ibkayee:

Eh, there's no sure way of finding out to be honest, I guess I try to focus on tell tale signs that indicate that he's genuinely into me as a person and the relationship, can't think of every single thing I do but I'm generally very cautious when it comes to relationships, not saying it's necessarily foolproof though

Okay...good.

By the above scenario, you said you would not mind being part of such relationship. Now you have the above option and a second option same as above except this one has chosen not to be celibate with you but everything else remains the same. They are both equally desirable to you, no one is less than the other.

Which would you choose and why?

Gwaihir:


Okay...good.

By the above scenario, you said you would not mind being part of such relationship. Now you have the above option and a second option same as above except this one has chosen not to be celibate with you but everything else remains the same. They are both equally desirable to you, no one is less than the other.

Which would you choose and why?

When you say I said I don't mind being part of such relationship, what relationship do you mean?

Probably not be celibate

ibkayee:

When you say I said I don't mind being part of such relationship, what relationship do you mean?

Probably not be celibate

I was referring to the relationship where he checks all the basics you want in a partner and he also sees the same in you but has chosen to be celibate with you till marriage.

Okay.

Gwaihir:


I was referring to the relationship where he checks all the basics you want in a partner and he also sees the same in you but has chosen to be celibate with you till marriage.

Okay.

Oh ok

ibkayee:

Eh, there's no sure way of finding out to be honest, I guess I try to focus on tell tale signs that indicate that he's genuinely into me as a person and the relationship, can't think of every single thing I do but I'm generally very cautious when it comes to relationships, not saying it's necessarily foolproof though

^^^^ kaiiii...this one loooooklike one of my girlfriend...she's lightskin!!

ibkkk:
Love is a beautiful thing,no doubt.But as e dey go now,na MONEY AND SEX sure pass.

ibkayee:
Love is great but I'd choose money & sex over it

Ibkayee, are you doing good?... So yeah, ALL the 3 aspects of money, love and sex in that seqeunce are very important. I will NEVER follow the idea of choosing only 2 out of the 3 aspects or variables as a man because it means settling for LESS... and this is a limiting belief! In any event, TRUE LOVE (or commitment) in a romantic relationship, first evolves from self-awareness and self-love (or acceptance). There's more top secrets here... Second, with TRUE LOVE comes an intensely powerful series of mind-blowing sex... now with me, "Sex is a normal pattern in nature without which our species would be extinct." Without TRUE LOVE, sex becomes only a mechanical thing and majorly women become mere sex objects leading right up to resentment and divorce within 5-7 years of legally taking the marriage vows! Third, oh... I love this part , sustainable cashflow/inflow of money smoothens things up and enables a man to spoil his female lover with spontaneity and vice versa. I came back on NL today Ibk after nearly a week off, stumbled upon this thread, and contributed only because I saw your posts here. Surely money and sex alone won't suffice in a worse case real-world scenario, or you will set up yourself for a major fatal fall! You take care Ibk (omoge t'o cute). Ciao! P.S. I sent a quick PM to you last week (on the day the breaking news about the adoption by the UK of the Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine broke), so let me have a feedback.

RuggedSniper:
Ibkayee, are you doing good?... So yeah, ALL the 3 aspects of money, love and sex in that seqeunce are very important. I will NEVER follow the idea of choosing only 2 out of the 3 aspects or variables as a man because it means settling for LESS... and this is a limiting belief! In any event, TRUE LOVE (or commitment) in a romantic relationship, first evolves from self-awareness and self-love (or acceptance). There's more top secrets here... Second, with TRUE LOVE comes an intensely powerful series of mind-blowing sex... now with me, "Sex is a normal pattern in nature without which our species would be extinct." Without TRUE LOVE, sex becomes only a mechanical thing and majorly women become mere sex objects leading right up to resentment and divorce within 5-7 years of legally taking the marriage vows! Third, oh... I love this part , sustainable cashflow/inflow of money smoothens things up and enables a man to spoil his female lover with spontaneity and vice versa. I came back on NL today Ibk after nearly a week off, stumbled upon this thread, and contributed only because I saw your posts here. Surely money and sex alone won't suffice in a worse case real-world scenario, or you will set up yourself for a major fatal fall! You take care Ibk (omoge t'o cute). Ciao! P.S. I sent a quick PM to you last week (on the day the breaking news about the adoption by the UK of the Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine broke), so let me have a feedback.

Well Ideally I'd have all three, but the poster asked which 2 would I rather if I could only pick 2 and sex and money it still is

ibkayee:

Well Ideally I'd have all three, but the poster asked which 2 would I rather if I could only pick 2 and sex and money it still is

Ibkayee chooses sex before love... You have a "dirty" mind OK Ibk, it's your prerogative, but are you pondering what I'm pondering? My imagination has gone wild... Lol NOTE: Ibk, I've seen the email feedback from you tonight, and I love you for that! I'll PM a deeper convo to you soon. Last but not least, I can see you've gone to bed so as to get up fresh for work later. You take care... my "cute nerd." xoxo XOXO