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Fedup With Prayers? Here Is The REAL POWER For Success (2) (3) (4)
I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 8:37am On Aug 19, 2017 |
Have never done anything successful in my life before, no matter how hard I may try, bad luck has been my middle name. Sometimes I felt God doesn't care about me, and truth be told He doesn't care. Since my childhood have been struggling with life, have never been in a happy mood throughout a day before, either happy in the morning or sad in the night. I tried a lot of things and it never works out,bad luck all the time. I prayed,fast yet God seems so far away, people do say a lot of testimonies about this same God ,I don't even have anothing to say about God in my life, cause no good has ever happened in my life before. This is my seventh years in school meanwhile I'm not a medical or law student, all my mates are 3 years ahead of me in every thing, money,happiness,joy etc. God doesn't care about me I can feel the hatred, have denied Him many times, yet I still find myself beleivig in Him cause I know I'm severing the living God. But now I don't know what to belive in anymore. Maybe there is another God out there who can answer my prayers and turn my life around I really need to know and find him, cause I'm fedup
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Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by felixomor: 8:44am On Aug 19, 2017 |
hope4black: Cheer Up brah The Lord will Show Himself strong in You soon. Your life is not a competition against others 2 Corinthians 10:12 For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. When God is done building your foundation, the building itself will be glorious. The more rugged the foundation, the more glorious the building Shalom. Amen 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by malvisguy212: 11:48am On Aug 19, 2017 |
hope4black:I read on a thread here on nairalaind, it say " The purest gold comes from the hottest furnace, and the brightest thunderbolt comes through the darkest storm of life." God protect us, and sometimes He uses this things to keep us close to Him. if things did not work out well for you In this present world, know that there is a better place you in the other side of life call heaven. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
What's your purpose on earth? When you discover that and walk towards it, then you will be walking to a gold mine. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Ranchhoddas: 3:03pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
felixomor:The first sensible thing you have ever said on this forum. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by felixomor: 3:48pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Ranchhoddas: Receive Sense! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by shadeyinka(m): 3:55pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
hope4black: Interestingly, you speak good English. That means you went to a good Primary School and a good Secondary School. You are in the University and successfully paid seven sessions of school fees. You are most likely smart and intelligent among others. My point. You are slipping into depression not because of what you have but what you don't yet possess. The Life of a Man does not consist in the Abundance of his Possessions. 1. First, count the positive things about and around you. You will find out that you are well ahead of millions. Then give thanks to God for those things. 2. Be BornAgain and establish a Relationship with God. /Rededicate your life to God if you are BornAgain. 3. Establish the negative influences around you and Terminate your connection/dependence on them WHILE at the same time, establishing connections and dependences on likely positive influences to you. 4. Upgrade your spiritual life with God while you seek for Deliverance. Do i. Self Deliverance ii. Partake in Mass Deliverance and iii. Find a Mature and Experienced Christian to minister deliverance on you. Note: Some kinds of deliverances are Instant while some are progressive. 5. Slowly, you will see things change and turn around for you. Don't loose Faith in God 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Ranchhoddas: 4:02pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
felixomor:You had to spoil the fun. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Ranchhoddas: 4:03pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
felixomor:You had to spoil the fun. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by felixomor: 4:03pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
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Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Ranchhoddas: 4:57pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
felixomor:Whatever. Get a grip. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by NoWorries7(m): 5:15pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Within a week, you will see great changes in Jesus christ name... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by CAPSLOCKED: 5:18pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
hope4black PLEASE, SEND ME AN EMAIL. I MIGHT BE USEFUL TO YAH... :-) |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by malvisguy212: 6:55pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
shadeyinka:bless you my brother. you have a very good point my good friend. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by malvisguy212: 6:56pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
[quote author=CAPSLOCKED post=59632472][/quote]this thread is not for atheists. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:46pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by shadeyinka(m): 9:35pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
malvisguy212: Thanks Bro. I hope the OP will get the message |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by obisco4u: 11:45pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Read the following books and you'll understand why you are failing. 1. “OUTLIERS” by Malcolm Gladwell 2. “MASTERY” by Robert Greene 3. “WHERE GOOD IDEAS COME FROM” by Steven Johnson 4. “MINDSET” by Carol Dweck You see God does not answer your prayers probably because, well, he travelled or busy, or maybe... I don't know.... You might be working with wrong pricinples and mindset. How come most white people don't believe in God and they still do so well? Just read these books. Especially the first one. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by LordKO(m): 12:52am On Aug 20, 2017 |
@OP Your problems are self inflicted, just like 99.9 percent of other religious proponents and practitioners. You all sees God as a trade by barter platform, thus, the reason why you have failed to accept responsibility of your actions and inaction. Kindly redefine your concept about God - forget about whatever religion has taught you about God, take yourself to a default state of a day old child, one that's witty. After you achieved the above feat, consider to embrace a thought line that sees God as being just, one who has given human beings all they need to exist independent of his minute interventions. One who neither expect prayers nor praises from you. He whom the only means you reverence him is through your good deeds towards your fellow human beings. The next stage will be for you to embrace a thorough change of ethical leanings. Embrace diplomatic ethical leanings and discard manipulative ethical leanings. While the latter will always win you instant admiration which you will lose within a twinkle on an eye the former will always earn you respect. As the saying goes manipulators lose credibility diplomats gain it. Well, I'll stop here for now to say more later. But I assure of success in a no distant time, if you can make the necessary changes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by shadeyinka(m): 2:02pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
malvisguy212:Thanks. Hope4black seems to have gone off the rader |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by malvisguy212: 7:14pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
shadeyinka:I pray he learn and work on what he read on this thread. most of this guys are atheists, they just come in sheep cloth.......op,i am very sorry if this comment annoy you, that what we Christians face here on nairaland everyday. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by shadeyinka(m): 9:19pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
malvisguy212:You are right. The truth is unpalatable sometimes. Stay Blessed |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Dohgon(m): 12:00am On Aug 22, 2017 |
hope4black:Choose Spirituality over religion. Only then will you realize that the power is in you. Stop praying to an outside force. Spirit is a universal force but you can only tap into the power and energy when you grow the energy of your Soul. Its called self improvement by practicing Fairness, equity, and personal accountability. Your energy will become so Magnetic that it will begin to attract good things to you. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by Hier(m): 12:18am On Aug 22, 2017 |
try N power |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by emprorfk(m): 12:52am On Aug 22, 2017 |
do wat ur mother told u...... if u cant take care of urselsf den who can... B-) |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 2:17pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
LordKO: Thanks, how will it be possible for me to start living this way without hoping and believing in God. And of cause if God doesn't care I will stop believing about any God out there, if that's how I'm going to be successful. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 2:18pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
emprorfk:I don't understand you sir . |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 2:21pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
obisco4u:Thanks, I will read them. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by LordKO(m): 2:47pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
hope4black: Foremost, I never said that there's no God/Allah/creator. I'm simply spiritual but not religious. For all I care and know, the presence of subconscious makes every homo sapiens a spiritual being. Now, to your inquires: (1) The possibility of you living and believing but not hoping in God: Before I go on, like I said earlier on, he's already given human beings all we need to exist and succeed independent of his minute interventions. Whatever you lack, there's someone somewhere that has it, so learn how to become a good deal maker. And remember that honesty remains the best policy in business. So, the possibility of you living and believing but not hoping in God is by way of embracing altruism. Altruism simply means being of goodness towards anything and everything without an ulterior motive of gaining anything in return. I am talking about selflessness. . . This doesn't mean that good things will elude you or that when people extend goodness to you that you shouldn't accept it or that you shouldn't aim for profit/wage in business, no. It simply meanings that you aren't going to be an opportunist like 99.9% of all religious proponents and practitioners are. By the way, opportunity is different from opportunism. While there's nothing wrong with the former there's everything wrong with the latter. (2) God cares. He remains a perfect being. We human beings are just imperfect manifestation of a perfect him, so stop trying to dissect him, because no person can comprehend and validate something beyond his understanding. Meanwhile, kindly get insight on something valuable, commercialize it and see yourself succeeding. Become success conscious rather than money conscious. Avoid conceit at all cost, because it remains the bane of poverty among very many formally educated folks. Conceited people knows everything but understand nothing - I term them inarticulate incompetents. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 3:58pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
LordKO:Your words motivates me, thanks. Life is not just fair on my side, whether I believe in God or not. There was a time in my life that I stop putting all my mind on God trying to do all my best ,like just being good. For about two to three years I stopped praying. Not that I don't believe or have the feeling that there is God out there but the issue then was that whenever I go to church and listen to sermons I do felt in my heart that I'm doing the wrong thing,that I have to change, I will condemning myself that I have to put God totally in charge of my life. The moment I start to have a change of mind and trusting in God again with all my body ,spirit and soul, frustration, lack , sorrow ,depression will come in again. My point is that, whether I believe in God or not, is still all the same, life has been unfair, I count myself among the unlucky ones. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by LordKO(m): 4:34pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
hope4black: I wonder how you're unable to decode an answer to your problem even when I repeatedly laid it bare for you in my previous submissions. |
Re: I'm Fedup, What Can I Do? by hope4black: 7:09pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
LordKO:You already gave me an answer, that's the reasons I said your words motivates me. Thanks 1 Like |
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