Nma27:
No use. But when u marry without dating to ascertain attitudes and behavior, don't come here to disturb us o. To each his own sha .

bachelor ## for a very long time... lol

Beco's were in recession

Martin0:


If Emotional Responsibility
Was in the relationship every other problem can be settled and amended..

Only cheating I believe is hard to Amend..
One of our friends was a great cheater that even his wife now who was his lover then knew about it,and they got married but today the story has changed that even his wife gave the testimony to us..

Even if he stills cheat secretly I don't know but I don't believ you can hide or be secretive under a woman..

I applaud her coz she made the man to suit into the kind of relationship she wants,and today I believe my friend is a changed man..

You can do same..

It wasn't cheating. He knows I'm not the kind of person who tolerates that but it was something else he wasn't open about.

Benita27:
I have no idea.

Continue this your new antics with me

Draei:

You arrogantly rejected the serious & caring
ones that came your way, Deal with it girl.

God bless you o!!!!!!!!

infact bless you
oh mine, bless you indeed

Benita27:
It wasn't cheating. He knows I'm not the kind of person who tolerates that but it was something else he wasn't open about.

Well my statement was only an ''Assuming-statement''

Hmmmm na wa oooo women
I greet you Benita27

Oluwaseunbandur:
The problem is that u girls find d loving and caring guys boring , thats y

dat is d point bro especially wen u are try to differentiate wat is right n wrong to dem, dey will tag u a name.

https://www.nairaland.com/3747235/ladies-how-get-money-him
https://www.nairaland.com/3692176/where-nairaland-cute-guys-storm
https://www.nairaland.com/3932445/crushing-these-five-nairaland-cute
Sister, how you wan take see caring guys with all these attitude na?
Abegi shift first

We still exist!!!

torres89:


it's either u have been talking with 2go boys or under graduates

just wondering why a decent guy will send nudes or demand for nudes

i know what i am saying. they r matured guys i hav seen their pix not undergraduates. some are working, while few r into business.

adetayo234:


They probably sent you sex chats because of how you presented yourself to them. Mark you, I'm not trying to excuse them

i presented myself well besides i dont dress half naked n post it online.

thesuave10:

I see. My dear things are about to change for you in Enugu

i hope it s not the change of buhari u r talking about

Simply because you friend zoned them.

zeusdgrt:
Quite matured I must say

how

studM:

How matures r u?if u dont mind can i c ur dp

ok i can send u my facbk id to check my pix

It goes both ways. Just don't let localized events shape your thinking. You'll end up happy. Its really a numbers game in some respects.

marisdgreat:

i know what i am saying. they r matured guys i hav seen their pix not undergraduates. some are working, while few r into business.

well maturity is of the mind and not physique....

some guys just lack sense really

but I hope you ain't been envisioned as someone or something else

like a hooker or slay queen

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Mature and wise caring guys can't be attracted by a digger. Your choice of words like supportive, loving and caring husband boyfriend suggests that. No offence just being observant.

Pure lie, I am one but have been disappointed in two occasions so I'm not longer interested in any relationship with naija girl anymore. U can never see faithful Nigeria girl anymore.

austinosita:


Truth is, you've been receiving pm's from the "wrongest" kinda guys!
There are still some of us that like good conversation.

Yes, money is important as you said, but majority of you girls just go after the money and nothing else! Then these guys you talk about, know what you lots are after, so they initiate all kinds of sex and nude pix ish! Nothing goes for nothing!


#you really have not encountered a good guy.......but they are there!

well i am not d type that goes into a relationship cos of money heaven will bear me witness for that. i dont like puttin all my responsibilities on a guy, i try to solve most of my problems by myself n some help from my family. i prefer to be an assest to a man than to be a liability. i want to be a helpmate but not a downmate. that s d little abt me, we still have few girls that love a man for whom they r n not what they have

Same goes to ladies too.....
I advice you face your real hustle and trust God for good one to come your way beside how I my not sure you have not turn down Mr right because of his #SURU CONDITIONS.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Benita27:
Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.

you are wrong. Let me use myself as an example.

I am currently asking a lady out and all she does is tell me she only wants friendship. What should I do? I really do like her and I am the very loving and caring type. Unknown to her I might give it up and move on. This same girl will meet another guy and wouldn't even stress the dude before she agrees to date him... and when dude start maltreating her, she would create a thread like the OP.

Benita27:
Op, don't mind those telling you guys are wiser. These are the ones who actually have nothing to offer in relationships. It's actually rare to see a guy with the qualities you mentioned but they exist.

Akiko! Most guys have those qualities but you have to first of all unlock them by winning his hrt. But unfortunately most girls do lose the key where they will be waiting for and expecting the guy to prove his love beyond devil's doubt. Kiss it, the truth.

MrSly:

Akiko! Most guys have those qualities but you have to first of all unlock them by winning his hrt. But unfortunately most girls do lose the key where they will be waiting for and expecting the guy to prove his love beyond devil's doubt. Kiss it, the truth.

motherfucker:
you are wrong. Let me use myself as an example.

I am currently asking a lady out and all she does is tell me she only wants friendship. What should I do? I really do like her and I am the very loving and caring type. Unknown to her I might give it up and move on. This same girl will meet another guy and wouldn't even stress the dude before she agrees to date him... and when dude start maltreating her, she would create a thread like the OP.

torres89:


well maturity is of the mind and not physique....

some guys just lack sense really

but I hope you ain't been envisioned as someone or something else

like a hooker or slay queen

i am not a slay queen, will it help me to achieve great things in life? will it attract those that will add positive things in my life? will it make me to a great woman like mrs ngozi iweala or late dora akunyili

sidneyeze:
Its becus is Hard To Find A
Caring, Supportive and Loving girlfriend too, most girls are into runz biz

hahahahah 2017 must be a terrible yr for oloshows yu don expose dem hahahahah

Boyooosa:
not taken but broke. won fe care!

I relate to this

Allwility:
What do you need three guys for?

skull minning sorry wallet minning hahahaah

chinexxx:
One word: Recession

2017 must be a terrible yr for olosho unto wallet minning levels hhah

marisdgreat:

u are an exception hmm what about the girl that u wanted to marry but she is sexually inactive because now u r telling her that u r available

Must you tell us how far you have gone with him in private?

maxzzo1:
ahahahaha 4 dis buhari govt.

2017 must. be a terrible yr for dem I can imagine

MrSly:

Must you tell us how far you have gone with him in private?

hmmm i dont hav anything wit him it was from his post that was y i asked him that question. next time read n comprehend before u take your phone n start typing, because china product has made it easy to hav access to an android phone