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Was I Wrong? by Balistic4: 6:40pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Hey guys I had an issue with Bae but I don't wanna bore you guys with the whole story. Yesterday morning my girl called me and told me she was sick which I suspected it was malaria. I told her to get drugs and she said I should help her with 2k that she has not gotten atm for her nysc account (we both serve in the same state but I work in a private networking firm as a field engineer). By default is was supposed to go see one of my site close to her area but my MD called and said I should cancel all my movements that we'll go to akwaibom for a new site survey which I had to obey immediately. I called bae and told her of the developments and that I can't show up again which she did not welcome easily. I even had to show her my MD'S call and sms he sent to me. Yet she refused to understand me saying I'll always choose my work over her. Fast forward to today, she was admitted to a hospital yesterday by my request to her fellow corp members and believe since that yesterday I've called everyone around her till dey even got sick of my calls, but I was worried cause my fiance behaves like a baby when she is sick. I wanted her to come here in enugu but since she is not strong I opted for the hospital over there. I've paid the hospital bills but what really got me mad was when she kept complaining about my preference for my job over her and how I could not come. But she knows how delicate my job is cause any suspension from my office the information will be relayed to nysc and I have gone for suspension because of my fiance and we both suffered because of the suspension. Pls guys anf babes, was I supposed to compromise my job to go see her within this extremely short period of time even after being there in the spirit? Honestly the report and design i submitted to my team was poor cause my mind was not there yesterday when I was doing the site survey. 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Don't be fúçking weak Man! Man the fûçk up! Why iz u blöödyfûçkiñg letting her get into yo head? Do not blöödyfûçkiñg make her yo number 1 priority, cos she will definitely blöödyfûçkiñg dump yo azz if a richer dude drops by 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
DUMP her, she is chidish. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by shams040(m): 6:45pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
hmmmm, pls elders come in |
Re: Was I Wrong? by newyorks(m): 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
the ball is on yhur court. yhu're an adult. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Mirandah(f): 6:48pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
You got yourself a handful here! She's needy. She'd always wanna have you around. and that might come off as selfish sometimes. that's what happens when you can't get enough of something. be happy Love, She loves you. y'all work your thing out. Have some Make up sex whenever you're in town. everything would be Aight. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
ßOTTOMLINE; Dump her fúçking lazy ass |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Divay22(f): 6:50pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai:Take a chill pill bro,it hasn't gotten to that. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
As you said, she's a baby. She needs some growing up 'cause without the job you can't pay your bills. 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Mirandah(f): 6:53pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Fuckly:Shut your virgin Ass down bish! 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by ojun50(m): 6:55pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Op use yr two hand draw yr two ears......yr job first oh if them sack u she go blame u, dump u, cheat on u, finally she go follow another man, she go come give exss say she no fit wait till u get another job. I getting old i want marry. Use yr head 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Divay22(f): 6:57pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
But she needs to understand na, that the bills won't be paid without you working... Get her some stuffs when coming back and the rest will be history. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mirandah: It fúçking runs in your doltish fam ,....hahahaha |
Re: Was I Wrong? by MissRaine69(f): 7:07pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Balistic4:Find another woman who has a bit more sense than this one. This is what I referred to women who only think about thenselves and lack any foresight. She needs to grow up as well. If you lost your job what then? Will she hang around? I don't understand men like you either These are the traits she shows you while you are courting, but do you pay any notice? No you will go and marry the girl fast forward a year or so into the marriage cracks appear because you chose to ignore the traits & behaviours that are not conducive to a relationship. The choice is yours. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Divay22:No time for future drama, a lady like the op's girlfriend will never appreciate her partner, even if the partner bleeds for him. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai:You think relationship is something you can just walk in and walk out anytime you want especially when love is involved, any lil thing you guys scream dump her, if you end up dumping every girl you date for their flaws then you will grow old lonely, unmarried and unhappy with nobody by your side. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Divay22(f): 7:43pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai:Yeah...but it's still haven't gotten to that extent.. Maybe op they over parpar her, she never know Wetin the country they read.. I believe he can make her understand. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by MrCork: 7:47pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Balistic4: ... which issue? 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Rorachy:hmmm well you are right, maybe i went too far with my post. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai:No problem. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Divay22:Well true, he needs to have a talk with her and talk maturity into her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong? by sorextee(m): 8:16pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Chase money first, and every other thing will be added unto you.. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by solomix10(m): 8:37pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
this your babe no get understanding which is the first priority in relationship |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Op, if I may ask, are you two not leaving in the same state? |
Re: Was I Wrong? by klark3: 8:45pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mirandah:So is there no other way to make up apart from sex? |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Balistic4: 8:46pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
henro4niger:Nope. I only go to anambra once in a month to do clearance. I'm a ghost corper there. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by pryme(m): 8:58pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Am sorry to say this but no amount of talk will change the Op's girlfriend. They say Experience is the best teacher. Maybe she needs first hand experience to know what life is all about. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Ishilove: 9:17pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Balistic4, you and your girlfriend have a lot of growing up to do. If you cannot ask her some serious questions then you two should give each other a break so that sense can fall heavily on you. |
Re: Was I Wrong? by CaesarDon(m): 10:24pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
You are wrong for making it seem like though you are wrong If u don't man up and talk some sense into her she would always use that work issue as your mumu switch |
Re: Was I Wrong? by Balistic4: 11:23pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Ishilove:Yeah, i guess you're right and I'm really going to give us a nice break. |
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