delishpot:


If the child had known him as father, if he has given the child his name, if he has signed to be the child's father, he may be forced to pay child support. Law takes the child into consideration in some cases.



Sexual frustration or cheating can happen to males and females. Just like men also cheat esp if the wife's job takes her outside 5he home for extended periods of time and people would say sex is important in marriage, so does a wife also need her husband to have sex with her too. So yes, the temptation may come. You don't blame a cheating man when his wife is a workaholic and is always not around why then do you think the woman should be abandoned in a cold bed and the man feigning he doesn't know she misses sex too?

majekdom2:
are you for real.... all of those were done in deceit. @ bolded, you are thinking with your p*ssy now. A man is out there struggling to provide for his family and you want to blame him for being away. I fear women like you ooo. If he is broke now, another problem.

goldedprince:

lol, i dey tell you. some guys dey Bleep up. any woman wey do that kain nonsense to me or any of my relative, i go sniff her life mercilessly

Shagati:
Egunmogaji
Come and see Somtin o!

sunkky83:



You just speak my mind. What a wicked world that woman is being judge for d same offense that when man committed will go freely. No one is even considering the situation of the woman. It's a pity!

delishpot:


If he was jobless and she the bread winner but she has to travel a lot for her job and he does the same thing eg sleeping with house help and impregnating her, would you call him a fool who does not appreciate his wife's efforts? Would you not ask her why she did not find a job that would give her time for her family? Answer me first before I know what to tell you.

NwaAmaikpe:



Wait, is she getting the properties as reward for screwing his life and making a fool of him?

She was caught cheating,
A divorce has been filed,
A DNA test has proven the boy not to be his?

And he is scared she'd get half of his properties..


Your friend is obviously a sîssy!
Sissies don't merit my advice.

majekdom2:
I will call him a fool. Yes, I do not support cheating especially to the face of your partner. It tells loads of wickedness and hate. If you are tempted and want to cheat... your business. But it's best you keep it away, I mean away from your partner for the sake of the marriage. It's obvious the lady gives no Bleep. I am not a male chauvinist that sees no wrong in males and sees all wrong in females. I like to treat people the way I want to be treated. Next time, don't assume everyone on NL is like what you have in your thoughts or encountered.

correctguy101:

Brother I need the contact of the human right activist please. I need professional advice.
Can I pm u?

delishpot:


This is 2hy Nigeria is so backward. Simple research our youths can not do. What a shame you rather resort to insults than find out things. I pity your future.

Iamsammy:
so na to collect bastard go make w go forward oga forward match, I rather pity ur future bros coz there's no way I can kip a basterd under my roof thinking he/she is mine. If I want to abduct a child, datz a different ball game Mr no it all

delishpot:


Ok. Then we on the same wavelength. 2hat has happened has happened. He has decided to leave. You it was generalising women as being cursed by their vajayjay and I am telling you it's no different from men being cursed by their too if we want to use the same measure for people who cheat on their spouses. That was the point I was trying to make. Besides, I did not assume I clearly asked you to tell me where you stand before I conclude on the answer to give to you.

delishpot:


If she is my person I will hunt your whole generations down even to the 10th. You think only you has monopoly over violence? Shoot gone re the days o. Just leave her jejely. If she catches you red handed will she kill you? If she does kill you I will personally arrange her jail time or dash her to your family to deal with. All life is sacred.

delishpot:


Simple research on Google na! Let me help you half way, type can a 'man be forced to pay child support for a baby that is not his' and you will get some feedback.

majekdom2:
just understand some done communicate as we expect. I would think that the missing word is "some" instead of the generalisation.

InvertedHammer:


If in USA, he is screwed. A child born in marriage is automatically his child irrespective of what the DNA shows. Had it been they were not married, he could easily wriggle out of it by 1) Challenging the authority of DCSS to collect a debt that is not within its power by the Title IV-D of the Social Security Act of 1975. 2) Using the DNA to file a motion to compel the mother to identify the father of the child.
Some states are no fault state and any properties acquired during the course of the marriage is shared equally between the two parties. What state is this case in? Any property acquired before the date of the marriage cannot be shared whether there is a pre-nuptial agreement or not.

Solution: Have your friend schedule appointments with three different fsmily attorneys who specialize only in divorce. He should use the three different opinions and advices to move forward.
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helpee:
statistic which some may find surprising, a full third of all children born in the United States each year are born to unmarried parents. Historically, the only way to definitively prove paternity was for the mother of the child to file a paternity suit, however more recently, the laws have changed to allow either parent to file a paternity suit to establish the father-child relationship. Depending on the results of the DNA test, the child’s birth certificate will be changed to reflect—or remove—the name of the father. If paternity is definitely established, child support will be ordered by the state.


The Legalities of Fatherhood



THIS is what the research on Google brought. Study it well....once paternity is established using DNA, they remove the name of the fathet from the birth certificate and the man is absolved from child support. So brother...nobody can force you to pay child support for a child not yours if you pursue the case

dominique:
Since it has been proven that the child is not his, she has no right to anything.

delishpot:


See the problem again? I clearly said research on the possibility of it happening that a man would be forced to pay child support. I did not say accept a bastard. What is my own with your bastards? Na my mama born am for Una? You see how you may destroy your future with your strong head and bad mouth?

delishpot:


If he was jobless and she the bread winner but she has to travel a lot for her job and he does the same thing eg sleeping with house help and impregnating her, would you call him a fool who does not appreciate his wife's efforts? Would you not ask her why she did not find a job that would give her time for her family? Answer me first before I know what to tell you.

Greenbullet:
9ja

Iamsammy:
e b like say frustration dey ur body dz night, wat has destroying of future gat to do with a woman DAT betray ur marital trust to d extent funicating in her matrimonial home, abeg carry ur frustration go front no vex

thesuave10:


Imbeecile