marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

thepussyhunter:



lol

well you girls reply the mentions of the crazy ones who you wrongly judged to be the good ones cos of their sweet cool monikers

when in truth those with the crazy monikers eg pussyhunter are the real cool and good ones.....................

gsogbu:
There are lots of caring guys out there, finding the right one is a bit hard due to the following observations.
.....Many ladies friend zone the caring guys.
......Many girls misinterpret the potential god guys as weak.
......Many beautiful ladies think they can test all waters.
......Many guys are just there to play they pretend to be caring afterwards they hit and run away.

Benita27:
Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.

DanXplore:
whenever a lady says guys are not always there or not caring, here are the possible scenarios

1. The guy is not responding to her manipulative antics
2. The guy she is love struck for is not a prototype of fallacy the society has conditioned her mind to expect of guys
3. The guy is an authentic alpha male
4. Most times, the only asset the lady brings to the table of progress is enhanced beauty. No financial or intellectual value. The dude's spider senses picks this up and he as a consequence responds by chopping, cleaning mouth and then runs away as though he was powered by nitro boosters.
5. The guy noticed that the girl is not really passionate about him but after his material possessions and perceived prospects. Trust me ladies, there are guys who see through these things.

In reality, every guy just need four qualities from a lady

1. God fearing: This is beyond being born again. You must respect the provisions of scripture as the final authority as it relates to courtship and marriage.
2. Submissive: ladies, if you want to experience a blissfull relationship, this is the key. If you want unlimited access to your partner's mumu botton, this is the key that arrogant women may never find. It is true that some men are tyrants. Granted. But one can only judge disobedience when your own obedience is complete.
3. Sacrificial and hospitable: guys, don't date a stingy lady. Dont continue with a lady that has never expressed financial commitment. A lady who cannot give sacrificially is a disaster. A wise man said, giving is proof that you have conquered greed. I was invited for a wedding and was amazed at how matured slay queens were rushing to select fanta, some 7up. Some where rushing to feel the bottlee for the coldest. The scene was comparable to broilers scrabbling for feed. I was embarrased for them at their public display of immaturity.
4. physically attractive: This transcends beyond looks. your holistic outlook should give your man confidence, do not go around falling your hubby's hand looking inappropriate and in worse cases engaging in conversations void of common sense. Intelligent conversations add to your physical attractiveness somehow.

In order to balance things, ladies do not date someone that

1. is not God fearing
2. Does not submit to an earthly figure: In the event of crisis, there has to be a reputable figure that can stand or mediate between the two of you. One whose counsel has a positive track record.
3. is not passionate about you
4. is not responsible: This means that he must be aware of the cost implication in a relationship which includes the financial costs, time etc.


credit to Apostle Joshua Selman (ENI).

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Rorachy:
Lolzzzz.
Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.

Effizy12:
Guys are now wise, #OurMumuDonDo

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Benita27:
Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.

klenton:

Just negodu, if only wishes wia horses.....

am an exception

but our kind are rare

if ur lucky am still available

klenton:



am an exception

but our kind are rare

if ur lucky am still available

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

slimthugchimee2:
oh those guys do exists, but y'll keep calling them bro

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.