unto sey u don staff finish ba?

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

. Guy u don Bleep this babe for 10years now you wan dump her for who?

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

in this kind situation, if she curse you, bet me that curse go follow you.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Op,

It seems you didn't love her. I am married to someone I love... Someone all my folks never agreed to.. I was stuck to her... Made my decision cos I love her... And married her...

If u abandon her, the swear wey she go give u will be raised to power 28394

Pure wickedness...Guy you need cane o

you deflowered her, you made her go through the pain of abortion which is much more than the pain of child birth (have you ever seen a video on abortion?I'm sure you won't be able to finish the video) you wasted ten years of her precious life which must include her doing everything to please and make you happy,and you want to abandon her right now for what reason exactly? there is just no reason you can give that is tenable at all.
LOOK HERE MISTER, YOU MUST MARRY HER AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF HER,AND YOU MUST NEVER CHEAT ON HER.
So after doing that to a lady, you will now go and pretend and marry another lady?who will now be responsible for the harvoc you caused?
SO IRRITATING, ABEG PARK WELL,GUSH!

pretty16:


Some Men are just heartless. After 10yrs with 1 abortion she's no longer good enough for him. Msheeew

Trust me, if I were the girl, I will dump his sorry ass if he confronts me with this. Yes it will hurt real bad, but she will get a better person than him. And as for kids, she will have them plenty. Because she was naive and listened to his sorry ass and had an abortion ,
God will definitely forgive her. My advice is for the girl to move on with her life, because if she eventually gets married to this guy, she might regret it, cos he might make her unhappy.

u are saying she should dump him and move on to marry another guy.....what of if she is unable to conceive after marriage to another guy.? huh......looki have never committed abortion in collaboration with any girl. ...so it will be unfair for such a girl to carry such wahala and give it to another person.....



reason y I keep telling girls to stay out of relationship if u are not ready to marry

isaacsegun:


I'm not even disturbed by their curses because they are not in my shoe neither did they know how confused that i am concerning this issue.infact,i have went through all the contributions and I'm ready to tell my detailed reasons to the once that their contribution indicate how intelligent they are.thanks

You made a mistake,there's no need for this thread.Nairaland (tribal and sentiment land) is filled with many hypocrites, bigots etc.Also you are too economical with your story,I'm not a saint,so I won't condemn you but be extremely careful and honest in everything you do because the future is pregnant.No one knows tomorrow, please don't rush into marriage,don't confuse yourself just because of some attention seekers who are still living and depending on their parents for survival.Most nairalanders abusing you are not even virgins/saints yet they have the effrontery to display their stupidity, some of them have more than 2 body counts with different record of abortions.Don't bug yourself over faceless people,ponder about your life and happiness.The only problem I have with you is the abortion ish,it is very wrong.Say no to abortion.


Calm down,meditate,think about your life first.Do you want to be happy forever?The choice is yours.I wish y'all best of luck.


Blessed...have a great day.

MissRaine69:
You don't deserve happines.

Out of order and very unnecessary..!.

Benita27:
Who do you intend leaving her for after 10years of dating with an abortion?. When she was 17 she wasn't desperate, now she's 27 what were you expecting?. You better marry that girl!.

U just said what I got in mind

donnaD:

I did not force u to agree to my view on tins.if u don't like it to can as well hug the nearest working transformer.#bullshit. And don't try to quote me.

Get a rope and do the needful, if you don't like what I said.

The heart of man is desperately wicked! Who can know it?

Amberon11:
Shut up. What part of this suggested that the guy gave her money? Nonsense. Both of you will be shareholders in the curse.

Your entire generation is cursed! As for the Op no curse shall come to him. He shall be blessed in the morning and in the evening!

EgunMogaji:

is this the angel of death? at 3am? hope the op is still alive.

Amberon11:
shes gay?

She goes everywhere on Nairaland promoting lesbian relationships.

egopersonified:


is this the angel of death? at 3am? hope the op is still alive.

Yeye !

I think i know why she wants to marry him at all costs. Here are two reasons.

1, She has invested her whole youth and adulthood till present to this guy and the thought of having to start afresh with another person no matter how better the next person may be seems to be a herculean task. She rather be with the devil she knows than the angel she does not know.

2, She wants to experience the outcome of her abortion mess with the same person who made her do it. She must have gotten a verdict from her doctor that she may not be fully reproduction-ally functional and she does not want to give one man's trouble to another man.

Guy, just marry the lady jejely. Put yurslf in her shoe, how will Yu feel bf Yu decide?

Fummylola:



I am sure if the suppose Lady is your blood , you won't say this shit

Marriage is not by force. Stop being wicked trying to force somebody into a loveless marriage. You are pure evil!

fisayo02:
Guy, just marry the lady jejely. Put yurslf in her shoe, how will Yu feel bf Yu decide?

Another foolish man!

omakay:
I think i know why she wants to marry him at all costs. Here are two reasons.

1, She has invested her whole youth and adulthood till present to this guy and the thought of having to start afresh with another person no matter how better the next person may be seems to be a herculean task. She rather be with the devil she knows than the angel she does not know.

2, She wants to experience the outcome of her abortion mess with the same person who made her do it. She must have gotten a verdict from her doctor that she may not be fully reproduction-ally functional and she does not want to give one man's trouble to another man.

The guy should dump her already, he does not OWE her marriage!

You're a wicked person if am not mistaking she is now twenty seven nd you said she desperate to marry, if you refuse to marry her nd she course you OWO

I will tried as much as possible not to involved in your matter because I can see you biting your finger in regret ....if don't take step as man..

cococandy:
Disgusting human being

Disgusting piece of shit! Lesbian demon

Jabioro:
I will tried as much as possible not to involved in your matter because I can see you biting your finger in regret ....if don't take step as man..

You are the one that will bite your finger in regret for trying to force a fellow man into a loveless marriage.

egopersonified:


is this the angel of death? at 3am? hope the op is still alive.

I can neither deny nor confirm the identity of any horse, rider or combination thereof.

sweatlana:

May every life changing decision cost u ten years. Then disappoint u.

May all your brothers, sisters and children be forced into a loveless marriage! May you sow and never reap! May you never be able to ever make a life changing decision and may you always be disappointed in life!

treasuredluv:
I wonder why people are been hypocritical cursing, swearing at this dude cause he was honest enough to say 10yrs and 1 abortion, when some have dated just lesser 1-4yrs and numerous abortions. Which is worse?. Give him advices without curses, he haven't said he has left the girl, he's only asking for a candid advice which can keep the girl or otherwise

It is well with your soul,may you live long.Reminds me of Yeshua/Jesus and the prostitute in the bible,though I don't believe in religion but I love Jesus' response to the pharisees(Nairalanders).The world is filled with many hypocrites and sentimentalists.

sweatlana:

What is love??

He didn't know he did not love her for the past 10years abi?
Are u even aware that in marriage love is the first thing to go? What sustains a marriage is patients and tolerance.
This guy like most guys are wicked.
I pity my fellow woman waiting for a broke guy to grow.

Turn to a Lesbian and leave men alone. Go to Cococandy the well known lesbian recruiter on Nairaland to help you but don't you ever in your miserable life try to force anyone into a loveless marriage. That is pure evil!

Deegeorge:




INTERESTING ... continue gvn him false hope... let call a spade a spade what if that girl was ur sister

no blame the bleep abeg. the hypocrite was bornlastnight.