Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

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chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

The only thing that can be there for you is your BRA, it's caring,loving and supportive.

Guys got their life too remember?

Guys are now wise, #OurMumuDonDo

What do you mean by "caring" ?

Buying u heaven and earth and spending lavishly on u when we've got mothers that will always be there even when we dont have money.

There are lots of caring guys out there, finding the right one is a bit hard due to the following observations.
.....Many ladies friend zone the caring guys.
......Many girls misinterpret the potential god guys as weak.
......Many beautiful ladies think they can test all waters.
......Many guys are just there to play they pretend to be caring afterwards they hit and run away.

Sorry eh

Ur parents,or ur husband should be there Nd care for u not ur boyfriends.

Lolzzzz. Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

am an exception

but our kind are rare

if ur lucky am still available

You are on point my dear.....taken by the caring one also. Those looking for would recall that they had earlier despised the caring and true ONE

Rorachy:
Lolzzzz.
Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.

Aunty its not hard at all o cos we're here

you're the ones making it difficult by not replying our mentions

cus you told them you only love them as a friend

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Who told you that? You have to belong in the right circle.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Depends on what you define care to be, most times we as human dont underdtand the season, and how to adjust to situation.

Anyways am available. Lets give it a try. We can find a common ground.

Hit me up or send a pm

wizzyrich:
What do you mean by "caring" ?

Buying u heaven and earth and spending lavishly on u when we've got mothers that will always be there even when we dont have money.

Zita55:

there's something abt ur moniker

wizzyrich:
there's something abt ur moniker

Oh! Of course!!

Rorachy:
Lolzzzz.
Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.

......by those who know a good deal when they see one

Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.

Zita55:



Oh! Of course!!

wonderful.

Romance section will be out of bound 4 me henceforth.

wizzyrich:
wonderful.

Romance section will be out of bound 4 me henceforth.

OMG!! I'm touched!! Stay mbok!!! Mtchewwwwww


Sissy!!

Zita55:

OMG!! I'm touched!! Stay mbok!!! Mtchewwwwww


Sissy!!

u not d only one wit saucy attitude u knw.

Anyways, bye !

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

In other words, why is it difficult to find a maga?

thepussyhunter:
Aunty its not hard at all o cos we're here

you're the ones making it difficult by not replying our mentions

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

whenever a lady says guys are not always there or not caring, here are the possible scenarios

1. The guy is not responding to her manipulative antics
2. The guy she is love struck for is not a prototype of the fallacy the society has conditioned her mind to expect of guys
3. The guy is an authentic alpha male
4. Most times, the only asset the lady brings to the table of progress is enhanced beauty. No financial or intellectual value. The dude's spider senses picks this up and he as a consequence responds by chopping, cleaning mouth and then runs away as though he was powered by nitro boosters.
5. The guy noticed that the girl is not really passionate about him but after his material possessions and perceived prospects. Trust me ladies, there are guys who see through these things.

In reality, every guy just needs four qualities from a lady

1. God fearing: This is beyond being born again. You must respect the provisions of scripture as the final authority as it relates to courtship and marriage.
2. Submissive: ladies, if you want to experience a blissfull relationship, this is the key. If you want unlimited access to your partner's mumu botton, this is the key that arrogant women may never find. It is true that some men are tyrants. Granted. But one can only judge disobedience when your own obedience is complete.
3. Sacrificial and hospitable: guys, don't date a stingy lady. Dont continue with a lady that has never expressed financial commitment. A lady who cannot give sacrificially is a disaster. A wise man said, giving is proof that you have conquered greed. I was invited for a wedding and was amazed at how matured slay queens were rushing to select fanta, some 7up. Some where rushing to feel the bottlee for the coldest. The scene was comparable to broilers scrabbling for feed. I was embarrased for them at their public display of immaturity.
4. physically attractive: This transcends beyond looks. your holistic outlook should give your man confidence, do not go around falling your hubby's hand looking inappropriate and in worse cases engaging in conversations void of common sense. Intelligent conversations add to your physical attractiveness somehow.

In order to balance things, ladies do not date someone that

1. is not God fearing
2. Does not submit to an earthly figure: In the event of crisis, there has to be a reputable figure that can stand or mediate between the two of you. One whose counsel has a positive track record.
3. is not passionate about you
4. is not responsible: This means that he must be aware of the cost implication in a relationship which includes the financial costs, time etc.


credit to Apostle Joshua Selman (ENI).

Abeg make U ladies no vex na recession no dey friendly with them, so dem come transfer the aggression to U ladies.

klenton:



am an exception

but our kind are rare

if ur lucky am still available

u are an exception hmm what about the girl that u wanted to marry but she is sexually inactive because now u r telling her that u r available

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

It's because you ladies claim to be too smart,the moment a guy says he love you you,he's indebted to you already,forgetting that you cannot leap where you did not sow.

If you need some what care,show little to your guy and stop thinking that tooto is a factory machine that you can exchange with guy for money.

If you can be truthful to your self
How many times did you buy a boxer to your guy when he have not spent almost his life savings to you.
How many times did you visit and wash his cloth?
All you want to ask is money after spending night.

[quote author=chibaby1990 post=59330368]Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.[/quote
Lwkmd...because the moment we tell you ladies that we love you, we start owing you money.

gsogbu:
There are lots of caring guys out there, finding the right one is a bit hard due to the following observations.
.....Many ladies friend zone the caring guys.
......Many girls misinterpret the potential god guys as weak.
......Many beautiful ladies think they can test all waters.
......Many guys are just there to play they pretend to be caring afterwards they hit and run away.

The answer she seeks lies here