Op u nailed it
Oya take am!!!!!

Divay22:

Are you trying to tell this Honourable court, that you've never been manipulated, even for once?

Everyone gets manipulated at a certain stage of their lives.. just that some don't learn.

On the broader look, the so called love nowadays is all about manipulation, gold diggers looking for already made men (be it single or married) to express love for. same for some broke guys looking for rich women to love dearly.

Divay22:
As at this time when i woke up, I realized i was still feeling sleepy..so i am going back to bed.

Don't even wake up self....Gerararararahia

I knw u r manipulative

Quality20:
most bossy women only cause a man to be belittled by friends, neighbors and family members and even cause chaos in the house. it's better to go along with an illiterate submissive village girl than these bossy madams

Lmao....##correct guy!!!!

Buharison:

Ode nie, d post pain am oo, All these depressed and frustrated nairaland girls

Lolz... I ignored her because,after checking her pix,I empirically concluded that gals of her type, na guys dey manipulate them self...Lolz

Only men whom don't adhere to "Bro Code" get manipulated

thickminaj:
in most cases it's glaring the victim is been manipulated but they actually don't mind..

Hey !

Opakan2:


Everyone gets manipulated at a certain stage of their lives.. just that some don't learn.

On the broader look, the so called love nowadays is all about manipulation, gold diggers looking for already made men (be it single or married) to express love for. same for some broke guys looking for rich women to love dearly.

Oh so you learnt I like that.

Randy91:



Don't even wake up self....Gerararararahia

I knw u r manipulative

Yeah hon, I am...
I can manipulate you into giving me your hard earn salary....

I'm already up and running the day's business, you do yours...Time is money.

Buharison:

Ode nie, d post pain am oo, All these depressed and frustrated nairaland girls

You sleep and wake up on women matter venting your anger
wherever the opportunity presents itself, yet you pretend you don't care.

How do you reconcile such paradox in a single person ?

This what is this girl is trying do here.



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mofeoluwadassah:
oh lawd as i go today on nl dont let me come across trash like this again ijn amen

Hmmmm! guilty consense......

hedonistic:
Indeed. Every normal playboy has wasted money and time on stupid bitches that turned out not worth the effort. That's part of the game, and cannot be avoided.

The key is to work within a budget, and know when to stop if you're not making headway. That's what separates the experienced smooth operators and hardies from the starry eyed mumu men who don't know how to play the game.

Depending on certain circumstances, my general rule is to have a 'feel' of her after two dates at most. Doesn't necessarily mean outright sex (though that happens within two dates sometimes),. Could be kissing, squeezing, intimate touching, 'seeing' the goods in flesh, etc. If it doesn't happen by the third date cos the girl is resisting or forming nonsense, then the respectable thing is to back down and save your time and resources for someone else. [b] Even if all goes according to plan, always make sure you don't spend more than you can afford to lose anyway [b] (on intangibles such as drinks and chops during outings, and a few thousands for token cab money). Never accede to her request for any lump money, gifts or anything tangible until you complete the mission according to the target you set.

[b]

hedonistic:
Indeed. Every normal playboy has wasted money and time on stupid bitches that turned out not worth the effort. That's part of the game, and cannot be avoided.

The key is to work within a budget, and know when to stop if you're not making headway. That's what separates the experienced smooth operators and hardies from the starry eyed mumu men who don't know how to play the game.

Depending on certain circumstances, my general rule is to have a 'feel' of her after two dates at most. Doesn't necessarily mean outright sex (though that happens within two dates sometimes),. Could be kissing, squeezing, intimate touching, 'seeing' the goods in flesh, etc. If it doesn't happen by the third date cos the girl is resisting or forming nonsense, then the respectable thing is to back down and save your time and resources for someone else. Even if all goes according to plan, always make sure you don't spend more than you can afford to lose anyway (on intangibles such as drinks and chops during outings, and a few thousands for token cab money). Never accede to her request for any lump money, gifts or anything tangible until you complete the mission according to the target you set.

[/b]

hedonistic:
Indeed. Every normal playboy has wasted money and time on stupid bitches that turned out not worth the effort. That's part of the game, and cannot be avoided.

The key is to work within a budget, and know when to stop if you're not making headway. That's what separates the experienced smooth operators and hardies from the starry eyed mumu men who don't know how to play the game.

Depending on certain circumstances, my general rule is to have a 'feel' of her after two dates at most. Doesn't necessarily mean outright sex (though that happens within two dates sometimes),. Could be kissing, squeezing, intimate touching, 'seeing' the goods in flesh, etc. If it doesn't happen by the third date cos the girl is resisting or forming nonsense, then the respectable thing is to back down and save your time and resources for someone else. Even if all goes according to plan, always make sure you don't spend more than you can afford to lose anyway (on intangibles such as drinks and chops during outings, and a few thousands for token cab money). Never accede to her request for any lump money, gifts or anything tangible until you complete the mission according to the target you set.

Never spend more than you can afford to lose

Divay22:

Yeah hon, I am...
I can manipulate you into giving me your hard earn salary....

I'm already up and running the day's business, you do yours...Time is money.

o Lawd...I pray Divay's "manipulative skills fall on me"..... I go show u pepper....I bet u,u ll steal from ur parents to pay my bills....##Heediat!!!!

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Quality20:
most bossy women only cause a man to be belittled by friends, neighbors and family members and even cause chaos in the house. it's better to go along with an illiterate submissive village girl than these bossy madams

This illiterate submissive village gal will someday become educated with your money cos of too many embarrassing situations she will create and still turn bossy. Many have come back home from overseas to marry illiterate submissive village gals who turn out to be their albatross. Human nature just like man/woman relationship is very unpredictable

Story for the gods.
We all get manipulated one way or the other.

some men are so foolish in the hands of women. men r so weak. be stronger , hold your tape to captive by yourself.

Admin401:
Damn you OP. Delete this thread. Stop exposing us.

who u epp?

[quote author=putit post=59390374] Most girls will not like this post especially the materialistic/ slay queens . Not all women are materialistic and manipulative. There are some real, classy and confident ladies out there.
Only weak men can be easily manipulated and women know it. There are different ways women (sub)consciously check to decide if you're a weak wussy guy they can easily manipulate;

- If she can gets away with acting like a spoil little girl, being rude or disrespecting you, she'll know you're weak and easily manipulated
- If she can easily influence you to behave in a certain manner i.e she can get you to behave in a supplicating manner towards her, she'll know you're not a REAL MAN but a weak man she can control and manipulative to achieve her own selfish agenda.

When a woman notice she cannot manipulate you or use her sexual appeal to control you, she'll either hate you (and start avoiding you) OR respect you( and start trying to get your attention).

But here is the problem with most (weak) men, they don't want any woman to hate them or reject them. They want every girl they woo to like and accept them. They want sex from every girl they meet.. And guess what;; when a materialistic/manipulative woman noticed that from you, she smartly take advantage of you. These kind of women will end up wasting your time, MONEY and energy. BE WARNED.


Realistically, a materialistic/manipulative woman can be deceptive. When she encounters a man she can easily manipulate, she'll gives him the wrong impression and make him think she's interested in him. This dude will start catching feelings and start obsessing over her. With that she can easily toy with his emotions and get him to do anything she want. Poor boy. ... (A moment of silence for any guy in that situation right now).

One funny but pathetic thing I have noticed about some guys (especially weak guys) is that they like bossy women. They like a woman who plays too hard to get. They always chase after her online, offline, anywhere they meet her... They try to get her attention. These men tends to assume that women who play hard to get are high quality, good, classy women. Men who are experience with women knows that's not true..
If she's playing too hard to get for you, it's good sign that she might not be interested. Stop wasting your time on her. That same girl is easy to get for another dude somewhere..

Guys be wise.. Even the Bible says a "fool and his money are easily parted"

Thank you.

ivolt:



You sleep and wake up on women matter venting your anger
wherever the opportunity presents itself, yet you pretend you don't care.

How do you reconcile such paradox in a single person ?

What is this one saying, I can never be angry with someone, God gave everyone sense and I believe she should also use it, don't compare my life here on nairaland with the outside mr asslicker

LordKO:
Kudos @OP.

There're two classes of men that small-minded women (manipulative women) can use. They're:

- The outright gullible men

- The opportunistic men (manipulative men like them). . . . what normally happen here is always a case of a predaceous person vs a leeching person.

LordKo u are absolutely right.. A manipulative woman can only manipulate a manipulative man..It takes two people to play a game
I never thought of it that way..

Randy91:



Lolz... I ignored her because,after checking her pix,I empirically concluded that gals of her type, na guys dey manipulate them self...Lolz

She's so depressed and frustrated

mofeoluwadassah:
oh lawd as i go today on nl dont let me come across trash like this again ijn amen

Choir mistress, that thing you're putting on is trash already. How are you gonna avoid yourself?

Please, Romancelanders, with a heart full of love, I implore thee, help your boy win by liking and sharing my story at the literature section.

*Ikorodu Guard* by Frankenstein.

Here's the link to the story...
https://www.nairaland.com/3919666/seun-osewa-battle-moderator-judges/2#59322631

hedonistic:
Indeed. Every normal playboy has wasted money and time on stupid bitches that turned out not worth the effort. That's part of the game, and cannot be avoided.

The key is to work within a budget, and know when to stop if you're not making headway. That's what separates the experienced smooth operators and hardies from the starry eyed mumu men who don't know how to play the game.

Depending on certain circumstances, my general rule is to have a 'feel' of her after two dates at most. Doesn't necessarily mean outright sex (though that happens within two dates sometimes),. Could be kissing, squeezing, intimate touching, 'seeing' the goods in flesh, etc. If it doesn't happen by the third date cos the girl is resisting or forming nonsense, then the respectable thing is to back down and save your time and resources for someone else. Even if all goes according to plan, always make sure you don't spend more than you can afford to lose anyway (on intangibles such as drinks and chops during outings, and a few thousands for token cab money). Never accede to her request for any lump money, gifts or anything tangible until you complete the mission according to the target you set.

Guy your head dey there jaree I never ever read half and I don like your post. My real G

Different strokes for different folks.

You have no right to describe another guy as weak just because they don't live their lives the way you think is the right way. Those guys may actually be stronger than you.

THIS POST IS QUITE DIDACTIC because VIRTUOUS WOMEN ARE VERY RARE NOWADAYS!!

irrua69:
Women rule the world fam

speak for yourself!

Jman06:
Different strokes for different folks.

You have no right to describe another guy as weak just because they don't live their lives the way you think is the right way. Those guys may actually be stronger than you.

Lolz

putit:

Lolz

Funny but true! Some guys are good at calling others weak when they don't act in a certain way. But the fact is that some of the guys that readily throw the word are actually the weak guys who can't stand the test of strenght when the battle line is drawn...
No be by mouth or keyboard.

[quote author=putit post=59390374] Most girls will not like this post especially the materialistic/ slay queens . Not all women are materialistic and manipulative. There are some real, classy and confident ladies out there.
Only weak men can be easily manipulated and women know it. There are different ways women (sub)consciously check to decide if you're a weak wussy guy they can easily manipulate;

- If she can gets away with acting like a spoil little girl, being rude or disrespecting you, she'll know you're weak and easily manipulated
- If she can easily influence you to behave in a certain manner i.e she can get you to behave in a supplicating manner towards her, she'll know you're not a REAL MAN but a weak man she can control and manipulative to achieve her own selfish agenda.

When a woman notice she cannot manipulate you or use her sexual appeal to control you, she'll either hate you (and start avoiding you) OR respect you( and start trying to get your attention).

But here is the problem with most (weak) men, they don't want any woman to hate them or reject them. They want every girl they woo to like and accept them. They want sex from every girl they meet.. And guess what;; when a materialistic/manipulative woman noticed that from you, she smartly take advantage of you. These kind of women will end up wasting your time, MONEY and energy. BE WARNED.


Realistically, a materialistic/manipulative woman can be deceptive. When she encounters a man she can easily manipulate, she'll gives him the wrong impression and make him think she's interested in him. This dude will start catching feelings and start obsessing over her. With that she can easily toy with his emotions and get him to do anything she want. Poor boy. ... (A moment of silence for any guy in that situation right now).

One funny but pathetic thing I have noticed about some guys (especially weak guys) is that they like bossy women. They like a woman who plays too hard to get. They always chase after her online, offline, anywhere they meet her... They try to get her attention. These men tends to assume that women who play hard to get are high quality, good, classy women. Men who are experience with women knows that's not true..
If she's playing too hard to get for you, it's good sign that she might not be interested. Stop wasting your time on her. That same girl is easy to get for another dude somewhere..

Guys be wise.. Even the Bible says a "fool and his money are easily parted"

I love this article..