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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by ironheart(m): 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
It's not a must to forgive, if you cannot handle it, let it go 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by ABIOLAXYZ(m): 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Rasheedat Forever |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:34pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Afromalaika:lol, i can swear with anything i wrote thise within 15 minutes as a blog reader requested for it. For your information, relationship topics ngba lorimi ni o. Check my blog i never do that, as in, i detest copy and pasting. And please don't accuse without concrete evidence, it is punishable and it has extremely positive effect on someone who work hard to achieve a thing. I don't even know that woman you mentioned let alone copying her work,God forbid. 7 Likes |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:35pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
ironheart:i know some people cannot, but this post could cause some that cannot to be able, Saul was changed you know! |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by johnbimbo12(m): 10:36pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Legit, and timely. Its the bitter truth. Thumbs up OP! |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by goodnewscliff(m): 10:37pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
it hurt me to see a guy leading in dis relationship forgiveness thing!!! its either theres trust or not will u forget if u forgive is d issue abt infidelity?? once trust is broken,, it may or may never take years to rebuild 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by akwaforum2020: 10:46pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by elantraceey(f): 10:46pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
True repentance is when you're truly sorry and don't go back to same mistake, a lot of people are never truly sorry for wrongs they do hence forgiving is more difficult. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by akwaforum2020: 10:47pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:47pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
goodnewscliff:i rebuke the spirit of unforginess in you in Jesus name... |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by pocohantas(f): 10:50pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
austinosita: Men EASILY forgive infidelity? LOL! This has to be the joke of the decade... |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by lonelydora: 10:51pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
shinarlaura: My bible said you need to forgive 70×7 times. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by canalily(m): 10:51pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
shinarlaura:am ur hapines |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by simchi2(m): 10:56pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
you made sense bru, keep it up. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:57pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
akwaforum2020:Stop now, this isn't professional for your kind of field, use the advert section, left to me i will even dash you relationship topics. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:58pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
lonelydora:thank you for this jare. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 11:00pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
canalily: Seriously? |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Toks2008(m): 11:00pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
I agree and I remember creating a similar thread www.nairaland.com/3877485/only-type-partners-enjoy-best/2 |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 11:01pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
lonelydora: That's true but it's not easy 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by richard870(m): 11:13pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
shinarlaura:sighs * |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by omooba969(m): 11:14pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Marriage can make you just as it can destroy you !
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 11:20pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
austinosita:we are listening joo... |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by burakado17: 11:24pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Even when you caught her or him in the act with her or his ex on your matrimonial bed bamisepeters: |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by HarveySpecter1: 11:27pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Talk2Bella: Is it your Dick he used to cheat? |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
True sha. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by smith666999(m): 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
I keep forgiving my gf but she doesn't forgive thoroughly. I had to break up with her. now she is my Ex! some girls aint worth it at alll. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
HarveySpecter1:Hahaha, omg, this got me . 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
bamisepeters: I doubt if you are married yet... The greatest sin in marriage is infidelity.. If your partner does not respect the institution called marriage.... If she is such a serial infidel that runs after anything in trouser and a car, tell me how many times you'd forgive and overlook? And please don't give me any biblical 70x7. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
austinosita:I refute your claims, its actually ladies that easily forgive cos they have soft mind. The thing about forgiveness is just that if you love someone, to forgive the person won't be that difficult . |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
bamisepeters: OP, nice write up but this theory is wrong and somewhat pretentious... the reason siblings stay together and bicker and make-up is cos the love of siblings is different from what partners share, there are things that i would forgive a sibling for no matter how hard it is for me but every relationship has boundaries and if my own sibling crosses an unforgivable line, the relationship is over and we'll become estranged. if my sibling stabs my mother to death multiple times or rapes my child who went for holiday in his house, i will never EVER forgive that and we will never be the same again, even sibling bonds can be broken by wrong-doings of unbearable gravity. same with partners. there is no such thing as "love knows no offense" if that was true the phrase "love is forgiving" will not exist since there's no offense in the first place and the phrase "love is forgiving" does not count if a devastating harm has been done, the fact that u love someone does NOT mean they are good for u, simple. what makes a relationship stronger is memories of good times, mutual satisfaction and hard times(experienced together) emphasis on the words in bracket!! when 2 ppl go through something and feel it just as equally, if they get through it together, it can bond them but if one person is hurting and the other, not so much, it does not bring them together at all, even worse if one person caused the pain of the other. if 2 friends are broke and starving, when they finally get food to eat, they'll both laugh at how hunger dealt with them, it's not the same as one friend is starving and the other is there eating indomie and saying since he's in the same room with the starving friend, it'll make them closer. false! if an experience is not equally shared by both ppl, only the hurting person is affected and it strengthens nothing, only breeds resentment. also false, the fact that a person cant forgive an act from a partner does not mean they stop loving them, they just decide to not be with them anymore for the sake of their own happiness and move on and over time, u stop loving them. everyone has their own breaking point and it's better for u to walk away than to stay in a toxic relationship. some ppl have gotten into use of narcotics with their partners, they go to rehab, get clean and go back to this same person and relapse into the same toxic cycle, their partner is their enabler and they have to quit him/her in order to kick this addiction, they either walk away or stay till they die of an overdose. some ppl have partners that can never close their legs or control their dicks, they keep forgiving and crying their eyes out in private and finally get their wake-up call when they're given the gift of HIV, some ppl have gone back to partners who get angry and lash out of them and eventually left in a casket. love is never enough to sustain a relationship, it takes work from BOTH SIDES and if one side is malfunctioning to a point the other side begins to break down, a dissolution becomes absolutely necessary, a relationship is not everything, yes, it's nice to find a good person to be with but it's better to be happy alone than utterly miserable with someone you love. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 11:36pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
azeezhy:the bolded got me . I mentioned something that many didn't read, the last two paragraphs. You don't have a choice after you have tried to be spirit more than at least 2 times. When your forgiven spirit it taken for granted several times many people will know you have even over tried. But there are some people who can forgive over and over again sha o, but before you can forget about forgiveness you should try to put others in your shoes, it fit be you ooo. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Buking1: 11:38pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Get ur partner here
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