As a single guy or lady hoping to settle down soon, what is that one thing (or things) that gives you this scare when ever you think about marriage? Like that one thing you could just imagine, then you'd some how feel thankful that you aren't married yet.



Mine may be funny or considered "unserious", but as an individual, I am so time conscious. It kills me when ever some one tries to keep from meeting up with an appointment or event, no matter how formal or informal that event may be.




Now, each time I think about marriage, I can not but imagine the fact that I will have to be waiting some extra minutes just for my spouse to finish dressing up, when we have to go out together


Fir instance, just sighting a married man inside his car, fully ready, but for his madam, is held back from driving off, I could just find myself saying "thank God I'm not in his shoes." Like what in the world would she still be doing inside that house



Well, I have been learning to be more patient with time. But I am far from getting there






So, let's know yours, and more importantly, how you intend dealing with it by the time you ultimately get married.

Tomjazzy2:
As a single guy or lady hoping to settle down soon, what is that one thing (or things) that gives you this scare when ever you think about marriage? Like that one thing you could just imagine, then you'd some how feel thankful that you aren't married yet.



Mine may be funny or considered "unserious", but as an individual, I am so time conscious. It kills me when ever some one tries to keep from meeting up with an appointment or event, no matter how formal or informal that event may be.

Now, each time I think about marriage, I can not but imagine the fact that I will have to be waiting some extra minutes just for my spouse to finish dressing up, when we have to go out together

Fir instance, just sighting a married man inside his car, fully ready, but for his madam, is held back from driving off, I could just find myself saying "thank God I'm not in his shoes." Like what in the world would she still be doing inside that house

Well, I have been learning to be more patient with time. But I am far from getting there
So, let's know yours, and more importantly, how you intend dealing with it by the time you ultimately get married.

The reason I will never get married is simply so that no woman believes that she can now relax and "let go" and instead, I want her to stay on her toes FOREVER, keep wooing each other FOREVER, keep trying to impress each other FOREVER, keep the fire burning FOREVER...and the minute she thinks she shouldnt do the above, then let her leave. I certainly will never settle for any baby whale (or potbelly, in women's case)... and sadly, many miserable people settle for these, in the name of "marriage"

Baba this one you created a thread on marriage, be like sey na settling down tins oh

What will now happen to all the fine fine babes in ph



For me, the fear of my future wife discovering my secret, it makes me feel like remaining single for ever

MrBrownJay1:


The reason I will never get married is simply so that no woman believes that she can now relax and "let go" and instead, I want her to stay on her toes FOREVER, keep wooing each other FOREVER, keep trying to impress each other FOREVER, keep the fire burning FOREVER...and the minute she thinks she shouldnt do the above, then let her leave. I certainly will never settle for any baby whale (or potbelly, in women's case)... and sadly, many miserable people settle for these, in the name of "marriage"

Yeah, I get it. Some ladies tend to be too relaxed and perhaps, nonchalant and lazy, few years into their marriage.

Not getting married for life, are you for real?

hammer2010:
Baba this one you created a thread on marriage, be like sey na settling down tins oh

What will now happen to all the fine fine babes in ph



For me, the fear of my future wife discovering my secret, it makes me feel like remaining single for ever

I have no ideas what you were talking about on the opening paragraphs


Really? I am just wondering what would happen if she eventually gets to find out.

Tomjazzy2:




I have no ideas what you were talking about on the opening paragraphs


Really? I am just wondering what would happen if she eventually gets to find out.

Haha. Well, if she finds out, the fate of our marriage will depend on how she reacts oh

hammer2010:



Haha. Well, if she finds out, the fate of our marriage will depend on how she reacts oh

Oh...

Goodluck in advance on that secret of yours

OP Scare and scar are not the same thing kindly amend headline accordingly.

MissRaine69:
OP Scare and scar are not the same thing kindly amend headline accordingly.

Modified, thanks for the heads up

Nothing scares me more than losing a partner to death and being a single mother cos of that.



So I need to marry a person that won't die young, so help me God.

Tomjazzy2:



Oh...

Goodluck in advance on that secret of yours