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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by sukkot: 11:50pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
yup |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by excess4luv: 11:57pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
i do it often with my Babe, sister and cousin, no trust issues with them. i have given my sister an open-check for withdrawal and she played according to my instructions. I do give any of them anytime in future. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 05, 2017 |
x |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Chommieblaq(f): 12:31am On Aug 05, 2017 |
LordKO: A million like for you. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Lewaluv(f): 12:35am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Men have done this with me. Have let my ex use mine for gas. Shrugs. No big deal. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by DozieInc(m): 12:41am On Aug 05, 2017 |
LordKO: |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by calabardick(m): 1:05am On Aug 05, 2017 |
HannahHitler: I am in Lagos and my salary account ATM card is in the hands of my wife to be as far as Akwa Ibom state, to me there's no big deal |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by geraldo077: 1:06am On Aug 05, 2017 |
I can allow it because a wise partner ought to know it's a perfect way to test her.i have even given my friend my atm to withdraw, I would definately get an alert... |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by bellotaofeek: 1:24am On Aug 05, 2017 |
There is nothing wrong with it . I can give it to my spouse . But if I mistakenly dropped it with a side chick . Trust me she won't get more than 3k on the account cos before she reach the next POS or ATM I would have transferred the money in there to another account . 1 Like |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by hokafor(m): 2:11am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Trust is the key Word here. But unfortunately I Trust no one with money. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MadCow1: 2:13am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Not a big deal.. Done it and still do it. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Engineer3: 3:14am On Aug 05, 2017 |
My white girlfriend and I did it during our school days a lot and we never violet neither abuse it. In fact we did not even care to check balance just withdraw and return the card. However, I did it thrice when I returned to naija and I regret twice. So it depends the kind of lady you are with. When you want to date; take your time. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by mrphysics(m): 3:24am On Aug 05, 2017 |
bellotaofeek:Bad guy. Only when you don't trust such a person. Anyone who is not faithful in money issues will live a short life |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by airlord2020: 4:46am On Aug 05, 2017 |
I usually do that no big deal. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:49am On Aug 05, 2017 |
HannahHitler: ^^^^gold digggger...so all u wannnnto do is chop our money cozzzz u tink we Londonner are steeeerrin..innnnit!!(no oofeense) 1 Like |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:50am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:53am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Rorachy: ^°°°anoda gold digggger...so all u wannnnto do is chop our money cozzzz u tink we Londonner are steeeerrin..innnnit typikal black woman.. ((Shame)). . No oofeense? |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by YelloweWest: 5:56am On Aug 05, 2017 |
My hus has my card numbers and I have his. We are both signatories to each others accounts. No secrets. Lg. Life is good then things are kept simple. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 5:57am On Aug 05, 2017 |
QueenMarvella: Wow This is a special girl |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by deybholar(f): 6:00am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Why would you be in love with someone you can't trust with your card? I do this a lot. In fact my ex used to do it too. He'll just give me and ask me to withdraw whatever would be enough for me. How will I now take advantage of the opportunity and make senseless withdrawals? When you love someone, you even become their financial manager and encourage them to save not spend. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 6:02am On Aug 05, 2017 |
CzarChris: U ke? |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by YelloweWest: 6:09am On Aug 05, 2017 |
supereagle:You're too close to ur sister. Try and build that bond with ur wife |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 6:15am On Aug 05, 2017 |
I keep wondering why it didn't work between me and her. She was the first girl that taught me how to trust girls. First girl that will not password her phone and allows me go through everything there cuz she loved me. I didn't give her my ATM card tho. I gave her cash countless times to hold for me so that I won't spend it and when I need it I get it back that day. First and only girl I borrowed money and she always paid back when she said she would. God bless u Nenye 1 Like |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Coldfeets: 6:17am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Na wa o! I thot you lesbians are supposed to love each other so much more than anything else? How come your own love of money is greater than your love of whatever nonsense you girls are doing? Tufiakwa unu. But to answer your question anyway, I don't mind giving any of my girls my ATM card. Why? Okay listen to this. According to Anthony Robbins, given the option of making more money or holding onto the money you already have, MOST people will do everything possible to hold onto the money they already have. I am not MOST people. Which means, I am never afraid of my money finishing. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Psoul(m): 6:18am On Aug 05, 2017 |
It depends on the kind of person u have as ur spouse. How responsible he or she is. For me and my wife, we don't have issues doing dat. She knows my Card PIN just d same way i knows her. The same is applicable to our phones. I can give her my card even can leave it wt her for days and she can never take anything that will make u regret giving her such privilege. I drop my wallet without knowing how much therein and she can only take money from there if it has to do wt expenses for the entire family. Hardly will she take money from my wallet for her personal issues unless wt my permission. She has such financial discipline that i trust her in managing my finances. Give her N10,000 she will multiply it more than u can imagine. We have built this trust and discipline that money has and can never be an issue bw us. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by promiseicha(m): 6:30am On Aug 05, 2017 |
i will nt do dat ok |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by tosinjay(m): 6:31am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Yes, and I'll inform her nt to check balance report if need be, she fear God, she no go do. Permission matters. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 6:42am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Yes I can! |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by fykes(m): 6:46am On Aug 05, 2017 |
I have 2 ATM's on my account. She uses one but don't withdraw without asking n agreeing with me |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Patented: 6:49am On Aug 05, 2017 |
I can, I have and I still do and vice versa. its amazing how being trust worthy is almost worthless in our society these days. |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by yeballs(m): 7:00am On Aug 05, 2017 |
HannahHitler: My Wife did the same thing for me by giving me her ATM to withdraw 95k when my iPome 6 was stolen as at then we were only dating. We know each other's ATM password afterwards |
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 7:40am On Aug 05, 2017 |
what a stupid question! yes! my current woman have one of my credit which she uses for anything reasonable she wants to buy. she paid my rent too when I didn't have a job. so again what a stupid question! |
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