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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Giddyperson: 7:07pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
hunniesuzie:She drools a lot and she's always trying to stuff her ten fingers in her mouth all at once, maybe it's teething, nawao no part of this is easy 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by chychy4us: 7:09pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Akorkor: Thanks dear, I am trying jare, I ll search for d videos. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Yesitsme(f): 7:11pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
debbydominic:never ever trust anyone not even yourself 2 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by chychy4us: 7:15pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
AlphaHandMaiden: Thanks ma'am for your response. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sunbestie(f): 7:17pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
XX01:That's cool I will give it a try when DH is not around . Thank you |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 7:32pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Chychy4us, Don't meet any counselor that is 1. A pastor, Imam, priest, "Apostle", "Anointed", "Bishop" etc. Not unless you want to sleep with him, eventually. Or help him buy his new jeep. 2. A married man, especially by himself. Not unless you want to sleep with him, eventually. Your options are: a professional counselor works with you and your husband. Or a female counselor. There are actually some people on Nairaland for this. Debbydominic, you and your husband have challenges in your marriage and neither of you have been perfect. It is NOT your fault he decided to cheat, he messed up, all by himself. You were in the house with him in a tough situation and he decided to be selfish, wicked and thoughtless. No-one likes being tired and saying "No". He is NOT a baby. No man outside will call another man a baby, it is women falling over themselves making excuses for behaviors they must live with, that do so. There are people who love Nigeria not out of loyalty but because they have no other options. Same logic with "all men cheat, all men are babies" etc excuses. Get the full details of all that happened. No, he doesn't get a cookie for telling you, not until you are sure the girl wasn't planning on making trouble and he decided to confess to ward off trouble. Then is he remorseful, what will he be willing to do to fix this? And yes, you are allowed a period of showing him pepper, it will keep you sane. 11 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by debbydominic(f): 7:32pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Akorkor:Thanks and Amen |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by debbydominic(f): 7:36pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
AlphaHandMaiden: I totally agree with you. God bless you for this. 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by blackFTM: 7:38pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mamas I am EBF my 4 month, will anything I eat affect him especially sweet things like ice cream, soft drinks and other ijekuje? |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by debbydominic(f): 7:49pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
BellaElla: She is 18 years and gave different Flimsy reasons for leaving meanwhile i was very nice to her. It was a month plus after she left that he told me the real reason why she left. He said he told her to leave because they started getting farther than romance. He told me she came to him. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jummy004: 8:56pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
enque:Thanks so much mama |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by keeki: 9:07pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Yesitsme: he was 38weeks and weighed 3.8kg |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
debbydominic: I said I won't comment on any marital issue again cos no marriage is perfect but this really left me speechless. Did she chained his legs, hands and mount on him? Flimsy excuses upandan, if he wants to apologize he should come out clean. I'm sorry to say this but they've gone farther than romance. May God guide you in any path you choose. 3 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sunbestie(f): 10:53pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
fruitfulhome:How much is d diaper? |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
chychy4us: Thanks for this response. Yeah, I know there are so many schools, am new around here so am not too sure about their quality. Am sure of where am coming from but that's pretty far. We will check these out. I stay around sangotedo actually. Thanks so much. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
@Debbydominic, it is well. First thing, try not to keep malice, it is very unhealthy to keep malice, then forgive him, if you don't, you won't have peace and you won't love. What if he never confess it to you? Try and forgive and move on. No marriage is perfect as someone rightly It is all well. 2 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 2:43am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Debbydominic I'm sorry I'm going to sound like a broken record, but your husband is a very selfish man. I'm going to play the devil's advocate..... What if he only confessed to unburden himself? Now he is probably sleeping and snoring away while you are beating yourself up about "pushing your husband into the arms of another woman", a small girl at that! What if they actually went far but he is releasing the info to you bit by bit to guage your response? What if the girl has told him she is pregnant and she is threatening to tell you? You have to stop the pity party and snap out of blaming yourself. It was 100% his fault. An 18yr old girl came on to him, a housegirl for that matter o..not all Dem Instagram slay queens, and he couldn't slap some sense into her head. You were nursing his child for Pete's sake!!! It was NOT your fault! I think you should look for a way to bring the girl over so you can do a pregnancy test and be sure she isn't pregnant. Then with that, you can both go see a marriage counselor to salvage the marriage. It is well. 12 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 6:02am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Hi evryone,bin awhile!How is you and yours? Hope all good! @Giddyperson,we are in d same boat(the flip and d drooling and all fingers in d mouth)Jay's own ba,he doesn't just flip while awake,even wen sleeping and he tries to drag himself join!Finally,we are going 4 our last penta 2day,tnk God!Kisses to giddybaby! 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Giddyperson: 6:42am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Sansa143:Hey it's been a while, almost asked after you yesterday, my whatsapp is no longer working. I can see you have your hands full. Goodluck with the immunization, ours in next week and as usual I'm not looking forward to it. Kisses to Jay, good to know he's doing well. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 7:19am On Jul 27, 2017 |
All them slay queens and #pepperdemgang# sugah: |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by reniduke(f): 7:28am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Thank you. Ill check it out today. Dunni29: 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by reniduke(f): 7:31am On Jul 27, 2017 |
God, why do women say this to other women. Love him more for telling you? Like he deserves some kind of award for confessing and lightening his conscience. Yesitsme: 7 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by reniduke(f): 7:44am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Sorry, i can tell you're heartbroken. First things first, having a young maid might have made cheating more tempting or convenient but dont beat yourself up for it, ur hubby would have cheated one way or the other since that is what he has decided in his heart. The way forward, is he remorseful, is he trying to win your love back? Then give him the chance to seek your forgiveness. Time will heal this wound if you let it. Stay in your marriage, forgive but don't forget, there's a lesson to learn here. However, If he's not remorseful and tries to blame you for HIS actions, dont accept such. Men are not robots programmed to be unable to say no to sex, so stand your ground on that one, stay in Your marriage very well but this time with your head and not your heart. Thank God maid did not poison you n baby for husband take over, your husband put ur life and your baby's at risk, tell him that. debbydominic: 7 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by fruitfulhome: 7:46am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Benignasweety, thank you so much and congrats on your successful completion of your program Please mama's Abeg make una try answer this my particular question. My baby is 2 months 17 days today. I want to buy a suitable baby carrier for him. Please advice me on the best and affordable one and what I should look out or consider in my choice making. THIS ONE IS URGENT OO, MAKE UNA NO IGNORE |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by reniduke(f): 7:47am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Which diaper is this o? portable4real: |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 27, 2017 |
fruitfulhome:Am using Chicco and its nice. I don't fear he will fall off even though sometimes, I put my hands underneath. It sold for 10k. 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Yesitsme(f): 7:57am On Jul 27, 2017 |
reniduke:my dear, he is her husband, its her family. No one will advice her better than she will to herself. Yes, he doesn't deserve an award but with d way d society is, he should be applauded ( we won't say that to his face) she just has to love him, cos he wanted forgiveness that's y he confessed, not all men have such conscience or guts.if she has caught him in d act then d story would have been different |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 8:04am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by fruitfulhome: 8:23am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Akorkor: This one is very true and since I noticed, I have been so discouraged from going to pastors for counselling 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ciscamustexcel(f): 8:32am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Naomi14:holy Ghost fire for all their heads. My husbands car is in a very bad shape so he uses mine for the now since I don't go out too often but when he leaves town and I must go out I have to use keke. So I told him that any slay Queen when sit-down for my seat while I dey use keke go miss her period for 3yrs and no babalawo go fit help her . My hubby com dey laugh say I be witch. 10 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hotmomma(f): 8:51am On Jul 27, 2017 |
ciscamustexcel: Kai auntie, u dey vex oh |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by fruitfulhome: 9:13am On Jul 27, 2017 |
sunbestie: No idea o. It was not mean that got it and I have just checked for the price tag, no longer there |
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