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On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by 9iceX(m): 4:45pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
The dream of every man is to ensure the happiness of his home. In this regard, he wants to put in the best of his effort to attain putting a lasting smile on the face of his wife. However, there appear to be some setbacks that might be pulling down his efforts; part of which is his inability to put a stop to some certain habits from his wife. Most of these habits are the tough-to-communicate kinds, so I want to be the mouthpiece of every man in this post. Things women need to stop doing to gain trust from their husband Below are the list of the things every man wishes their wives stop doing 1. You need to stop involving yourself with other men As most people would have it, that women can be more jealous than the men. In as much as I wouldn’t want to start an argument in this regard, it might interest you to know that men don’t like to see their wives flirting around with other men. Having a conversation with a man in the office or within the neighbourhood is okay, but flirting with these men is where you may go wrong. You would be surprised how a mere flirt you termed “safe” can transform into an extra marital affair. It started from “just talking” to exchanging of numbers. No matter how smart you tried to play being smart, he pushed it to the next level by making late night calls and text. Soon, you realized there is need to start hiding your conversations with your husband at home – cheating in disguise. You husband would try to prevent you from “safe flirting” with other men because they knew it would transform into something big which could collapse their marriage. But how would they communicate this to you without you feeling, “oh, he doesn’t trust me”. 2. You need to disassociate yourself from weird friends Occasionally, before you got married, you are known to embrace everyone who stretches a friendship hand to you. That is cool though, but it’s time you start to filter off some friends, especially those who do not add any value to your marriage. No man wants to see his wife involved with a weird friend, who could at any time introduce her to a different or negative way of life. 3. Using sex as a punishment is never the right way to go I first heard this in a popular radio program where a man revealed how he was starved with sex for 2 weeks by his wife. That was meant to serve as a punishment for pulling an argument against his wife’s view. Irrespective of the offence committed, this is not right. When a man realized sex as your ultimate weapon, he can simply get some from mistresses waiting to take your place. 4. Don’t make it seem like he knows nothing about parenting Respect his opinions too when it comes to how he chooses to bring up the children. You don’t always want to appear “knowing it all” because you are the mom. In this modern age, men are more engaged with the kids. They want to show you their uniqueness in term of parenting which you should respect as much as they respect yours too. But when you shut them up in your own stylish way, they simply keep calm and battles with the rejection. If you ask me, that is not good for your home, I’d say. 5. That you don’t love him anymore Whether during a heat argument or simply cracking a joke around this phrase, you definitely don’t want to fly on this journey. This is the basis of your marriage; not a dollars you can easily exchange for some few nairas. Men would transmit this and work out meanings like, “What if she is saying the truth in a funny way”. This could remain in a man’s head for a long time. 6. Frequently talking about your ex When I was with my ex, we go shopping every Friday. Ok, that’s fine. Sharing your history with your husband is great, but when you start to make comparison between your ex and him is where you are starting to go wrong. Stating things your ex does (that you love), especially when your husband is not doing them to you would only hurt him more. A quick question In building a healthy relationship of TRUST with your spouse, what do you consider WRONG to say to your partner? http://www.nawesabi.com/things-women-need-to-stop-doing/ Cc; lalasticlala 42 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Nobody: 4:47pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
All protocols duly observed, I just noticed that I was the ftc my 1st time since I joined Nairaland I dedicate this to my favourite monikers here DrWise Deefuray Ebayray ibkayee Benignasweety have a pleasant week ahead people. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Nobody: 4:48pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
op tell them let them hear. |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by LivinaPatrick(f): 4:53pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Who is deceiving who ![]() 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Emescot(m): 4:57pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Op on behalf of all men i say u just spoke our mind abi na minds self ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Elmojiid(m): 5:08pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
am not among o becos i neva marry 5 Likes |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by marisdgreat(f): 6:09pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
so men no get wetin to stop doing wey their wives no like? 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Fourwinds: 6:43pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
marisdgreat:write am na...at least someone will learn from u.. I totally agree with OP especially dat flirting stuff....don't tell me it won't go beyond hi hi....use ur head....People use to say "no Nigeria can commit suicide"....what do we have today? 17 Likes |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by agbonkamen(f): 7:22pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai:keep kwayet ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by marisdgreat(f): 7:30pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
[quote author=Fourwinds post=59441262]write am na...at least someone will learn from u.. I totally agree with OP especially dat flirting stuff....don't tell it won't go beyond hi hi....use ur head....no Nigeria can commit suicide....what do we have today[/q uote] even guys do flirt |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by marisdgreat(f): 7:32pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Fourwinds: even men do flirt 1 Like |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by rose54321: 7:35pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Tying wrapper haphazardly and always looking unkempt indoors. There's nothing wrong in tying wrapper, but be sexy while at it. And also it's not only when leaving the house you should look nice, wake up early and make yourself up. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Fourwinds: 7:36pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
marisdgreat:u are not getting d message....once u are married u must discard some things whether u like it or not....it applies to both sexes....it is not something u have to argue with ur partner 13 Likes |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by marisdgreat(f): 7:59pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Fourwinds:am aware of that even friends as well n d time spent online |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by darlenese(f): 8:01pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
on behalf of all the women I say u should marry yourselves! nonsense and ingredients. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by IDEKEALUMONA(m): 8:01pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Good one but husbands should also do the same . We have cheap plots of land at New Heaven Enugu for sale. Call: 0-81-0-5-86-6-47-3: 1 Like |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by NkayTiana(f): 8:01pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
OK we don hear, on behalf of us women 3 Likes |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Badgers14: 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Women looking at this thread like... 20 Likes
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Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Ephhay(f): 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Why are you speaking for all the men? |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by mayorkyzo: 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Also women asking men if sex is food...it is food to so many men.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by MadCow1: 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
What is this |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Fourwinds: 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
marisdgreat:good...not every one is aware of dat... |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by kayjee101: 8:02pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
No problem, I have got your back. |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
lol, i still dont understand y gals are desperate for this thing called marriage. ur not allowed an off day, ur expected to open toto when oga wants, u get to take care of the kids, u cant cheat etc. in return oga can have an off day, hang out with friends, leave the kids for u, chase around oda pussies etc. smh 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Well, these are generalisations about how not to behave as a married woman. IMHO, a woman wouldn't flirt and give in to another man if you as the man is a doting husband, lover and friend. Using sex as a weapon is the last thing any lady would wanna try with me. I'm not a sex freak and I can go for ages without sex. She is the one who would beg me to touch her cos once you turn me off, I stay off.same goes for food, I've never been a foodie. By and large, diff men have diff levels of tolerability, couples should understand themselves and make their union work out fine. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by MiaB(f): 8:04pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
On behalf of women we don't give a fvck 31 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Oga speak for yourself 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by 0b100100111: 8:05pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
And who re you to speak on behalf of everyman? The last time I updated myself, I still found out it requires an agreement between consensus to speak on behalf of a group. Can you please state where you got such approval from? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:05pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
6.DON'T REFUSE SUCKING JOYSTICK! .OP WHERE YOUR MIND WENT SEF? 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Stan64: 8:05pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
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Re: On Behalf Of Every Man, Here Are Things We Want Our Wives To Stop Doing by Flashh: 8:05pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
AryaSand:He had spoken for many men. ![]() 8 Likes |
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