Here's what he shared;

Based on Direct & Indirect Observation I've gathered that some ladies date the same group of guys, guys in the same social circle or clique. The irony is that these ladies who date guys in the same clique always expect a different result In terms of Relationship Progress, Engagement � or Mutual Respect from guys in the clique or their peers but most times it doesn't happen.

In Psychology,  there's a Sampling Technique known as "Randomisation" which is assinging Participants to a group by allowing them all have equal chances of being choosen so as to achieve standardized result or standard opportunities.  This being said, Ladies if you want to an equal and justifiable opportunity for meeting a guy, Don't date or mingle with guys in the same circle over a long period of time because .

1⃣ You won't have that "Wow", "Damn", "OMG who's she effect" because they already know a lot about you 
2⃣ They may start looking at you like one of the guys and friendzone you automatically 
3⃣ Guys gossip more than ladies and you'd be surprised what the guys in the circle may have shared about you, they may know every dimple and scar on your body 
4⃣ You may end up being a conquest. A guy may be like since Akin,  Emeka and Tunde have had her I must have her too. 
5⃣ Guys like to show off their Girlfriend to friends so who will they show you off to if you've dated 3 of their friends 
6⃣ Some guys will basically think they know your life history and will be blocking potentials from coming your way by spreading your gist. .

There are so many guys in different parts of the country with various backgrounds who are equally successful, handsome, God fearing and are willing to settle down so don't limit yourself to a group or segment of guys because by doing this you're limiting your chances or opportunity to meet someone who won't judge you for what his friends said about you but give you a clean slate and allow you prove yourself to him without any 3rd party opinions or extraneous variables.

Source : http://www.wobegist.com/2017/07/dating-guys-in-same-circle-you-may-lose.html

cc; lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, farano, Rocktation

I totally agree

Ok

lalasticlala

Common sense. It applies to not sleeping with guys in the same circle too. You have to be sharp.

some ladies will break u wit a guy and be datin his best friend
why wont d friend use u as a fuk buddy

Relationship is about love not an adventure.

"Guys gossip more than ladies and you'd be surprised what the guys in the circle may have shared about you, they may know every dimple and scar on your body" 

A man just admitted to this? ... we're making progress.

I endorse this message. For those girls that say, I can date my ex boyfriend's friend...shey you dey hear?

lefulefu:
some ladies will break u wit a guy and be datin his best friend
why wont d friend use u as a fuk buddy

eh eh really is that possible my Ex actually got married to my best friend and we are still happy and do things together till date we more like a family...I never though what you said can possibly happen

True that..

He is right !
It's a girl code no no

lalasticlala FP pls.. .

Its only a fool that will date guys in the same cycle.

You date Tunde, broke up with Tunde, date Tunde friend and other friends, why can't some girls have small f*cking self respect for themselves?