Gwaihir:


Yes, i guess that was what you were referring to.

Lol men are just socialised to be more aggressive I guess, being emotional as per letting out your feelings etc is discouraged so I guess the most natural thing to do is lash out maybe

WilsonMayowa:

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dareerah:
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WilsonMayowa:

OK kachi am mayowa from Lagos and you?

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dareerah:
kachi from Delta state

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WilsonMayowa:
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Elcuba:


Hian!

Hope your day is going on well daey

Lol, sorry

My day went fine, sorry, I fell asleep

How was yours?

ibkayee:

Lol men are just socialised to be more aggressive I guess, being emotional as per letting out your feelings etc is discouraged so I guess the most natural thing to do is lash out maybe

True.

On your other post, to be honest, you do make a valid point concerning being rational or smart not of innate qualities peculiar to a gender. It depends on individual basis and the circumstances involved. The movie "Hidden Figures" based on a true life story adds credence to it. I think denying the obvious in order to appeal to ego is neither helping no one.

Gwaihir:


True.

On your other post, to be honest, you do make a valid point concerning being rational or smart not of innate qualities peculiar to a gender. It depends on individual basis and the circumstances involved. The movie "Hidden Figures" based on a true life story adds credence to it. I think denying the obvious in order to appeal to ego is neither helping no one.

Gbam

I'm not even saying women are better sef, but to put it down solely to innate ability is ludicrous, you can't ignore the factors lol

ibkayee:

Gbam

I'm not even saying women are better sef, but to put it down solely to innate ability is ludicrous, you can't ignore the factors lol

I know you weren't. Another factor i don't know if you shied away from and i also think mainly influences why men and even women think that way, perhaps its a very broad and controversial topic is that from time and even religiously, it had been imbibed that a man be superior to a woman hence why some may find it hard to accept that logic you are unapologetic about to make known.

Gwaihir:


I know you weren't. Another factor i don't know if you shied away from and i also think mainly influences why men and even women think that way, perhaps its a very broad and controversial topic is that from time and even religiously, it had been imbibed that a man be superior to a woman hence why some may find it hard to accept that logic you are unapologetic about to make known.

If there was solid proof to prove that men are, other than physically, I'd go along with it, but as of now there isn't. All I need is proof, all these 'examples' aren't enough when you take all factors into consideration and give a fair assessment

ibkayee:

If there was solid proof to prove that men are, other than physically, I'd go along with it, but as of now there isn't. All I need is proof, all these 'examples' aren't enough when you take all factors into consideration and give a fair assessment

Lool. I am agreeing with you, i just stated that part to show you how the conditioning over the years and the religious ideals which i am willing to go out on a limb for, to say, are misinterpreted to further whatever agenda that suits which makes men unwilling to accept that logic from a woman. I dare say,it is not as much as the truth but how they think it makes them look. I don't know if you get my drift?

Yes, there is no evidence to prove that as a fact or truth.

Elcuba:


Hian!

Hope your day is going on well daey

Happy new month

Daeylar:


Happy new month

Happy new month to you too daey

Gwaihir:


Lool. I am agreeing with you, i just stated that part to show you how the conditioning over the years and the religious ideals which i am willing to go out on a limb for, to say, are misinterpreted to further whatever agenda that suits which makes men unwilling to accept that logic from a woman. I dare say,it is not as much as the truth but how they think it makes them look. I don't know if you get my drift?

Yes, there is no evidence to prove that as a fact or truth.

I know you are, I'm co-signing by repeating it

I think a lot of guys like to claim it without any thorough research, then get frustrated when people don't just go along with it and ask for evidence that they can't provide.

Definitely an ego thing

Gwaihir

Watch episode 2 of insecure yet?

ibkayee:
Gwaihir

Watch episode 2 of insecure yet?

Yeah, I just did this evening. Interesting turn of events. You said Issa wanted Lawrence back because she felt guilty, do you still think so?

Tasha though, see how she just waved the whole thing even if she were to accept him back she did not bother to know if he still had feelings for her.

I hail you women, see how Issa and her friend set Lawrence up to make it look like they bumped into each other coincidentally. She even asked him what he was doing around there. Masters of the emotional game.

Daeylar:


Lol, sorry

My day went fine, sorry, I fell asleep

How was yours?

Daeylar! !!!

Elcuba:


Daeylar! !!!

How you doin?

Daeylar:


How you doin?

I'm ok. Bored

How are you doing?

Elcuba:


I'm ok. Bored

How are you doing?

LMAO,
I think this is the time most people go to bed? why bored instead of sleepy? lol

doing good, lol

Daeylar:


LMAO,
I think this is the time most people go to bed? why bored instead of sleepy? lol

doing good, lol

I'm in bed, but I can't sleep

Elcuba:



I'm in bed, but I can't sleep

close your eyes, LMAO, it would help

Daeylar:


close your eyes, LMAO, it would help

I will go watch a movie or something. Why are you not sleeping?

Gwaihir:


Yeah, I just did this evening. Interesting turn of events. You said Issa wanted Lawrence back because she felt guilty, do you still think so?

Tasha though, see how she just waved the whole thing even if she were to accept him back she did not bother to know if he still had feelings for her.

I hail you women, see how Issa and her friend set Lawrence up to make it look like they bumped into each other coincidentally. She even asked him what he was doing around there. Masters of the emotional game.

It's the only reason I can think of to be honest lol

Like you said, I think Tasha is one of those girls who is content with just having a man, period lol

Lmao I was laughing at that scenario, something I would do lool see how she said she walked past 5 times lol

ibkayee:

It's the only reason I can think of to be honest lol

Really? There must be something about you women am missing. So its a case of not being who messed the relationship up since he wasn't such a good partner in the first place?

Like you said, I think Tasha is one of those girls who is content with just having a man, period lol

Lmao I was laughing at that scenario, something I would do lool see how she said she walked past 5 times lol

I actually thought it was coincidental too, not until she called Issa and my jaw went ajar.

Gwaihir:

Really? There must be something about you women am missing. So its a case of not being who messed the relationship up since he wasn't such a good partner in the first place?

Like you said, I think Tasha is one of those girls who is content with just having a man, period lol



I actually thought it was coincidental too, not until she called Issa and my jaw went ajar.

Possibly, because before they broke up it didn't seem like their relationship was great in the first place, so it was odd to me that she appeared to want him back this much, so I put it down to guilt. I could be wrong

Lol I was shocked too, then I laughed and could relate

You've never done a fake walk by before?

ibkayee:

Possibly, because before they broke up it didn't seem like their relationship was great in the first place, so it was odd to me that she appeared to want him back this much, so I put it down to guilt. I could be wrong

Well I can't say you are. Logically, your stance makes sense, let's see how it goes. I should remind you, Issa said she keeps comparing everyman she meets to Lawrence which has me wondering.

Lol I was shocked too, then I laughed and could relate

You've never done a fake walk by before?

Mind sharing the moment?

I almost answered no, then I remembered this ex of mine I did it to. Funny

She had told me she wasn't going out but I and my friends were coming back from reading so I saw her from afar with some boys. I decided to act like I didn't see her just walk by while I and my friends kept arguing about some gist or so.

Elcuba:


I will go watch a movie or something. Why are you not sleeping?

lol, slept off after my last comment,

Gwaihir:


Well I can't say you are. Logically, your stance makes sense, let's see how it goes. I should remind you, Issa said she keeps comparing everyman she meets to Lawrence which has me wondering.



Mind sharing the moment?

I almost answered no, then I remembered this ex of mine I did it to. Funny

She had told me she wasn't going out but I and my friends were coming back from reading so I saw her from afar with some boys. I decided to act like I didn't see her just walk by while I and my friends kept arguing about some gist or so.

Her comparing is normal now

No particular moment that stands out, lol I can just see myself trying to get someone's attention like that if I don't want to be so direct

Lol haha we've all done it at some point

Daeylar:


lol, slept off after my last comment,

Good morning