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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by canalily(m): 8:59am On Jul 30, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 30, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Free4man: 9:09am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Psoul:Matured man! If your wife is been laid by another man you need to think twice. And forgiving might not be the best option because it is a deliberate act. You can forgive on other issue relating to you home development and and such but cheating is another thing entirely. Someone who forget about your kids, sacrifice and other things and get laid by another man after getting married deserve no forgiveness to me . Don't get an honest fellow into the loop of infidelity. The loop tends to infinity. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 9:36am On Jul 30, 2017 |
bamisepeters:Are you tracking my comments ![]() |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Justdare: 9:44am On Jul 30, 2017 |
austinosita:I "very" disagree with you and your position on this matter. Guys don't forgive easily especially if it's infidelity. On the contrary the women folk forgives us a zillion times more than we do them. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:10am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Rorachy:oh! Now you just know, i might be quiet in the sections but i mention everyone when my topic is based on what they usually talk about when they reply on post, it will be someone else's turn next time. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:13am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Psoul:marriage will definitely start from somewhere, you know tree cannot be climbed from the top and it is what you do now you build upon. Everything in life us stage by stage. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Prince16: 10:14am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Talk2Bella: How many times did Christ ask us to forgive? Matthew 18:21-22 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. 70*7= 490 times If forgiveness for a spouse infidelity cannot be forgiven, then celibacy is d only option: Matthew 19:3-12 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it. EOS |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Prince16: 10:24am On Jul 30, 2017 |
bamisepeters: U must've listened to Ebenezer Obey's Kétékété (if not, go listen to it). U can't please d world. Even d son of man who came, healed and fed d ppl was also crucified by d same ppl he came to comfort. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- RE: MOST WOMEN RESPECT SPIRITUAL LEADERS THAN THEIR HUSBAND #on_point! Who is ds religious leader pls? |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 30, 2017 |
austinosita:The truth is I don't have soft mind neither am I emotional but I forgive easily and I don't forget. And I have seen guys that refuse to forgive no matter the amount of pleading, if she sincerely loved you, she would have forgiven you, if she don't forgive after several attempts of pleading with her, its best you just let her go her way.. Dating someone that doesn't have forgiving spirit is very difficult. They are difficult people. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
jacyhelen:Thanks ![]() |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Rorachy: I think it's usually ladies with a soft heart and that are emotional that easily forgives. And how come you don't forget and you forgive?......you've not really forgiven if you can't erase it from your memory |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
pocohantas: Is infidelity the only issue in relationships? |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
austinosita:I like to remember what people did to me. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Rorachy: Do you think you need it? It'll only hurt you the more! If you truly love that person deeply, you should be able to forget, let go and move on! |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by djgrafiti(m): 1:29pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
bamisepeters:In a satanic point of view....if a man slap u on one cheek,smash him on the other,an eye for an eye,a blow for blow,give pain for pain with compound interest,love those who love u and hate those who hate u....now back to the topic...I will only forgive if she is ready to forgive me when I offend her too.She don't forgive,I don't forgive. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Eluwilussit(m): 2:00pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Free4man: I know so many people that their wives cheated on and even had kids for other men and they forgave them and moved on to live a happy and healthy life. Nobody likes to be cheated on but if we are honest, we will all agree that most people cheat on their spouses. It is very common than we realize. It is happening and people find ways to handle it. There is no guarantee that the next person will not do the same. While we are not God by any means, we are his children and are expected to emulate Him. Forgiveness is key to living a great life. If you don't forgive, you get bitter, and bitterness is poisonous to the soul, spirit and body. Yes, I will forgive and appear weak than live in bitterness and anger. Relationship is much more than sex. Love does not count wrongdoings. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by emzeezlee(m): 2:55pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
austinosita:But they might repeat the same thing, so you need to remember it for you to remind them when they do it again. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 3:17pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by ndifonsimon(m): 3:20pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
So u mean if u can't forgive, u can't go into a relationship? Have u been offended before Mr/Mrs writer? Have u tasted the agony of pain before? I mean the kind that u hardly forgive your own self let alone your offender? I totally disagree with this write up |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 3:47pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
djgrafiti:that is why i said it could be anyone at fault as humans, this is why you should learn that forgiveness spirit as its importance in marriage sustainance cannot be over emphasized. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 3:53pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Prince16:you know joo. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 3:57pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ndifonsimon:you are free to disagree but know that most times i have experienced what i write through some people. I read my posts like a normal reader because what i write most times isn't with my understanding. I write them and when i read i feel like i didn't do this. It goes even beyond muy understanding, we are all learning. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Psoul(m): 4:03pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Free4man: I kw you'll say a thing like this. I'm not surprised. Why do we always talk about a woman bn laid by another man. Whatever u do, will one day come back to you. If you have bn sleeping around wt multiple women or other ppl's wife, ur wife will be laid by others. By the time it happened, you may have forgotten about ur own sin. Let me tell you, a man is as guilty as the woman he commits adultery wt. Let us stop making women more guilty. If you sleep wt women other than ur wife and u catch ur woman in the act and refused to forgive her, ur punishment will be unimaginable. This is because u just showed God that u don't deserve forgiveness. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Psoul(m): 4:09pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
bamisepeters: My brother you are correct but why I chose to take it to married ppl is dat marriage is a more serious affair than boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. A partner in boyfriend girlfriend relationship may chose to walk out of the affair et any flimsy excuse and no one will worry much about it. You may decide not to forgive many things in such affair and ppl will find no problem wt dat. In marriage you have more stake and tend to endure what u may not ordinarily endure. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 4:21pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Psoul:i get your point sha. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by emzeezlee(m): 7:36pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
shinarlaura:lolz..confirm |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Free4man: 9:24am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Psoul:It appears to me clearly now. I won't continue with such woman because I don't cheat. You will forgive her because you also a cheat. I believe infidel will marry and infidel. And in a situation whereby a good soul meet an infidel that continues to dwell in his or her sin, it is better for the soul to part from such negative individual. I rest my case. |
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Psoul(m): 1:37pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
Free4man: I neither glory nor honor fools |
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