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Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 9:39am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Good morning all, i really need your help on this. my Girlfriend who is a serving corp member was posted to my state. she stayed with me and almost every now and then, we do have sex, we are both sex freaks. the very first day we had sex, we both enjoyed it, subsequently, she keeps saying she's not enjoying it. before we s*x, she will tell me to make her wet, which i'll do all i can to make her wet, but honestly speaking she will say shes not wet and we by any means i tried to go in, she will complain that its paining her,. At first, i tought im the one with a problem, like i have an erection dysfunction but my pen*s is always firm and ready for action anytime we wanna have s*x. i even went as far as taking a drug *burantashi* just to satisfy her, but no matter what i did, she will say shes not enjoying it. Nairalanders, please help me, im about to lose the girl i cherished so much, how can i make satisfy her, your opinions and advise would be highly appreciated. God bless you cc lalasticlala |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by eezeribe(m): 9:42am On Aug 21, 2017 |
You don't have any problem,I wonder why you even took herbal stuff. You should try artificial lubricant with her,if it doesn't work... Just forget about her and look for another girl. Most girls with sexual problems do not try to get a solution for their problem,instead they try to blame it on the guy and expect him to conjure a solution... But if the problem is from the guy,they quickly dump him without thinking twice. 11 Likes |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Gourdoinc(m): 9:45am On Aug 21, 2017 |
guess all you need is communication, there is a way she wants to be loved or rather a way she is used to. women love sex chats because it heightens their arousal. they love to be treated nice and complimented, thus I think you need to ask ur woman to be open to you about how she wants to be loved. and try to do those acts gently and with love. before a sexual experience tell a sex story or watch some porn or something arousing. remember watching many genres of porn. straight and lesbian and the likes. and before your done especially with some sexual stories and body smooching. give her slow head while she watches her porn or reads her sex story (erotica). this will make her wet enough. seems you believe sex is all about thrusting ur erect penis inside. no wonder many women sometimes enjoy the touch of a fellow woman or rather a man with a feminine side. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Oyindidi(f): 9:45am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Na only sex be una problem? Una no get problem be that. You love her more and she's taking advantage of that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by BiafranBushBoy: 9:45am On Aug 21, 2017 |
lol |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Draei: 9:49am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Mods, please move this to sexuality section... |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Deadprez: 9:49am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Dont "loose" her bro, she be rope? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by BiafranBushBoy: 9:50am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 9:53am On Aug 21, 2017 |
eezeribe: thank you sir,. at times, i use olive oil to rub my tin so that it wont pain her, but its all same |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lemme go find my PAPITO! Synzu! Abeeg help this guy ooo.. |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 9:56am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Gourdoinc: God bless you .. i will do just that.. i pray she will like it if i suggested we watch porn before having s*x |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 9:57am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Oyindidi: honestly speaking i do Love her |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Oyindidi(f): 9:58am On Aug 21, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:That love is the problem here. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by josephine123: 10:01am On Aug 21, 2017 |
GET LUBRICANT OIL.. |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Elmojiid(m): 10:01am On Aug 21, 2017 |
my bro this life is more sweeter than sex oo...if only u wanna die of wat u no how to do best. |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Synzu(m): 10:09am On Aug 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: She gets dry easily. It's either due to an infection or she's just not feeling the OP like she used to. Either way, all he needs is lube. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 10:12am On Aug 21, 2017 |
josephine123: i use olive oil, but same same, she'll just tell me she's dry. that its paining her, and i should stop |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 10:16am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Synzu: thats whats confusing me here sir, the first time we had s*x, we both enjoyed it, after then, its zero satisfaction. there is nothing we didnt try,. but she keep saying she's not wet!! she wants sex! |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:18am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Simple answer,she is not sexually attracted to u anymore. Let her be honest to u,her mind is with another person. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Synzu(m): 10:29am On Aug 21, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES: Have you tried lube? Not Olive oil o, LUBE. |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Ginaz(f): 10:30am On Aug 21, 2017 |
The kpekus is exhausted. Can't kpekus have peace again? Na WA o. Kpekus you are trying o. Only you will bring child, only you will get hit with a rod everyday so many times for many years. Chaiii, this kpekus said it is tired. O.p let it rest. 2 Likes
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Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by SirL0neWolf(m): 10:34am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Olive oil as lube! You need to fear God |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 21, 2017 |
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Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 21, 2017 |
and someone like me hate the fact that I get really really wet during sexual activities, maybe she's no longer attracted to you op, don't you give her head? you should concentrate more on pre-intimacy, find her gspot,stimulate her clitoris, kiss her everywhere. make sex fun ND playful and not a chore or job. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 10:47am On Aug 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: please what is Lube! a picture will help |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Synzu(m): 10:50am On Aug 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: I didn't even notice
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Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 10:51am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Evaberry: thank You. ill try give her head on our next move.. lets see how this goes. i really appreciate |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by Nobody: 11:00am On Aug 21, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES: Chaaai! They are a lot of products of lubes over the counter (drugstores or supermarket)... Some are water based and Silicon based..But juz to be safe, go for water based...
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Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 11:15am On Aug 21, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Thank You so very Much!! *running to supermarket immediately* 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by pryme(m): 11:21am On Aug 21, 2017 |
Evaberry: Don't you think maybe the problem could psychological, cos most girls know how to bottle things inside and the side effects could hinder their sex life too. |
Re: Please Help! I'm About To Lose My Girlfriend Because Of This by mercy0008(f): 11:23am On Aug 21, 2017 |
There's something you are not doing right. Not everybody gets wet using the same method, what works for A might not work for B. Your girlfriend should be able to tell you how she likes it, what rocks her boat, if she likes pre-intimacy for long, how about porn before the main action and so on. Both of you, your problem is communication. Squeezing my boobs turns me on, but then there's a way you touch it, maybe just touching calmly without squeezing I will just turn off. I love head but pulling at my clits turns me off, am also aware it turns some people on. You can try rimming too. Be sure u are doing it right, what worked for your Ex might not work for her. Make she sef dey talk jorh. 3 Likes |
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