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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Amarabae(f): 11:31am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Thank you OP. Feminism remains a very import concept for wome, it opens a lady's eye and prepares you in know your rights and priority. Desperation to get married is most time due to societal pressure and it has pushed many ladies to do some silly things and later get emotional hurt. Staying with a guy when he is broke and you are hoping for him to use wedding ring as thank you is a bad calculation. Stay with him when he is broke just because you love him and not be hoping for marriage. Desperation for marriage makes a woman to be soft target for opportunists. AND ALSO. I believe that a lady should focus FIRST on being independent financially before looking for A Broke guy to help carry his broke cross. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Noblepreneur: 11:32am On Jul 25, 2017 |
I want to believe at some point the lady didn't develop herself while the guy was developing himself. When the dude started making money,the Lady should have asked him to teach her too how to fish and not give her fish. The dude is now seeing her as no good hence the reason he could dump her. I like light skin babes so much but I will get married to my dark skin babe who was there when I couldn't afford 10k and she rendered all the support she could (both financial,prayers,motivation etc)until I made my first million. Nothing on earth can make me let her go cos she is an asset(a big asset for that matter). Team light skin babe but I will settle with a dark skin babe(of course I won't cheat on her once we walk down the aisle). 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Victornezzar: 11:33am On Jul 25, 2017 |
rosalieene:In which world do d good guys end up with bad galz biko 5 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by rosalieene(f): 11:36am On Jul 25, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 11:46am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Amarabae:this is a piece of advice.thank you |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Noblepreneur:nice one |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by MissRaine69(f): 11:50am On Jul 25, 2017 |
y3mi:Ok I will wait right here. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Lsofdk(m): 11:53am On Jul 25, 2017 |
rosalieene:Lol… you have a point, but I don't agree entirely. Whoever is proposing has a reason for doing so. Some ladies that are perceived good are not entirely good and vice versa. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Lsofdk(m): 11:55am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Mariinee:Holla holla ![]() |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by DrayZee: 12:01pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
MissRaine69:That's all. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by MissRaine69(f): 12:17pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
DrayZee:Same wave length. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by pocohantas(f): 12:18pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
The things you should have in mind when dating a broke guy is... You're not doing him a favour...That he is broke doesn't make him a less human or privileged to have you. That you're with him means there is something you prioritised above finance, something that appeals to you. So, you're not as 'nice' as you think. The way you're singing how your friend didn't collect money, so? With money or education comes a change in taste and perception ... This one makes me believe your story. When you have money, you begin to wonder how somethings and people appealed to you. That's the truth. I know a man who gave his wife money to bleach when he became rich... Humans are selfish...The average human would step on toes to satisfy himself, that includes when choosing a partner. With money, comes more choices...don't be surprised if he puts his long term happiness over your supposed loyalty. Some of you spend so much time encouraging and developing him than yourselves ... You are always praying and encouraging him, when do you make out time to pray and encourage yourself? Remember with money comes change in taste. When he hammers and becomes digital, you're still analog... You didn't develop yourself in anyway, probably waiting for him to get rich, so una fit enjoy. His innate human selfishness might begin to manifest. You're not indispensable ...Some women think because they supported a guy in whatever way they think, he owes them his life. Yes, one good turn deserves another...but don't rub it in his face. Always help because you wanna help...not always because you want something in return...being marriage. It's only human you thing longterm, life thinks different sometimes. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nnemuka(f): 1:37pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Broke guys are good in one thing which is sex, that is all they can offer. Stay because of the sex but if you expect him to marry you, nne you are on a long thing. 6 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by ndributa: 1:38pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by styletrendy: 1:38pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
na xo life be 1 Like
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
SirMichael1:dude, shut up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
She was in love without her brain.... Good for her |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by okenwaa(m): 1:40pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
OP na waooo....dating a guy is dating a guy Nothing like broke and rich guy.. If he'll marry u,he'll marry u................whether broke or rich 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Bodylover: 1:41pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
I actually think, she is the girl. �� 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Michael004: 1:41pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:This is what I hate to hear. She suffered with who? Did she help him to carry block or what? Abeg tell us here which type of suffering? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by liyaha(m): 1:41pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Let her keep praying her time will come. Remember he who laugh last laugh best |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Victornezzar: 1:41pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
rosalieene:nawa oo small question dey pepper una 4 body 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by samx4real(m): 1:42pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Kondomatic: The truth is bitter... You are on point! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by SmartyPants(m): 1:42pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy: Well thats what happens when you fail to realize that your pu-c is not enough. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by chuksjuve(m): 1:43pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy: it happened to them doesn't mean it will happen to everybody.. stop this hasty generalization.. t |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Treydavid: 1:44pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by LordKO(m): 1:44pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Notionally, this happenstance is about the guy breaking up with her because he has made money. But literally, which is the truth, the guy broke up with her because he has achieved self-realization, and realized that the goodnesses she possess aren't enough for him. . . that however doesn't make her evil. My point remains, the importance of self-realization can never be overemphasized. The moment/stage in life at which a man/woman achieved self-realization always mark the beginning of such person's journey on earth. When you hear about irreconcilable differences, which is the major cause of divorces everywhere in the world, you will come to appreciate the importance of two parties achieving self-realization before entering into serious relationship in life. The lady should accept her fate, I know it hurts, and move on with her life. The guy broke up with her not because he hates her, no, rather because he doesn't love her enough to have her as a wife. 4 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
sekxy:I strongly believe that your friend didn't tell you the whole truth. Something is still fishy here! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
yes, you are right. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
SmartyPants:how does this relate to the post... spoilt child |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by bethyz(m): 1:48pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
I dated a guy when he had nothing . Though I was in school. when I graduated I told him 4years in school you didnt achieve anything. 5 years into the relationship I told him if after 5years you are still not ready no more. I moved on with my life. Now he is in Malaysia, showing me his houses and stuff he has now. At a time i felt if I knew. But then I am married to a man I love so much. I think all he showed me was just lies. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
I am broke, I am not good in bed, I am ugly, I even have a small p*nis... Madam face your front, what you looking at? Person no go hear word again. . . Ermmm, photographers do you know your camera maybe going bad already, kindly read this. Photographers only please, you have been warned. http://www.fototech.com.ng/dear-photographers-know-camera-may-go-bad-soon/ |
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