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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 10:38am On Jul 21, 2017
poshestmina:
Is the ex looking for you to beat you up or what or are you in anyway indebted to him? Why would you leave a place because your ex is there?

Such childishness! undecided and who still remembers an ex boyfriend after 6 years of being married? It's either she still has feelings for him or she is ashamed of showing you off!

Lol, show me off? who them wan show me off to? Plus I am very good looking, no prouding, and shes always wanting to show me off to her friends. so the ex is not am exemption.
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 10:48am On Jul 21, 2017
Does any responsible male or female here realise that there are ladies that lack the integrity of a real woman? I am sure none of these cretins are married or would have a successful marriage. My woman knows I cant do nada even if her ex came saying hi, like I said my maturity don pass that level. My wife lies too much and it ha been destroying the relationship gradually, only grace of hope that things will turn around is what I am still continuing with. The last lie she told about her whereabout caused me so much heart-ache, that I had to beg her to let me go, I could not muster the pain of having married to a dishonest woman, only married people here can feel me. I blv my expression that she should let me go was what got her emotionally troubled that led to her childish act. I repeat, I am 87% sure the ex was never there.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by Prognose: 11:01am On Jul 21, 2017
Hmm.
It's like I read something entirely different up there cos no one has said anything about the real issue of this marriage.
Well, my 2 cents.


Op, learn how to forgive and stop holding grudges. I don't know what your wife did with her ex 5 years ago, but like you said, it's in the past. If in the present she is trying to tell you she is trustworthy, it is a below-the-belt hit to remind her of her ex in such situations. For goodness sake your wife is trying to be a better person but it seems you keep bringing up the issue to 'put her in her place'. That's not nice.



Another advice. This one has nothing to do with your story but I felt the vibes from the way you wrote. Bro, allow your wife to win sometimes. Most women don't like to admit that they are wrong or say that they are sorry and there's nothing wrong in putting your foot down and showing her where she has erred, but like the wise saying goes -too much of everything is bad'. Always insisting on your right might build up resentment in her. You may not understand the effects now but in decades to come (your marriage will last longer than that by God's grace) you will find yourself more and more at your wife's mercy, so to speak. Start investing in that future now. Let her win every once in a while.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by goods2017: 3:42pm On Jul 21, 2017
Whenever she mention her ex, gist about it, don't allow her to make a big deal out of it. If she does not stop mentioning it after some time, just say things like ' ur else abi, we don hear, talk another thing' with time the topic will be boring. Please don't allow a dead relationship to break ur marriage. Think of d child involved, be patient

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 8:19pm On Jul 21, 2017
Then get a divorce let's hear word undecided

cjones500:
Does any responsible male or female here realise that there are ladies that lack the integrity of a real woman? I am sure none of these cretins are married or would have a successful marriage. My woman knows I cant do nada even if her ex came saying hi, like I said my maturity don pass that level. My wife lies too much and it ha been destroying the relationship gradually, only grace of hope that things will turn around is what I am still continuing with. The last lie she told about her whereabout caused me so much heart-ache, that I had to beg her to let me go, I could not muster the pain of having married to a dishonest woman, only married people here can feel me. I blv my expression that she should let me go was what got her emotionally troubled that led to her childish act. I repeat, I am 87% sure the ex was never there.
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 10:17am On Jul 22, 2017
cococandy:
Then get a divorce let's hear word undecided


Birds of the same feather. You can never get married, and if u are, ur marriage will crash.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 3:44am On Jul 23, 2017
cjones500:


Birds of the same feather. You can never get married, and if u are, ur marriage will crash.
Everyone can't be in your shoes Oga grin
Back to sender to you 100 times.
No need to even say it. It's already it at your doorstep.
Failed maga that can't even own responsibility for his own actions.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by Martin0(m): 5:49am On Jul 23, 2017
cococandy:

Everyone can't be in your shoes Oga grin
Back to sender to you 100 times.
No need to even say it. It's already it at your doorstep.
Failed maga that can't even own responsibility for his own actions.
aaaaaaa na wa ooo;Du dey talk like this
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 2:01pm On Jul 23, 2017
cococandy:

Everyone can't be in your shoes Oga grin
Back to sender to you 100 times.
No need to even say it. It's already it at your doorstep.
Failed maga that can't even own responsibility for his own actions.

Your husband dont spoil u cos he loves u, cos ur a typical useless Igbo girl that loves Adultery. He is only trying to tie u down with the spoiling so u nor go go Bleep outside. Useless lady.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by Ishilove: 2:10pm On Jul 23, 2017
ifyalways:
Ol'boy. This na proper house of Ex's cheesy

See marriage now. cheesy

@OP, I think you and your wife should invite your Ex's so you guys can thrash this out once and for all then have a big happy reunion
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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 7:09pm On Jul 23, 2017
cjones500:


Your husband dont spoil u cos he loves u, cos ur a typical useless Igbo girl that loves Adultery. He is only trying to tie u down with the spoiling so u nor go go Bleep outside. Useless lady.
grin grin
You're right and it's working.

Why not spoil your own woman see if she remembers her ex anymore.

Tell me why she shouldn't even talk to her ex when all you do is nag and talk about how the child she bore you was a result of a mistake and you would not have married her if not for family pressure.

No woman who wants to be loved will be happy living that kind of life where she feels like she's not good enough.

You alone are the cause and will be the solution of your marital problems if you put pride aside and learn to love her selflessly.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by sisisioge: 7:19pm On Jul 23, 2017
Hmmmm...I like that you two are still hanging out together. As for the ex...well, that's another nice thing to keep you two on your toes. Don't take each other for granted tinz grin

Anyways, totally ignore issues about this ex. He is inconsequential.

By the way OP, you got some mouth on you!
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by baby124: 8:53pm On Jul 23, 2017
cococandy:

grin grin
You're right and it's working.

Why not spoil your own woman see if she remembers her ex anymore.

Tell me why she shouldn't even talk to her ex when all you do is nag and talk about how the child she bore you was a result of a mistake and you would not have married her if not for family pressure.

No woman who wants to be loved will be happy living that kind of life where she feels like she's not good enough.

You alone are the cause and will be the solution of your marital problems if you put pride aside and learn to love her selflessly.
Don't mind him. See his mouth like razor. Husband that keeps grudges, fights, has low self esteem because of one hulk of an ex. Lol. Is that one a husband?

OP, I thought you were forming that you are too bad. They said you should divorce Na, now you are fighting? It's obvious you trapped your wife with pregnancy after all you are the holder of the sperm. Only to hold that against her and use it to make her feel guilty to stay with you. From what we see here, you no be husband material. You better wake up and grow up before your worst nightmare comes true. Oko elenu razor, is that one a husband? See big fight because they say you should do your worst and divorce your wife! Are you not the one here talking as if you don't love her and your marriage was a mistake? Yeye de smell. You can't fool us here. Wife trapper.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 9:50am On Jul 24, 2017
baby124:

Don't mind him. See his mouth like razor. Husband that keeps grudges, fights, has low self esteem because of one hulk of an ex. Lol. Is that one a husband?

OP, I thought you were forming that you are too bad. They said you should divorce Na, now you are fighting? It's obvious you trapped your wife with pregnancy after all you are the holder of the sperm. Only to hold that against her and use it to make her feel guilty to stay with you. From what we see here, you no be husband material. You better wake up and grow up before your worst nightmare comes true. Oko elenu razor, is that one a husband? See big fight because they say you should do your worst and divorce your wife! Are you not the one here talking as if you don't love her and your marriage was a mistake? Yeye de smell. You can't fool us here. Wife trapper.


Oloriburuku ni iya to bi e. I never complained about the fact that she got pregnant for me. The basic topic here is her bringing up her ex when its not needed. I did not lie unlike others looking for sympathy, i said whenever I seldom bring up the ex issue is to correct her notion that she has never done wrong, I always hate to repeat the past, but she always feel am the devil while shes the saint. Whereas, in this marriage, she has done far more worse than a sane woman should do, and yet I still keep her? Una dey mad, u and that yeye stupicandy.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by baby124: 12:21pm On Jul 24, 2017
cjones500:



Oloriburuku ni iya to bi e. I never complained about the fact that she got pregnant for me. The basic topic here is her bringing up her ex when its not needed. I did not lie unlike others looking for sympathy, i said whenever I seldom bring up the ex issue is to correct her notion that she has never done wrong, I always hate to repeat the past, but she always feel am the devil while shes the saint. Whereas, in this marriage, she has done far more worse than a sane woman should do, and yet I still keep her? Una dey mad, u and that yeye stupicandy.
You are a big fool. Your own mother is a mad woman for birthing a mistake like you. Your mother will die in shame, disgrace and disease for making such a stupid mistake not to use you as menstratipn. Your mother must be a bastard. You think you get mouth? Which sane woman married you? You sef will now be cali g yourself a married man. O ba furo iya e, won ni jere omo. Ofo ni won ma de titi lai. Olosi, oloriburuku. Oko werey! Mad idiot. The fool that married you is who I pity, she will do better with her ex. You were obviously a mistake and a one night stand that trapped her. I now see why she regrets. You are not a man and you can never be. Your mother must be a curse for giving birth to an slowpoke like you.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 6:45pm On Jul 24, 2017
baby124:

You are a big fool. Your own mother is a mad woman for birthing a mistake like you. Your mother will die in shame, disgrace and disease for making such a stupid mistake not to use you as menstratipn. Your mother must be a bastard. You think you get mouth? Which sane woman married you? You sef will now be cali g yourself a married man. O ba furo iya e, won ni jere omo. Ofo ni won ma de titi lai. Olosi, oloriburuku. Oko werey! Mad idiot. The fool that married you is who I pity, she will do better with her ex. You were obviously a mistake and a one night stand that trapped her. I now see why she regrets. You are not a man and you can never be. Your mother must be a curse for giving birth to an slowpoke like you.

He pain am, I can feel and see that. I am glad it did. And its quite obvious its that yeye ashawo omo ibo stupidcandy that is liking your pathway to ruins and self destruction. Oloriburuku omo grin

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by baby124: 7:28pm On Jul 24, 2017
cjones500:


He pain am, I can feel and see that. I am glad it did. And its quite obvious its that yeye ashawo omo ibo stupidcandy that is liking your pathway to ruins and self destruction. Oloriburuku omo grin
Na you e pain wella. Why you no continue? Mad man wey de call himself husband. Rapist. LMAO... if you no rape am you go see wife marry? Babanla one chance husband. Tueh!

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 9:43pm On Jul 24, 2017
cjones500:


He pain am, I can feel and see that. I am glad it did. And its quite obvious its that yeye ashawo omo ibo stupidcandy that is liking your pathway to ruins and self destruction. Oloriburuku omo grin
You think I liked that post? I haven't even been online. You're obsessed with me the way you're obsessed with your wife's ex grin

Now I've to go like the post just to pepper you.
Even though I've nothing against your mother.
See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me. tongue

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On Jul 24, 2017
Yea you never complained but that was the beginning of your post. And you didn't fail to mention how the marriage was a result of pressure.
Lair.
cjones500:



Oloriburuku ni iya to bi e. I never complained about the fact that she got pregnant for me. The basic topic here is her bringing up her ex when its not needed. I did not lie unlike others looking for sympathy, i said whenever I seldom bring up the ex issue is to correct her notion that she has never done wrong, I always hate to repeat the past, but she always feel am the devil while shes the saint. Whereas, in this marriage, she has done far more worse than a sane woman should do, and yet I still keep her? Una dey mad, u and that yeye stupicandy.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by Martin0(m): 9:46pm On Jul 24, 2017
cococandy:

You think I liked that post? I haven't even been online. You're obsessed with me the way you're obsessed with your wife's ex grin

Now I've to go like the post just to pepper you.
Even though I've nothing against your mother.
See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me. tongue
shocked
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 10:53am On Jul 25, 2017
cococandy:

You think I liked that post? I haven't even been online. You're obsessed with me the way you're obsessed with your wife's ex grin

Now I've to go like the post just to pepper you.
Even though I've nothing against your mother.
See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me. tongue

Ngozi, na so u dey always bill ur husband like sey hin be ATM machine. see ur mouth like " See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me" nor let me change am for u ooo. cheesy grin
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by MissIndependent(f): 7:26pm On Jul 25, 2017
What is happening here? grin grin grin
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 9:15pm On Jul 25, 2017
cjones500:


Ngozi, na so u dey always bill ur husband like sey hin be ATM machine. see ur mouth like " See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me" nor let me change am for u ooo. cheesy grin
Donatus go and be your wife's ATM too. Maybe she will stop talking to her ex tongue

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cjones500: 6:11pm On Jul 26, 2017
cococandy:

Donatus go and be your wife's ATM too. Maybe she will stop talking to her ex tongue

I dey pay scatter and steady, my wife know sey am weak in that aspect of super-glueing my hands. Na part fof the reason wey d matter dey pain me sey na 1 yeye ex she think sey she go dey use try keep my toes on the ground. Fire! hell naw!!
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 10:56pm On Jul 26, 2017
cjones500:


I dey pay scatter and steady, my wife know sey am weak in that aspect of super-glueing my hands. Na part fof the reason wey d matter dey pain me sey na 1 yeye ex she think sey she go dey use try keep my toes on the ground. Fire! hell naw!!
I don't believe you. You sound stingy. grin
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 11:48pm On Jul 26, 2017
baby124:

You are a big fool. Your own mother is a mad woman for birthing a mistake like you. Your mother will die in shame, disgrace and disease for making such a stupid mistake not to use you as menstratipn. Your mother must be a bastard. You think you get mouth? Which sane woman married you? You sef will now be cali g yourself a married man. O ba furo iya e, won ni jere omo. Ofo ni won ma de titi lai. Olosi, oloriburuku. Oko werey! Mad idiot. The fool that married you is who I pity, she will do better with her ex. You were obviously a mistake and a one night stand that trapped her. I now see why she regrets. You are not a man and you can never be. Your mother must be a curse for giving birth to an slowpoke like you.


grin grin Tamper justice with mercy .
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 11:49pm On Jul 26, 2017
cococandy:

I don't believe you. You sound stingy. grin


I see you guys already kissed and made up cheesy.
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 11:50pm On Jul 26, 2017
baby124:

Na you e pain wella. Why you no continue? Mad man wey de call himself husband. Rapist. LMAO... if you no rape am you go see wife marry? Babanla one chance husband. Tueh!


grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 11:51pm On Jul 26, 2017
cococandy:

grin grin
You're right and it's working.

Why not spoil your own woman see if she remembers her ex anymore.

Tell me why she shouldn't even talk to her ex when all you do is nag and talk about how the child she bore you was a result of a mistake and you would not have married her if not for family pressure.

No woman who wants to be loved will be happy living that kind of life where she feels like she's not good enough.

You alone are the cause and will be the solution of your marital problems if you put pride aside and learn to love her selflessly.


Yesooo, e dey work nwanne, thats all that matters.

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 11:53pm On Jul 26, 2017
This thread took a turn to the ridiculous, coco and baby make una leave this dude abeg grin.
Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by cococandy(f): 11:56pm On Jul 26, 2017
byvan03:



I see you guys already kissed and made up cheesy.
It seems so. That's what I'm sensing too. cheesy

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Re: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by byvan03: 12:10am On Jul 27, 2017
cococandy:

It seems so. That's what I'm sensing too. cheesy

I guess he realised you aren't the ex that rocked his boat cheesy. How is my DIL ?am sure she is big babe now, send my kisses kiss.

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