hello nairalander pls I need your help...am not that shy but I don't no how to mingle with people and make friends... I don't know how to start a conversation and also maintain it for long.....I can be indoor for a whole day without talking to anybody...to walk up to a girl I love and tell her my mind na problem... that is why i keep loosing all my crush to another sharp guy....I can crush on. girl I have feelings for....for a whole year without walking up to her...and jst being imaging things with her...... am already getting tired of this boring life ...I want to be social ...entertaining... and also cool to be with ....I have passion of working in the entertainment industry and I do not know how bring an introvert can guarantee me that.... is there anyone who have pass this stage and have overcome it should pls share his/her experience

some suggest I should go and buy books like how to keep friends and all that

pls share your experience if you have pass through this stage before and how you overcome it..
help. brother please

mod pls help a bro and shift it to the permanent site

lol

If actually, you are an introvert... you wouldn't type this...

Being an introvert is certainly the best thing that can happen to anybody now. You save money from numerous outings that should have consumed your savings... You learn to love your own company... your happiness isn't dependent on people... and so on...

About you not maintaining a reasonable conversation... I think it boils down to who you are having the conversation with. In the midst of starngers... I am as boring as hell... but with a CLOSE friend, you can call me that parrort that never stops talking.

So I advise you to maintain your introverted nature. Don't leave us please

was once like u Bro
gather mind 2 talk 2 dem, u won't even know wen u av abandoned dis introvert lifestyle of urz
btw op I don't like partying or going out with friends

so you want tips on how to become a fuckboy



















well you are going to have to pay for that

Just do it

indodon:
so you want tips on how to become a fuckboy




















well you are going to have to pay for that

bro am not talking of being a fuvk boy...jst wanna be social I mean being an extrovert

Victornezzar:
was once like u Bro
gather mind 2 talk 2 dem, u won't even know wen u av abandoned dis introvert lifestyle of urz

pls how did you overcome yours

Dablack1:

pls how did you overcome yours

started mixing freely with some female friends

BiafraBushBoy:
lol

If actually, you are an introvert... you wouldn't type this...

Being an introvert is certainly the best thing that can happen to anybody now. You save money from numerous outings that should have consumed your savings... You learn to love your own company... your happiness isn't dependent on people... and so on...

About you not maintaining a reasonable conversation... I think it boils down to who you are having the conversation with. In the midst of starngers... I am as boring as hell... but with a CLOSE friend, you can call me that parrort that never stops talking.

So I advise you to maintain your introverted nature. Don't leave us please

So if I catch you for outside now ehn Bush,you go dey look me like mumu ehn

JeffreyJamez:



So if I catch you for outside now ehn Bush,you go dey look me like mumu ehn

...

Depending on where you catch me sha... I dey even commot house sef?

Where you wan stay catch me?

In case you have a crush, you can call her on phone and tell her your mind

The most active people on social media are introverts .

I think if you are naturally an introvert it will take a lot of energy to become extroverted, but you can always try- maybe look at wearing some bright coloured and trendy clothes, and when you see another girl, just instantly strike up a conversation. You don't have to say anything exciting, instead focus on asking them about their opinion, what they've been doing etc- people love to talk about themselves. Maybe take up a hobby that gets you into the spotlight more eg. drama class, public speaking, singing etc, then you will easily be noticed. I can tell you it is hard to change, so better to try and accept yourself the way you are and find people who appreciate your quiet calm manner instead.

Victornezzar:
started mixing freely with some female friends

that what I find it hard doing .....I don't know how to start

Oya op lets b frnds .send ur WhatsApp digit lets c hw we cn help u

Dablack1:

that what I find it hard doing .....I don't know how to start

just try man
there's nothing there

Dude as an introvert, your strong point is not in social gatherings and meetups, your strong point is creativity and analytical thinking.

Stop trying to be an extrovert, improve on your strengths and you would be happy with your life.

I am a living example.

BiafraBushBoy:
lol

If actually, you are an introvert... you wouldn't type this...

Being an introvert is certainly the best thing that can happen to anybody now. You save money from numerous outings that should have consumed your savings... You learn to love your own company... your happiness isn't dependent on people... and so on...

About you not maintaining a reasonable conversation... I think it boils down to who you are having the conversation with. In the midst of starngers... I am as boring as hell... but with a CLOSE friend, you can call me that parrort that never stops talking.

So I advise you to maintain your introverted nature. Don't leave us please

I do talk when am around my friends but am always shy and quiet in the midst if strangers like you just typed...am not free with the opposite sex...am always feeling somehow when am around them

temmytopsy1:
In case you have a crush, you can call her on phone and tell her your mind

how do I get her number

Davidgrey:


If you really are an introvert the "desire" to seek others wouldn't exist in you | You can successfully practice a few "extroverted behaviors" but your basic nature is set

Wrong. It took me 15 years to realize I could never be an extrovert.

Modsenemy:
The most active people on social media are introverts .

I can b indoor for 24hrs....so far I have full battery and data..am ok

Dude I'm also an introvert, i hardly socialize. You can't see me at any club or party if not that it's compulsory. I buried my head into learning to make better life for myself for some years studying books online and buying business oriented newspaper. Now it has paid off because i'm a millionaire. Call it bragging i don't care. Yet no girlfriend. But i like it that way for now. Life is good. It is okay to be introvert, makes you focus on important things of life. I'm not ready to be extrovert but willing to make good friends. Bye.

Bro bro bro
The social media is heaven to introverts
Is serves two important purpose for intoverts
1) a medium to meet people and hold conversation that you may not be able to hold in real life

2) it is a sort of learning institution that let's you learn how to interact with people e.g you learn topics that interest people and how to respond to a person

So learn away, today is your first day at school
Just make sure you don't join the bad gangs

However, you still have to improve your confidence around people, si testing your new social skills among your closest friends or family may help with that

But opposite sex no help anybody na

Dablack1:

I do talk when am around my friends but am always shy and quiet in the midst if strangers like you just typed...am not free with the opposite sex...am always feeling somehow when am around them

Dablack1:

bro am not talking of being a fuvk boy...jst wanna be social I mean being an extrovert

what the difference brah

BiafraBushBoy:


...

Depending on where you catch me sha... I dey even commot house sef?

Where you wan stay catch me?

No worry.... I go catch you soon

JeffreyJamez:


No worry.... I go catch you soon

You no fit ...

Did you attend that Tech conference at Eko hotels?

BiafraBushBoy:


You no fit ...

Did you attend that Tech conference at Eko hotels?

Naah....was too occupied.

I attended last year's own.

Did you?

Yeap!!

Twas terrific. I went to track one Govt woman like that sha... na my aim of going. I collected her details and left sharp sharp

But it was great. Lest I forget... I also eat their cake and drank their tea

JeffreyJamez:


Naah....was too occupied.

I attended last year's own.

Did you?