alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

And so?

I think your problem is not girlfriend related but a grown up man with low self-esteem.

Oga, raise your head and walk like a niga

Don't give a f@uk about what people say

Yuji:

So you still have my time abi?? You think I am as broke and ugly as you. No wonder its only your mother and sisters that can have sex with you. Which normal woman would want to end up with a useless bastard like this pls? At least if you ugly no problem but try get money na so that you can date women. You are running away!
A won losers! LOSER OH!
LOSER! shameless LOSER! I have won oh! Time to celebrate. And he will still quote again. Because he doesn't have any job just a hopeless fool pouring his frustrations on others.
Tina my babe,dance and shame the fool for me oh!
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Yuji abeg no vex oh! You have really finished him. What a pity
Flawless victory indeed. I love this girl dancing

klarke:

Yours happen to be the best advice so far.

Tnx sir, glad I could help

Olibboy:
dats me. Na friend zone thing

lol..... Buh man gat start from somewhere, I believe dat will build his confidence when it's time for the main game.... Moreover which of us no start from friendzone

Caustics:
go to a brothel and upload the pics online. nobody will call you gay again

Hahahaha 4wie, thy can only change Wat thy call him.. .......thy will think calling him porn star

Jodha:


Lol ..asin .ehn..really no biggie..

If I was a guy I would have been very romantic ...

There was this day..a guy walked up to me..shaking and all..I was like dude calm down.. Nah we we..by the time I just flow with am..he was all better and we became good friends..there's nothing there..

I think the op do not have sister's or did not grow up with much female companies ..that's y he's having this issue..

Anyways..how are yhu doing..

it's not about that... I have a friend with five beautiful sisters. HE hardly talk to girls when alone except we are moving together... he will say, boss abet give me morale.. I will just smile and say boss go everything dae with you... at last he will get her number and the friendship continues... some just need a push and confidence from somewhere.

I trust myself... even if you are in the middle of the market and I like you, I will excuse you and who you. that reminds me of corper ola.

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aм тιred oғ мy вaвe, ιғ υ need нer нolla мe, ι go pυт υ тнroυgн

Tiffbuxas:
lol..... Buh man gat start from somewhere, I believe dat will build his confidence when it's time for the main game.... Moreover which of us no start from friendzone

Na so even banky w started from friendzone. now adesua is for him

Olibboy:
Na so even banky w started from friendzone. now adesua is for him

na so oo

Emenandez4lyf:
Same with the OP. i'm 21, buh i can't get one till date.
E no go beta 4 Shyness.

at 21? Sorry to ask, do you jerk off? It drains one of confidence

QuietHammer:
at 21? Sorry to ask, do you jerk off? It drains one of confidence

Sometimes

Primarily, you should have any of the following ;Money , Skills / unique abilities (even if its just good sense of humour , etc), and good looks (not necessarily being handsome) - at least at this stage of your life.

You case appears is more of no close female friends . Girl friend is still far fetched from you. Dont be distressed . Dress well, speak well, increase youf knowledge base, hang out with friends and get female contacts even if its just friendship. The more female friends and conversation held, the more confidence you gather. Asking a girl out is a 5mins conversation but how you handle the process that leads to that is what will make or mar you.

there is someone in every crowd you her that likes you , just have a good self esteem and do the aforementioned.

DATE JESUS TILL YOU GET MARRIED.

FRANKOSKI:
DATE JESUS TILL YOU GET MARRIED.

Come on bro, that's gay. Really, let's analyse it. The OP is a guy and you want him to date another guy(Jesus)... That's man-to-man faggotry and the OP stated that he is homophobic...

Sarah20A:
yes

I wan jand go italo. You go connect me ?

Rukky55:
must all relationship base on sex alone.u can av a perfect r/ship with out sex till wedding nite.

is there any other thing he want?

lol if this kind of person finally get the chance to touch a female, she go born eleven(11)plets!!

u have issues wit self esteem.. pls go and work on urself

SkinnyDude:
I wan jand go italo. You go connect me ?

I be travel agent?

Sarah20A:
I be travel agent?

You go know travel agent na

SkinnyDude:
You go know travel agent na

unfortunately I don't

Sarah20A:
unfortunately I don't

Smugglers nko? Libya route

SkinnyDude:
Smugglers nko? Libya route

I still don't know

Mrjo:
is there any other thing he want?

HE WANT A PARTNER

Rukky55:
HE WANT A PARTNER

partner,on what?

Vagabond so u decided to dissapoint ur father again like uve always done abi

Yuji:

So you still have my time abi?? You think I am as broke and ugly as you. No wonder its only your mother and sisters that can have sex with you. Which normal woman would want to end up with a useless bastard like this pls? At least if you ugly no problem but try get money na so that you can date women. You are running away!
A won losers! LOSER OH!
LOSER! shameless LOSER! I have won oh! Time to celebrate. And he will still quote again. Because he doesn't have any job just a hopeless fool pouring his frustrations on others.
Tina my babe,dance and shame the fool for me oh!
[img]https://media./images/5065ef19ac424563a7f61c08c32f9c92/tenor.gif[/img]

get 30 billion in ur akant first and u will be loved by all girls

DuruCee:
Vagabond so u decided to dissapoint ur father again like uve always done abi

And the bastard returns just like I presumed. How predictable! How was your kidnapping abi yahoo yahoo biz? Hope you got enough magas to steal from??
Why are you so shameless?

Business is fine. Have they finally chased ur pauper father from d house, I really wanted to help ur wretched family

Yuji:

And the bastard returns just like I presumed. How predictable! How was your kidnapping abi yahoo yahoo biz? Hope you got enough magas to steal from??
Why are you so shameless?

never pay attention for people opinion or try to impress anybody. if u feel good being single,just move on. focus for ur dream once u archive it, ur wife will come ur way. to have girl Frd will distract u from ur plan in life.(unwanted pregnancy/sin).

butanep:
it's not about that... I have a friend with five beautiful sisters. HE hardly talk to girls when alone except we are moving together... he will say, boss abet give me morale.. I will just smile and say boss go everything dae with you... at last he will get her number and the friendship continues... some just need a push and confidence from somewhere.

I trust myself... even if you are in the middle of the market and I like you, I will excuse you and who you. that reminds me of corper ola.

Then I guess..he's not close with his sister's.. Because if he was he could have taken talking to a girl as a normal thing..

That's what I think though..