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Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by slimjaney: 5:22am On Aug 20, 2017
Are me not living to their responsibilities? Nollywood actress, Adekemi Taofeek, claims men are no longer interested in becoming a husband, saying they prefer to be a babypapa, having a child without a wife.

she said:

“I really can’t talk much on this but what I know is that it doesn’t apply only to Nollywood, it happens everywhere. The simple reason is that men don’t want to shoulder any responsibility, they prefer to father a child and leave the mother to shoulder the responsibility alone. Knowing they have a child is enough for them without caring for the child. They just don’t want to pay their bills.”

When she was questioned what her reaction will be if a man gets her pregnant and disagrees to make her his wife, the actress argued that such thing can never come to her.

“ If I wanted to, I would have been a babymama a long time ago. I want to be a mother and a wife. I can never be in such a situation because at this point in my life I don’t go around with unserious men. If I get pregnant I marry, straightaway. Anyway, I don’t date boys, I deal with men, real men.” she insist.


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Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Nobody: 5:44am On Aug 20, 2017
grin

And the big sister had spoken.. grin

I will only do this to get a Nigerian Green Card as what Luminouz told me grin tongue
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by oyonu(m): 5:48am On Aug 20, 2017
not all men o. some of us want to be husband to our wives and father to our children
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:55am On Aug 20, 2017
there are MANY reason for that...but the most simple one is that
A) many women become a curse rather than a blessing "after marriage". so many are very good at hiding their true self just to get the Mrs status, and thats only when you will discover the real person you married... B) marriage in Africa is a DO or DIE mission, and with such miserable state of mind, so many are doing whatever crazy shiiit to get married, and it never end well, but the MOST important reason is C) why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?!

by the way, this issue has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with responsibilities, as we all know that these kids are mostly always taken care of. its the deluded lazy women (who want to be taken care of), who foolishly believe it is a man's responsibility to get married and take care of their lazy self, that will complain about this....bwaaaaah!

Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Kondomatic(m): 7:11am On Aug 20, 2017
slimjaney:

“I really can’t talk much on this but what I know is that it doesn’t apply only to Nollywood, it happens everywhere. The simple reason is that men don’t want to shoulder any responsibility, they prefer to father a child and leave the mother to shoulder the responsibility alone. Knowing they have a child is enough for them without caring for the child. They just don’t want to pay their bills.”
This is not true, not even close.

Those in Nigeria entertainment industry are simply copying from Hollywood and the guys in Hollywood are going for baby mamas because women over there will bitch and needle you until you raise a finger or do something unpleasant and then they will call the police, file for divorce and claim half of your property.

That's just one reason, there are others, and for her information, some baby papas pay more bills than married ones.

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Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by luminouz(m): 7:52am On Aug 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin

And the big sister had spoken.. grin

I will only do this to get a Nigerian Green Card as what Luminouz told me grin tongue
Baby baby!!!! grin grin
What if I tell u say a lotta niggaz are already asking me about ur coming o....I was like wtf shocked
Dem be like u mean she is really coming I be like...ermmmm...urmmmmmm......n they were like fvck off mehn give us d full 411 man!!! grin
I was like iamkashybaby don put me into trouble ooooooooooooo!!!!!

How u doing baby?? grin happy Sunday

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Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Fadiga24(m): 8:05am On Aug 20, 2017
Baby daddy rocks cheesy

Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Nobody: 8:51am On Aug 20, 2017
luminouz:

Baby baby!!!! grin grin
What if I tell u say a lotta niggaz are already asking me about ur coming o....I was like wtf shocked
Dem be like u mean she is really coming I be like...ermmmm...urmmmmmm......n they were like fvck off mehn give us d full 411 man!!! grin
I was like iamkashybaby don put me into trouble ooooooooooooo!!!!!

How u doing baby?? grin happy Sunday


shocked

Am serious ooo..

So, now ur telling me that Nigerian Green card is aint real? embarassed all these stuffs are aint real?

Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by luminouz(m): 9:30am On Aug 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



shocked

Am serious ooo..

So, now ur telling me that Nigerian Green card is aint real? embarassed all these stuffs are aint real?
Lmaooooo grin
Don't be like DAT baby grin
Let's talk better on d oda side.....holla me aiit?
Expecting u ASAP!!!!
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:35am On Aug 20, 2017
Not definitely true but u can agree with me that when birds keep flying without perching, the hunter will start shooting without aiming. Figure it out.
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Nobody: 9:41am On Aug 20, 2017
luminouz:

Lmaooooo grin
Don't be like DAT baby grin
Let's talk better on d oda side.....holla me aiit?
Expecting u ASAP!!!!


Are u still using the same number since day 1? grin
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



Are u still using the same number since day 1? grin
luminouz:

Baby baby!!!! grin grin
What if I tell u say a lotta niggaz are already asking me about ur coming o....I was like wtf shocked
Dem be like u mean she is really coming I be like...ermmmm...urmmmmmm......n they were like fvck off mehn give us d full 411 man!!! grin
I was like iamkashybaby don put me into trouble ooooooooooooo!!!!!

How u doing baby?? grin happy Sunday

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Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by Nobody: 1:40pm On Aug 20, 2017
[quote author=itsJude post=59654105][/quote]


Babe...he's a good friend of mine grin

Hahahaah..plz dont look at me like that grin
Re: Men Nowadays Prefer To Be A Babypapa, Than Becoming A Husband --adekemi Taofeek by luminouz(m): 2:55pm On Aug 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



Are u still using the same number since day 1? grin
Same number Mami!!!! grin

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