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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Sissie(f): 3:51pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
If your child is being violent, try and investigate to know where your child is learning it from, kids are sponges they absolve things. A parent might have been the one to first slap a child and the child learnt slapping back etc, or what they watch, or from the neighbors or maybe there is violence in the house. Mummy beating the older siblings, or older siblings beating each other or daddy beating mummy etc. And about rolling on the floor etc, children throw tantrums. Smacking might help but don't just shout but explain why it's bad to do that. Using Cain on a 2 year old is really unfair on that 2 year old. How big do we think the brain is sef ![]() Abeg let's not normalize child abuse. 14 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Sissie(f): 4:07pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Upon all the beatings some parents gave their children, it didn't stop them from becoming criminals, neither did it stop the polithiefians, or make Nigeria a 1st world country. It didn't stop the oga in the office from maltreating his staff members, or stop us from lying and cheating each other. It hasn't made us great. Great as a people, great as a nation. 9 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 4:12pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Bloomingbud:Sorry ma, cramps please and not just any cramp cos slight cramps in early preggy is normal in some people. Also, bear in mind that you have two buns in there. Don't worry yourself ok, nothing dey happen. God gat you. Benignasweety, Nne Zizi, please no vex for me ooo, NEPA abi Phcn dey show us iwaya for here. I will be in contact soon ok. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 4:15pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Anugod: how old was this child? Less than 3 years old? For older children yes with moderation but please for less than 3 years old leave them for me like that. I pity the teacher that will use a cane on my less than 3 year old child. I remember a teacher being sacked after my dad stormed my older brothers school for this same flogging that mistakenly entered his eye. I thank God so far that my children are doing well in all aspects. They get praised everywhere they go. They only snag is the 2nd one that plays too much and has no fear at all as in too bold. But that I know she got from me. And we are working on it for her to know where to draw the line. All 'im saying is that these children pick A lot from people around them e.g. parents, caregivers older ones etc. If your child is too aggressive you better do some checking around. Always look inwards before outwards. I prefer disciplining my children myself. But with caution . Flogging a 1 year plus baby is meaningless to that child. You're simply causing the child pain. My Dad was ex military hard man but he never used the cane on us but we were really up and doing about him. His raised voice alone sef. But my mom the cane mistress chai. Always flogging. But still in my opinion we didn't even send her we used to say behind her back "shebi na to chop cane" we got used to her caning lol. I just grew up knowing my mom as cane mistress. She believed so much in caning. It made us distant from her. Let's try and take it easy with this flogging matter. Pray always for your children. Ask God to give You the wisdom to handle them right and make them the shinning stars that they ought to be. My opinion though. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Dazzle86(f): 4:20pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Naomi14:Yes the ministry of education has banned it. I have worked at a standard private school. The teachers in kg and prekg use cain, but small cains on code. They hide the cane. Though they don't use it all the time, just as a last resort once there is a scape goat the other children are put in check. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 4:21pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
I Sissie: The way we r viewing this Cain issue as if Na guard room standard. The way u can't give a 2 yr old fd measurement dts meant for a 10 yrs old child, same way u can't punish a 2 yrs old d same way u'll punish a 10 yrs old child. U don't jst Cain a toddler for everything he/she does. They r some cases wen u feel and know that if such attitude is not curbed @ home they'll exhibit it outside (school or playgroup) and may end up injuring other children. Wat and how do u feel the mother of the injured child will feel? She'll definitely give the bully a high five?! Ur right! This is Hw bully starts (wen u don't lovingly use the rod and spare the child). Since we started adopting white man system of training kids, look @ wat this generation have turned to. Children being sooo disobedient to parents, challenging teachers and elders, committing suicide cos the environment v made them feel that if u r being scolded or things r nt done in the way they want, they r nt loved. Anyways, my mama use better stick and even put pepper 4 my yansh cos I did long throat. Will such scenerio mk me to deny my mother? We shd remember this is Africa n nt adopt western culture in training our children. In the western world, the freedom is so over used that a child or both children can decide to get married without getting consent from their parents buh try it here in naija, u'll knw Hw far. We still gat culture here in Africa esp Nigeria to be precise and we shouldn't adopt the western way of training kids that they become issues later in life. As for me, I jst hang my small belt for my hanger and I remind my children anytime they wnt to throw wicked tantrums and u need to see d way they co-ordinate themselves. They were awarded best well behaved in their classes. 26 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 4:24pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Bloomingbud: just keep speaking the word, you have tried your best. Keep worry far away from you(easier said than done I know) just try. Maintain the bed rest. Hope you're still under admission? Also hope your doctor is a gynaecologist. God will surely show Himself mighty. All will be well. Maybe that's the style of this particular pregnancy. Some people bleed/ spot like that. Please rest well you hear. Hugs. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 4:24pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands:That's taking it to the extreme,easy if you meet a teacher or someone who is willing to go to that extreme that you described. E no go funny. Such attitude affects the child at school. A teacher shouldn't be afraid of his student. My 10 cents. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 4:31pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
[/b] Nimi22: Talking about beating, just like some mamas said to each what's best for her. I can beat for Africa but whenever i beat i make sure i leave no mark on d child. Though someone shouldn't beat a child for everything there are some offences that needs talking, some small shout, some, big shout and some, real spanking. ![]() ![]() I [b]can't even remember being beaten by my mum but she an talk to you and you will feel like jumping into a flowing river. My dad beats only when we are reported and sometimes sef he will tell us to kneel down and face wall till everyone forgets you and you sneakily stand up. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by temmytayur(f): 4:33pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
its long we hear from phlakeyys , does anyone has her contact Am kinda worried about her too |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 4:48pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Sissie:Thank you! |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Coldfeet(f): 4:54pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
casler:She said punish BUT don't beat! It's extreme to me for a teacher to use beating as a form of correction when there are many other ways. A student shouldn't be afraid of their teacher either! It made me fail maths woefully cos my math teacher can flog and dash you map of Africa. Caneing is child abuse and shouldn't be encouraged at all. I stand with mummy Ekene on this one DONT BEAT MY CHILD. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Sissie(f): 5:08pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Raddie(m): 5:09pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Coldfeet: Are you african? 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Coldfeet(f): 5:19pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Raddie:Who wants to know? 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Raddie(m): 5:22pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Coldfeet:*Smiles. An african! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 5:23pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands: No teacher in their right senses can do wat u jst described except he/she is insane and the school authority will so deal wth such teacher. It's better u get to hear wat happened that warrant some kinda punishment on our children cos sometimes it could be that our kids r the ones @ fault n won't explain to mommy Hw dey threw an object @ another child and it mistakenly got to the eyes of the other child. If u don't always ask b4 reacting, u'll end up making matters worse whereby the teachers will jst hands off 4rm ur ward. They won't even be concerned abt d class or homework of such child, his or her performances in class et al 16 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 5:38pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 5:42pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Lemme use this oppurtuinity to beg mothers to appreciate their wards teachers,private tutors (in words or little gifts) cos it's nt easy even as our kids r on hols nt to talk of having them in a class. we shd nt wait till wen it's fight or argument b4 their teachers will knw d parent of the ward(s). God bless our teachers. P.S: I am not a pd teacher buh a teacher in my husband hse 16 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 5:46pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:What exactly are you referring to and what did I describe? You mixing me up or what? ![]() ![]() So it's a toddler that is in their right senses when they misbehave to warrant a cane ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 5:48pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands: Liftedhands: God knows I'm one of those parents that will bash your head against a wall and shred you to pieces if you beat my child! Punish him! Take away his favourite toy! Lock him up in a room! I don't mind. Biko if you are a beating teacher and my son Ekenedirichukwu Luther Apeh-Ogwuche becomes your student! Kindly ask he be removed from your class! Anaghi eji Igbo agwa onyeocha okwu and Adi amuma ihe Onitsha gwara obosi. Translation please ask Google. I guess u didn't read my post wth quarrel eyeglass? 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 5:50pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:I know what I wrote but I don't know what you understand! Help me please. And yes I read your post with quarrel eyeglass cos I'm fuming alrdy at the thought​ of someone using cane on my child and justifying it with whatever! When a punishment would have served a better purpose. 6 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 5:53pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands: Then forget abt explanation cos I also wrote in English 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by imurboss: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
spiceeamiee: OK. will be expecting |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 5:56pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:Forgotten. 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 5:56pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands: I'm even fuming more dan u right nw imagining som1's bully child injuring my chill or children cos heaven knows wat will happen! 11 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 5:59pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:thanks so much for ur concern. The company i work does not have a branch in that location. Well just like you advised, i've decided to dump the idea of resignation. However, my husband is hoping for a relocation back to Lagos and he's working towards it. Its really not easy living alone these past few days but i'm sure coping. My younger brother also slept over for the last two nights but its not really the same. Cos I dont even feel scared sleeping alone in the house, i only feel lonely. Thanks ma.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:also i think MS is gradually fading away.. my appetite is coming back slowly..i haven't vomitted in 3 days now i think. but I still can't eat meat/fish and rice too. excessive saliva (spitting) is still a big problem sha ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anugod(f): 6:05pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 6:13pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Anugod: Hello.......the take a chill pill wasn't necessary. I asked because we were talking about toddlers here. I wanted to clarify that. I know you're not a fool. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by comtem2011: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Liftedhands:My sister, no be small thing o. Sometimes, I look at him to be sure he is still the same innocent baby I gave birth to. We have stopped beating him cos its not even helping matter, had it been he had started school since, I will say he learnt it from there. I believe its a stage they will outgrow, but the time is what I don't know. God help us. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebonychic18(f): 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
sassyangel1:My children's school have teachers appreciation day ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
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