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Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 7:23pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
3months ago I met one hot tall American man with abs and tattoo that can make you slap you aunties. We started texting back and forth and he told me that he is in love with me and he wants to marry and I should be ready to marry me. The problem is I have been living with this guy that relocated back from abroad sometime last year and I feel like he is suffocating me because he does not do nice things for me like he used to before. When he was in the UK he would buy me shoes and bags but now he has been complaining that business is not going smoothly since he came back home and started afresh. I am deeply annoyed by his actions because he is not considering how I feel about having to post my videos and pics on social media with the same clothes and accessories over and over again. So this American guy is into construction and he has a home of his own and his children live far away with their mother in another state, so I am guaranteed no disturbance. We have been planning how I will get K1 Visa to join him so we can get married and live happily ever after. He will sponsor me once I get there and he promised me that I will not have to work because he will get the bills paid and all I will have to worry about is my blog and youtube videos since they are very popular. This guy from the UK that I will now refer to as my roommate, has not made things easier for me. I need money and he is not providing. I told my future hubby that I will get my visa paid up by myself but this roommate of mine has not given me enough to do so. I told him I needed to go to US to buy some stuff for my business so that I do not have to ask him for money for my stuff again but he has failed to co-operate. He is stopping me from being with the love of my life and I have been miserable since. What do I do to him since he is being selfish and thinking of his own business alone without thinking about my future? Mature advice only. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by ikbnice(m): 7:29pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
When a new rich dude comes into the scene, they begin to see all the faults in their boyfriend. SMH! Don't worry, I bet u av never met your American boyfriend and also, is he marrying u there or here from your parents? I just pray u don't get your fingers burnt. 15 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:32pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
Too many problems on Nairaland. People can no longer take decisions for themselves. Do we look like special advisers or prayer warriors? SMH 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by MhizzAJ(f): 7:43pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
Some people are just liabilities 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by coolcatty: 8:02pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
Walahi buhari is not the only sick person in this country... So many madt people looking sane. Only you have an American and UK boyfriends. Pls follow your American boyfriend... Leave that UK roommate of yours.... Take your bad luck to the American guy and kill his destiny like you killed the Uk own.... 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by babythug(f): 8:14pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
OP are you for real? 5 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Alennsar(f): 8:26pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
gold digger / Help Me Out Of This Complicated Situation (1) by mizzochocinco . 38 posts & 1085 views. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by edoman2016: 8:54pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
mizzochocinco:You are a very disgusting lady. I checked your profile and all I could see is your plan to marry a rich man only. Can't you hustle and be independent? Continue to search for a rich man that will be gullible to marry you as a liability. Stu.pid lady. 7 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
And the so-called husband to be cannot send u d money for visa? Y should your roommate sponsor d visa? 9 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
smdh. what a gold-digger. can't believe I just read this rubbish. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by elektra(f): 9:02pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
LMAO, I have a feeling a man is behind this moniker. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
why are women like this everything is not about money!!!! stop being materialistic 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by cococandy(f): 9:39pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype 14 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by eyinjuege: 9:44pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
And people believe the OP, who's just trying to get a reaction? Abeg, dream on o jare. We're all allowed to day dream aren't we? 5 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by tuscani: 10:26pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
Fake story 3 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Organs(m): 12:15am On Jul 28, 2017 |
cococandy: Cococandy: Check out Olajumoke, BBC Team Visits Olajumoke Orisaguna, Interviews Her At Home (photos,video) - Celebrities - You will soon be sending kola nuts and apologies. 1 Like |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Nobody: 1:46am On Jul 28, 2017 |
If this is a real post, Madam you need to correct your head. A man working in construction in the US does not make a lot of money. The work is also seasonal. I know a lot of men who work in construction that are living out of homeless shelters. If he has children in another state and they are under the age of 18, be assured he pays child support. This man will not be rich, nor will he be your knight in shining armor. Be careful that he does not want to bring you here to become his Workhorse. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by bizprat: 2:28am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Why don't you go to police and file an FIR against him? https://www.majorfact.com/best-washing-machine-in-india/ |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by sisisioge: 5:13am On Jul 28, 2017 |
OP, you've been skipping on your pills! Why nau? |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Aregs(m): 6:00am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Abeg who get dat Lil Wayne pic |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Lovexme(m): 1:58pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Nah, this has to be a joke from a troll It's too ridiculous to even give any piece of advise. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by nicerod(m): 2:32pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Aah Golddigger. Get a life sis |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Richy4(m): 9:22pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 11:25pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
edoman2016:please go back to focusing on your life if you have nothing valuable to add |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 11:30pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
cococandy:Auntie when did you give me a peniis? Are you done breastfeeding? Have you done the laundry? Have you warmed the bed for your husband? Mind your work abeg! If housewife isn't enough work for you, make i show you directions to craiglist so you can get a real job to keep you busy 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 11:37pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
BiafraBushBoy:If you cannot give mature advise unfollow the thread. It is really that simple |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 11:41pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:What kind of asset are you? What value have you added to Nigeria? After you have figured it out that you have not added value to any man anywhere on this planet or in this lifetime, kindly go and make your noise somewhere else please. |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 11:45pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
coolcatty:Bad luck follows jealous people who do not want others to prosper because they have never had the opportunities others are getting without sweating for it. Let that sink in |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Ishilove: 11:56pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Another attention seeking thread. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 12:02am On Jul 29, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Being in construction does not automatically equate to being a labourer Auntie Jelousy! Abeg Auntie go and pray to the Lord to do wonders in your life instead of focusing on wishing others the worst. Good things happen to good people. Maybe if try being a nice person good things may follow you too. Take it easy and take it to the Lord in prayer. |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by mizzochocinco: 12:08am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Ishilove:And it is not your attention that I am seeking. Like I said MATURE ADVICE ONLY, if you have nothing to add, carry on and leave this thread alone. You will not lose a leg or grow a tumor if you unfollow the thread. 1 Like |
Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by Nobody: 12:16am On Jul 29, 2017 |
mizzochocinco: Alright silly girl (or gay boy). Keep up with your fairytale. 3 Likes |
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