alexialin:
There is this neighbor of mine, hes a bachelor and lives on my street. Few houses from mine. Hes a nice man, has a reasonable job, hes responsible, and good looking in his late 30s. We greet each other, have small talks as friends. I know he likes me due to the way he gists with me, help me with my car like changing tyre if its flat in the wee hours of the morning before he heads to work. Infact hes a concerned neighbor.
But yesterday evening, as I came back from work, my phone was ringing nd I saw his number and picked. He said he would like to discuss something important and delicate. I said ok no probs. I will come over to your place, lemme freshen up first.

So fast forward, I knocked on his door he opened, and smiled nervously, I smiled back. He ushered me to his sitting room. So I was like John, whats up? Whats going on?
He sat close to me and was now going Into long story of how hes planning to move down to a serene area in ikorodu, he has gotten a three bedroom flat, all tiled amd spacious. I was like wow! So u are moving to ikorodu? Are u not scared with badoo and the killings there?

He laughed nervously he said ha! No badoo there again! Ikorodu is now safe. I said seriously? He said yes! And moreover he has already paid for the place.
I said ok o.. I wish u safe relocating then. He said thank you
Then he said but there is one more issue.

I said ok, u want to throw send off party? I was laughing

He said noooo!

Hmm mm, hmmmm, I said what nah? Why hmmm?
Then he knelt down and said alexia weve known each other for quite a while and i can say am comfortable with you around me. And u are exactly what i need in my life.
Pease will u marry me? Will u be my wife? Am ready to go see your people and do all the necessary marriage rites. And towards end of this year, we are married.

I was like wait, wait!

Marry you? Ha!
Its not that u are good as a husband but sorry I can never live in ikorodu.
Not wit the killings going on there

Am sorry I cant

Wow! Pls stand up abeg.. I can't

He felt so bad, I couldnt bear to see the hurt in his eyes. As I stood up, he said wait pls.. I said am coming.


Sighs


Now peeps look at this scenario

I can't jeopardize my life cos of getting married.

Ikorodu for me is a no go area.


Do u guys and ladies feel I was unreasonable

I know am not a spring chicken but I can't put my life in danger
And even apart from danger? I feel the distance from where hes moving to and where my office @is just too long. Hold up alone eveyday will make me weary and tired

Pls I need reasonable views and replies about this issue

I don't want to feel like am a bad person

Pls dont mind my grammatical errors!

lefulefu:

great

SlimHan:
Actually, I would like to make my thought known and air my view about your story but the truth of the matter is that as much as would love to give you a reasonable suggestion and bring you out of your dilemma, i can't but make known to you the fact that i really don't know what to say...


BTW

Why is Mr John rushing you with a proposal na, is not even like you guys were dating abi you omitted that part in your story

Romerocollins:


Think twice before you miss your luck, husband is scarce, ask Nnaka and she will explain to you better, you aren't getting any younger, a word is enough for the Wise.

alexialin:






My dear, hes not the only husband material on earth.

And yes, am fully aware am not getting younger..

But hello? I wont place myself in hell hole just because husband is scarce!

Ikorodu is no way!

And adamo as have confirmed few minutes ago is a no no for me


Thanks for your own concern.

Romerocollins:


Think twice before you miss your luck, husband is scarce, ask Nnaka and she will explain to you better, you aren't getting any younger, a word is enough for the Wise.

QueenOfNepal:
Who propose to a neighbour on the first day he meets her? Flee from him because you don't really know him

7footre:


And I was seriously patiently reading to know what you had to say

alexialin:




Nope we weren't dating
We are friends
I feel maybe as hes moving down to ikorodu, he won't get to see me as much as he would love to

I guess?

alexialin:






Abi?

You are right on that.

Although he wanted us to date but I told him I dont do neighbor relationship, Infact street relationship I no do

And maybe he feels, am scared he will dump me after sexxx? Which is one paranoia I have as well. U know how guys are? After sexxx? They move on.
I don't want such to happen to me on the same street. I will just die of shame! God!

So I made it clear to him, no dating.
So he came up with marriage and he said I can ask people around, he's a good man and husband material.


My problem is ikorodu. I can marry a man am not in love with, as long as hes presentable, has a good job, and he cares for me and hes good, loving and faithful, I have no problem. With time I will fall in love. Love is overrated jare

I pray he doesn't take it to heart I said no

If only he had consult me before taking such drastic steps!

It would have been a different story. I would have gladly say yes! And hang my boots on dating, just focus on making my new family work! And also understand him too.

If only he asked for my opinion!

A potential husband slipping off my hands.

Cos hes indeed a gentle man.

SlimHan:
lol but i said something na

alexialin:






My dear, hes not the only husband material on earth.

And yes, am fully aware am not getting younger..

But hello? I wont place myself in hell hole just because husband is scarce!

Ikorodu is no way!

And adamo as have confirmed few minutes ago is a no no for me


Thanks for your own concern.

zolapeperenpe:
Ohh my dearest Alexialin! I knew this day would come!

Few months ago(with your old moniker- Amelian) you posted something about meeting 'the one' and claimed you were married,unfortunately for you,you were busted by some guys here,so you had to change to this moniker and you started afresh with a story of a new guy way younger than you, yeah?

Now,this 'new,responsible,rich' young boy who happened to be the best any lady could wish for already introduced you to his parent(according to you):'he's already making plans about walking down the aisle with you and NOTHING/NOBODY can change that fact bla bla bla bla

He pays most of your bills,tells you 'baby you are cool just the way you are-you are not fat atall,just a lil bit chubby' and all those 'sweet nothings' bla bla

Someone even advised you take things slow and stop talking about this imaginary small fiance of yours to your friends all the time,but you replied that moniker by saying 'no need to worry,getting married to him soon sure pass death'

So if i may ask you my dear chubby Fadeyi/Onipan tailor; where is the 26 abi na 27 y/o educated,rich,responsible small boy you can't miss a day without writing about on nairaland?

I've been tracking you for a very long time here. This is what you do: ordinary 'hesssszzz,heesszzz,aunty we are calling you' from a guy,the next thing you do is come here screaming about 'how you are the sweetest thing in the history of Fadeyi/Onipan and its environs and how a new 'toaster' can't wait to marry you'.

Kindly reply me biko; where is your 27y/o small fiance(person never give you ring sef,you don dey scream 'fiance)

Change your moniker again you hear? 'we go still track you'

Theedetective BLACKdagger you guys should come here o, our very own Miss Alexialin aka Miss Amelian is getting 'married' again oo

Sisisioge we have a wedding to plan

sisisioge:


OMG! Are you serious?

Well, if this is true, then I guess she's just exercising her right as a social media user. One can be whatever one wants to be tinz. Amelian had a bobo that looked like Flavor o...I had quite a fancy about meeting the guy's brother

All will be well, stop trying to dig out her dirts biko.

@OP, you did well...the all story sounds too skenky.

sisisioge:


OMG! Are you serious?

Well, if this is true, then I guess she's just exercising her right as a social media user. One can be whatever one wants to be tinz. Amelian had a bobo that looked like Flavor o...I had quite a fancy about meeting the guy's brother

All will be well, stop trying to dig out her dirts biko.

@OP, you did well...the all story sounds too skenky.

alexialin:





Bitterness will destroy some women sha

Because no man has ever gotten to a stage of marrying u and zolapenperenpe, and begging for your hands in marraige? shouldn't be blamed on me

Am amongst the most sort after amongst guys.

And am as fresh as butter.

Pls no need hating on me, biko hate the game.

If my experience is paining both your brains, abeg dont click on any of my thread.

Its not by force to read my topics.

And anyone of u who wishes to change my moniker, Oya come and collect alexialin and change nah.

Miserable things.

alexialin:





Bitterness will destroy some women sha

Because no man has ever gotten to a stage of marrying u and zolapenperenpe, and begging for your hands in marraige? shouldn't be blamed on me

Am amongst the most sort after amongst guys.

And am as fresh as butter.

Pls no need hating on me, biko hate the game.

If my experience is paining both your brains, abeg dont click on any of my thread.

Its not by force to read my topics.

And anyone of u who wishes to change my moniker, Oya come and collect alexialin and change nah.

Miserable things.

zolapeperenpe:


I think i'm more interested in why they are using and dumping you after few months

Oma se ooo. *singing* ayele ibosi oooooo

zolapeperenpe:


I think i'm more interested in why they are using and dumping you after few months

Oma se ooo. *singing* ayele ibosi oooooo

sisisioge:





Alright, give it up. She didn't mean to insult us.

But if she's really Amelian then it is finished

sisisioge:





Alright, give it up. She didn't mean to insult us.

But if she's really Amelian then it is finished

alexialin:




How you wish!

Keep on consoling your deluded mind

Dumping indeed.