women with respect (Matthew 7:12) 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by phawwaz(m): 12:27am On Jul 23, 2017 |
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Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by Nobody: 12:28am On Jul 23, 2017 |
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Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by mazizitonene(m): 12:28am On Jul 23, 2017 |
common go and make money my friend!! 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by AreaFada2: 12:29am On Jul 23, 2017 |
omoiyamayor:Gbam! Rejection is part of it. Sometimes the pretty one you expect to reject you won't. She might not accept right away but persevere. Not pester. The more you try, the better you get at it. Just don't be too sensitive to rejection. See it as the babe's prerogative to reject or accept. Laugh any failure at it & move on. 3 Likes |
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