Where is Linda ikeji

zaynie:
It's okay o.
I wanted to post when this issue got raised but I chose to waka pass cos we take things too personal here.

The truth is good social behaviour is one of the indicators of milestones achieved in toddler.

If your child smashes things, bites, hits and bangs, it is highly unacceptable and that child still needs a lot of work. If he continues till age 3 or 4 he might actually need a therapist. True.
These are indicators that all isn't too well.
I have 2 kids of opposite temperaments, the older boy is very playful but calm.... Just like the dad.
The younger girl is not too playful but very temperamental. Very.
Now I was raising my first in a hard way, I wanted my child to be well behaved and this boy was vanishing before my eyes. He's playful yes but he would never hit or bite or scratch. Then I chilled and gave him attention and constructive play and he became this big boy overnight.
The younger one on the other hand, tough cookie but I've learnt not to hit. It hardly ever works.
So we worked on her listening skills. It wasn't easy but I'm reaping the rewards now. Last night when she was about to start, I just said "don't start, don't even think about it" and she walked away sulking. When I need her to sleep, I talk to her, it's time to go to bed now, let's close our eyes and snooze. She grumbles and sometimes whine but she knows I have no room for that.
Sometimes I resort to using my 2 fingers, that's like once in 2-3 weeks. Compared to when her brother was growing up I don't have a single cane in the house.
The brother is 5 now, there are some things he does that warrants belting, I roll till its just a bit and we have a go. This happens like once in a month or so. When he does something I have repeatedly warned him against. We thought he had a heart defect and everyone looks to me to spoil or over pamper him but I didn't.



Now from a teacher's point of view.
I have taught all ranges.
I beat shege out of the secondary school students cos they can like to give attitude, so dem kukuma fear me,but I can say none ever failed my course. I can never beat cos you failed or are yet to understand.
Give me attitude and you'll see the other side of me.
Then I taught Pry 5 and the kids loved me but one day I got too emotional and punished them, not beating sef and I totally forgot them there. I was pregnant with my first then. The next day, a boy's mother came to fight me but when she saw my state, she kukuma chill. I apologized and till date I feel so bad.
Then I taught 5 year olds in a school where beating was forbidden, it was there I finally figured out that the kids that are used to being beaten at home won't listen until you beat cos they won't take you serious, until you beat them. And the kids that listened were the ones their parents actually spoke to. Those were the well behaved ones, cos they're used to listening.
Then I taught 2-3 year olds, which is the age range of kids we're discussing now and I can tell you, don't beat that child!
As a teacher the couple of times I smacked a child was because he was bullying others after much talk.....like 2 months of talk and the day I gave him a good smack and told him if he ever hit anyone then I would do it to him too, he stopped and began reporting to teachers.



At the end of the day, do what's best for you and your child.

Thanks for this post, I think parents should also try to study their kids temperant and know how to handle them, not sending their off to school,for the teachers to do magic and then marching off to school to fight the magician teacher. I'm not a teacher,but teaching profession should be appreciated.Many know what they go through with one or two toddlers, preschoolers and imagine the teacher of about 15 of such age.

casler:

Thanks for this post, I think parents should also try to study their kids temperant and know how to handle them, not sending their off to school,for the teachers to do magic and then marching off to school to fight the magician teacher. I'm not a teacher,but teaching profession should be appreciated.Many know what they go through with one or two toddlers, preschoolers and imagine the teacher of about 15 of such age.

I think you should go and sleep.
Really.

No wonder my boy refused to sleep. He wanted me to read NL posts on the Peggy thread wella



*spreads mat, sips hot tea*

Mama Zaynie Don kill me with laugh ooo

Coldfeet:
Look me very well maybe you know Sabi English! I don Wella not undercooked. I go hunt you down no be mouth Na fact! I no need to even raise finger for you. The thing weh go treat ya Bleep up dey front dey wait for you mark my words.

If ur mama born u well just leave NL n let's carry fight go the other side (outside NL). Only mouth u get. U n ur family no reach. I'll b d happiest 2 see u Walai. I no even dey waste time fighting wth women cos ur own no go pass bite. Jst liv NL n see me life ( I dare u n ur generation). Akpanikot! Wasted dog like u.

Tonight challenge pass olamide #Wochallenge
Wo,oya sebi fighter.





Am not there oooo
Lemme carry my bumpless tummy n b going bfor Dey give me blow.

Zaynie!!!! What's happening here? Their drama pass our own o!!!

zaynie:
Sassyangel and Coldfeet, abeg make una remember say na pregnant women dey here and most come online to seek solutions to their ish.


Abeg, let's give them room.
Make una no vex.
E don do
Abeg
Make una drink cold water.......
Abeg
Abeg
Abeg
I really beg









Bloomingbud, Pele dear.
Slight cramping is normal.
Brown spotting is usually old blood or hormonal matter.
But in all, positive thots only and rest.... Rest, put your feet up.
My Bloomingtwins are just cleaning up their apartment

Thanks so much sis, I'm getting better doc said to wait for another scan tomorrow just to check the cervix, spotting has stopped too.

Thanks to everybody that answered me can't remember the users, we shall all carry to term by his grace.

Eminya:
Ehen, pls I am 32 weeks already, pile want to finish me sotey I can't sit 2 hours straight. Pls what remedy can I take to help me, abeg no waka pass my message o. My an*s is protruding and red, the place is very sour to even touch. I need help
cc Zaynie
liftedhands
beyedew
and all sabi mamas

My MIL always recommend using scent leaf(nchaanwu) as bullet and I've read something like that here but I've never tried it. Dunno if after squeezing and inserting, you'll remove it later or poop out

lovinam:
Zaynie!!!! What's happening here? Their drama pass our own o!!!

I don't know what the men are putting in their sperms these days that make pregnant women so testy.....

Mama, these set pass my power o.
Coldfeet no hear word, she no wan cold again.... Na hot, hot hot!
Sassyangel no wan behave like angel, she just wants sassy!

Mama, I go call mod for dem o.
Abi? Dem go hide their post sharperly.

Another option na make dem create separate thread....
Make we kukuma go watch as e dey go for there.

Seriously, coldfeet just accept that you've met your match today and back down like a lady. You usually like using foolish memes to abuse and bully people you disagree with but you didn't know sassyangel1 is a badass mouthed mama. Lmao. You forgot she gave it very hot to one hubby that was maltreating his wife who just gave birth here. She didn't let that man rest with calculated mouthed words.
My dear, go and rest. For once, accept you can't always have the last word. See a mature woman dropping email and full name on a public forum for an imaginary fight. What a pity.
Sassyangel1 , u too no suppose come down to her level. You fall our hand. Abeg ignore the woman.

lovinam:

Don't mind her. Pranking grandma like me. Rotf

l
I de kampe! E be like you change name. Oya give me your old moniker

I didn't really o. Knew you from when I was still a stalker

zaynie:




Note: I am a referee.....
Tiptoes in with my helmet




I believe she's saying she stands with Liftedhands on the "Don't beat my child" status.
She never made a threat to a teacher.
Perhaps you should redirect your question to Liftedhands.


#SlidesOut

Mama, I no know say the matter Don reach south, I think say na talking for development we dey.salaam

sassyangel1:


If ur mama born u well just leave NL n let's carry fight go the other side (outside NL). Only mouth u get. U n ur family no reach. I'll b d happiest 2 see u Walai. I no even dey waste time fighting wth women cos ur own no go pass bite. Jst liv NL n see me life ( I dare u n ur generation). Akpanikot! Wasted dog like u.

So you sell Ugwu leaf? And you are here forming posh? Chai ewu atam igu Na ishi any ways selling Ugu isn't bad nor a sin just don't pretend and take on a fake personality Madam Sarah the vegetable seller .

Don't be surprised to see me at your door step soon! I need Ugu to make delicious soup hahahahahahahahahahaha

Raincolour:
Seriously, coldfeet just accept that you've met your match today and back down like a lady. You usually like using foolish memes to abuse and bully people you disagree with but you didn't know sassyangel1 is a badass mouthed mama. Lmao. You forgot she gave it very hot to one hubby that was maltreating his wife who just gave birth here. She didn't let that man rest with calculated mouthed words.
My dear, go and rest. For once, accept you can't always have the last word. See a mature woman dropping email and full name on a public forum for and imaginary fight. What a pity.
Sassyangel1 , u too no suppose come down to her level. You fall our hand. Abeg ignore the woman.

No wahAla my sister...

casler:

Mama, I no know say the matter Don reach south, I think say na talking for development we dey.salaam

Wa alaykum salam.
It's all good Sìs

Coldfeet:
So you sell Ugwu leaf? And you are here forming posh? Chai ewu atam igu Na ishi any ways selling Ugu isn't bad nor a sin just don't pretend and take on a fake personality Madam Sarah the vegetable seller .

Don't be surprised to see me at your door step soon! I need Ugu to make delicious soup hahahahahahahahahahaha

At least u see ugwu to give ur starved family. Wen ur ex-president ( obasanjo) is a farmer, who r u to form posh. At least from this barracks, we feed ur entire generation. Even the farmers here r richer Dan wat u n ur family v ever acquired n will acquire.

Coldfeet:
So you sell Ugwu leaf? And you are here forming posh? Chai ewu atam igu Na ishi any ways selling Ugu isn't bad nor a sin just don't pretend and take on a fake personality Madam Sarah the vegetable seller .

Don't be surprised to see me at your door step soon! I need Ugu to make delicious soup hahahahahahahahahahaha

I guess ur mother in the village is a poor farmer dt u tink all farmers r as poor as ur family. Come, lemme shw u my garden wer I employ ppl like u to clear weeds n till d ground n pls don't steal my ugwu o. Cos u resemble thief.

jazzyjazz:
No wonder my boy refused to sleep. He wanted me to read NL posts on the Peggy thread wella



*spreads mat, sips hot tea*

Seriously I saw this quarrel coming and tried to stop it but NO they decided to reply their mentions instead of ignoring it. Same thing happened last year and some blamed it on preggy hormones and even told non preggy mommas to move to newborn thread, that's how some Mama's left. Same quarrel again in newborn thread and some I've been a silent peeper crew decided to unsilent themselves and pour sand sand. The quarrel na 3days e last. That's how prayer Saturday, Thread cuties Friday even children education stopped.

If una wan tear panta wella, go to family section, click on create a new thread, give it a hot topic and I'll gladly carry myself, spread mat and even share popcorn there.

Learn how to ignore ehh

Raincolour:
Seriously, coldfeet just accept that you've met your match today and back down like a lady. You usually like using foolish memes to abuse and bully people you disagree with but you didn't know sassyangel1 is a badass mouthed mama. Lmao. You forgot she gave it very hot to one hubby that was maltreating his wife who just gave birth here. She didn't let that man rest with calculated mouthed words.
My dear, go and rest. For once, accept you can't always have the last word. See a mature woman dropping email and full name on a public forum for an imaginary fight. What a pity.
Sassyangel1 , u too no suppose come down to her level. You fall our hand. Abeg ignore the woman.

madam oga is on the bed waiting for you his sperm tonight may be the ticket you've been waiting for! Don't waste it doing aproko. May God grant you your heart desire on yourself.

Coldfeet:
madam oga is on the bed waiting for you his sperm tonight may be the ticket you've been waiting for! Don't waste it doing aproko. May God grant you your heart desire on yourself.

Liv her...isn't d same stupid akproko u did? Ignorant fool! Ur life is jst abt memes. I guess everybody in ur family gat memes.

Prettyhurts:


Seriously I saw this quarrel coming and tried to stop it but NO they decided to reply their mentions instead of ignoring it. Same thing happened last year and some blamed it on preggy hormones and even told non preggy mommas to move to newborn thread, that's how some Mama's left. Same quarrel again in newborn thread and some I've been a silent peeper crew decided to unsilent themselves and pour sand sand. The quarrel na 3days e last. That's how prayer Saturday, Thread cuties Friday even children education stopped.

If una wan tear panta wella, go to family section, click on create a new thread, give it a hot topic and I'll gladly carry myself, spread mat and even share popcorn there.

Learn how to ignore ehh

Toh make we kukuma enjoy the drama

Abeg space dey,i carry hot puff puff n chilled zobo!

jazzyjazz:
No wonder my boy refused to sleep. He wanted me to read NL posts on the Peggy thread wella



*spreads mat, sips hot tea*

Sleep in pieces​ sassyangel and raincolour! It's nearing midnight and ive got to fly

Prettyhurts:


My MIL always recommend using scent leaf(nchaanwu) as bullet and I've read something like that here but I've never tried it. Dunno if after squeezing and inserting, you'll remove it later or poop out

Squeeze and insert, ewoo I can imagine the pain already. Fear fear me may not be able to touch it o, thanks for the tip, I hope it doesn't get to that level

Coldfeet:
madam oga is on the bed waiting for you his sperm tonight may be the ticket you've been waiting for! Don't waste it doing aproko. May God grant you your heart desire on yourself.

There you go again with your foolish memes
When will you outgrow this childish attitude? I've been enjoying your drama today though Drama queen.

Coldfeet:
Sleep in pieces​ sassyangel and raincolour! It's nearing midnight and ive got to fly

Back to sender. I cover myself with the Blood.

Coldfeet:
Look me very well maybe you know Sabi English! I don Wella not undercooked. I go hunt you down no be mouth Na fact! I no need to even raise finger for you. The thing weh go treat ya Bleep up dey front dey wait for you mark my words.

Please, you women should be praising God and ask for divine wisdom on how to nurture your unborn child(s) and not exchanging words that gives devil joy.

Sansa143:
Abeg space dey,i carry hot puff puff n chilled zobo!

Abeg madam puff puff, I need am wella cos 2day Na vigil o. I don even carry power bank gum body cos I really wana spread my legs 4 2nite. Y d zobo Kon cold like dis nah wen u knw Hw I like it ( wink wink).

Sansa143:
Abeg space dey,i carry hot puff puff n chilled zobo!

Mama d mama
Welcome o
Abeg hope say you no push my baby Jay go one corner o