U don't have money to rent an apartment for her, but ua complaining

Wow

Bros, you're already single.

Hmmm, Nna odikwa veli veli lisky!!

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......

Am I just being paranoid?

He should kiss her goodbye. A sharp guy would impregnate her during the I.T. ...

You have the right to be OP.....
Anything can trigger the charge one night and before you even say Jackie, something has gone down.
And trust me, if it happens ones, it will continue to happen and you'll end losing her.
But all these depends on trust and the integrity of your girlfriend.

well, moses wasnt the one that actually led the isrealites to the promise land but was only a fore runner, the guy might be the joshua of our days...........padi abeg lick as much soap as u can for the 2months period

Hehehehehhe...i comment my reserve..ayam sayn ntin... ..d last tym a gal came n said she wnts to stay pendin wen she gets an appartment...i stop dia

No be small sex.

MrBrownJay1:


you are either paranoid (aka insecure) or you just know the type of wh0re you are dating...

U had never been in situation that u had been pushed to the wall, den u will know, its not only being paranoid or dating a LovePeddler is the situation... Sometimes, situations. And 1 second of bad decisions can lead to what u had vowed never to do. Remember, no one is perfect, the best is to avoid such situations

cc: Lexusgs430 and sinaj

My own didnt even have to go stay in anoda guys room during iT
To Bleep him
She just needed me not to b around
I feel ur pain bro




Pls ooo
I dreamt about my ex
She's been creeping in my mind since
I dunno y ooo
Kinda missing her oo
Buh when i remember say she go don get anoda boo now, while i still deh single!!
Now am vexing
I even wanted to text her, buh i been vex delete her number,
I saw her on facebook, should i send her a friend request?
I want to ask her for small money?

I hope u pple were not thinking i want to go back to my vomit ni?

My mama go say when man and woman sleep inside same house nah only angel fit prove innocence...

Simple advice from experience.

Don't allow her stay with the guy.

I repeat DON'T allow her stay with the guy.

Try sorting an apartment for her or something, but don't allow her stay with the guy.

sinaj:
Hehe

I comment my reserve

Sweetie... It's I RESERVE MY COMMENT. I know u wrote it on purpose lol...

princetom1:


Make we just call a spade a spade jàre. After all, body no be fire wood. We hear of people wey dey go charge ordinary phone for guy house, get belle, not to talk of staying with the person, u will see see things every day.... OP, just accept ur fate that what u are thinking will happen or rent a room for her, even if it's mud house... Or better still, put the word out now, so that u can get somewhere for her to share for that 2 weeks.
Make IT no turn honeymoons

you wicked o! @ mud house

Even op instinct don table the matter alredi for him

Op on a serious note you can't leave a bone with your dog just because you trust your dog.

Even if you trust her that much, what about the stranger? Even Uncle's nd Daddy in Christ force themselves on girls let alone a strange for this rainy season sef

I hpe you dnt open anoda thread afterwards to cry sha

You can't keep a goat Nd a yam together Nd u expect the goat not to eat the yam. It must happen between the two either by consent or by force.

guy 4get it, you done loose dat bae, she will never come bk to you the same way she left you

she is just your girlfriend not wife, you guys should stop having Headache because of women

won ma dopa

she is just your girlfriend not wife, you guys should stop having Headache because of women.

no you are just been paracetamol

princetom1:


U had never been in situation that u had been pushed to the wall, den u will know, its not only being paranoid or dating a LovePeddler is the situation... Sometimes, situations. And 1 second of bad decisions can lead to what u had vowed never to do. Remember, no knew is perfect, the best is to avoid such situations

cc: Lexusgs430 and sinaj

if i have any issues that bothers me, i communicate with my woman specifically about what/how/why it is a bother... thats the 1st step into finding a solution to any issue. if your woman cares for you, she will understand and seek for an alternative (unless she is a hoe planning the whole thing).

the dude is confused about it but yet is such a chicken that he cant even tell his babe about it?! what kind of failed r/ship is this?! no wonder he doesnt trust her.

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......
K
Am I just being paranoid?

Get her apartment then. Hope you can foot the bill?

My brother just start looking for a new gf

Goat n lion don't hang out..

2months ain't that long sha but do you trust your girl?

sinaj:
you wicked o! @ mud house

Even op instinct don table the matter alredi for him

Op on a serious note you can't leave a bone with your dog just because you trust your dog.

Even if you trust her that much, what about the stranger? Even Uncle's nd Daddy in Christ force themselves on girls let alone a strange for this rainy season sef

I hpe you dnt open anoda thread afterwards to cry sha

Sinaj, say for this raining season

vision2050:
Get her apartment then. Hope you can foot the bill?

Does getting her an apartment stop a guy from visiting her?

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......

Am I just being paranoid?

and someone said 'for this rainy season'
it's not about distrust,it's just being cautious...
how can you be comfortable when your babe is chilling at the accommodation of another handsome dude like you with a functioning rodrod


I have said my piece

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

exactly

when we say relationships need money, we know what we are talking about

@op if you don't have an alternative, don't stress

money will always make relationships, hard fact

RIP Relationship