I live with her and we already have a child but had no money to do the necessary wedding and engagement ceremonies when we started but now, I'm ready to go for the wedding but how do I propose with a ring that would bring out the excitement that she would have experienced if it had been done before we started living together?

Go to Google for options and select the one that suits you best. All the best sire!

You are in the best position to answer your question.
What kind of person is she? Introvert? Extrovert?
Does she like surprises? Is she the romantic candle lit dinner kind of person?

Since you guys are technically married to outsiders I think you should make it a private affair.

Take her out na.... Be daring.. Tell her..will u marry me again and again

Life is good.

elektra:
You are in the best position to answer your question.
What kind of person is she? Introvert? Extrovert?
Does she like surprises? Is she the romantic candle lit dinner kind of person?

Since you guys are technically married to outsiders I think you should make it a private affair.

Thanks.

I planned to make it a private affair too.

In choosing the proposal ring, should I let her make her choice of design or I could buy it and let everything caught her unawares?

muyinet:


Thanks.

I planned to make it a private affair too.

In choosing the proposal ring, should I let her make her choice of design or I could buy it and let everything caught her unawares?

Bro, I no sabi your wife so I cannot tell what her preference is.
You could purchase a simple relatively inexpensive ring and give her the option of getting a different one after the proposal.

elektra:


Bro, I no sabi your wife so I cannot tell what her preference is.
You could purchase a simple relatively inexpensive ring and give her the option of getting a different one after the proposal.

Thanks. You have again 'voiced' out my mind.

don't marry her

lilmax:
don't marry her

Yes Sir.

Go to the bank and open a trust fund for your child with that money..it will yield interest by the time he/she starts Uni..Things are not always stable in this world..if u have now, use it wisely...Marriage ceremony is not an investment.. Just tell her how you feel about her everyday of her life..

Oh!!! I hope the ladies will not bite my ears off on this thread..

Richy4:
Go to the bank and open a trust fund for your child with that money..it will yield interest by the time he/she starts Uni..Things are not always stable in this world..if u have now, use it wisely...Marriage ceremony is not an investment.. Just tell her how you feel about her everyday of her life..

Oh!!! I hope the ladies will not bite my ears off on this thread..

So his baby mama does not deserve marriage? Do you have a sister, niece or female cousin? Would you like them to be treated same way?

jahsharon:



So his baby mama does not deserve marriage? Do you have a sister, niece or female cousin? Would you like them to be treated same way?

Treated which way pls?.....That I suggested that he should open a fund for his kid in case of rainy days, was that the bad treatment?

Ok.. If the suggestion was too offensive...I am sorry....

Richy4:
Go to the bank and open a trust fund for your child with that money..it will yield interest by the time he/she starts Uni..Things are not always stable in this world..if u have now, use it wisely...Marriage ceremony is not an investment.. Just tell her how you feel about her everyday of her life..

Oh!!! I hope the ladies will not bite my ears off on this thread..

Thanks.