I won't do that to myself,my wife and my unborn children THANK you.

GrandFinale2017:
if u are looking for a dream husband with 100k to marry u then u go reach 40 and still single

Mediocrity at work... SMH

supersystemsng:



A man without a stable income should not consider marriage...We've been there, we know what we're saying..before we started looking at the opposite gender, some stability was reached...young boys and ...

when it comes to v@gyn@ and brez I don't know why men lack common sense,but they'll be quick to refer to women as fish brains

Vagyna wey you go fok taya wey your preek go red and refuse to stand again when money come.

We know dbanj story for vagyna matter,when money come e fok red white black yellow,anything, no be him taya last last kukuma go marry quietly?

folakemigeh:
Mediocrity at work... SMH

mediocrity or imbecilic brain you mean?

dangotesmummy:
when it comes to v@gyn@ and brez I don't know why men lack common sense,but they'll be quick to refer to women as fish brains

Vagyna wey you go fok taya wey your preek go red and refuse to stand again when money come.

We know dbanj story for vagyna matter,when money come e fok red white black yellow,anything, no be him taya last last kukuma go marry quietly?

I wonder tire o..I no sabi sey yu be Area...

Anyway when dem rush go carry, you go see them with one cloth dey form corporate centre left right and centre...May God help all of us..rule, have a relationship, and hustle along the side, when finances rise, marry your chic...Shikena...Want a happy home, try to fix finances first, otherwise you hear them calling their wives witch...When such cases reach me, i ask how many business did you do that failed to qualify your chic as a witch...and the typical response i get is a dumbfounded look...

When they make money it's their own, when they are broke, the chic is a witch and her family low lives...

supersystemsng:


120k is cool for miniflat in some areas.

30k Monthly feeding

15k Miscellaneous

20k Monthly Savings

165K DECENT

Exactly and I'm talking about Lagos

supersystemsng:



Stop attaching God with lack please...I want you to be angry. 20k is lame biko..please I want people to get angry...it's better to be jobless than earn 20k

it is not you I attacked.. stop being angry on his behalf na.

you have the right to your opinion.. to you, earning nothing or being jobless is better than earning 20k a month.

dangotesmummy:

Exactly and I'm talking about Lagos

Bros, some part of Lagos. on the island, you need 200k for apartment yearly oh..otherwise na landlord abeg next week, two weeks time.

HMZi:
WORKABLE but most of these girls na slay queens now,they dont believe in building up,i just pity them cos soon they will be 30 and desperate

If a girl was reasonably comfortable prior to marriage, you would rather she joins you in suffering? BTW, I have no idea why a man earning 20k is still paying tithe.

supersystemsng:


I wonder tire o..I no sabi sey yu be Area...

Anyway when dem rush go carry, you go see them with one cloth dey form corporate centre left right and centre...May God help all of us..rule, have a relationship, and hustle along the side, when finances rise, marry your chic...Shikena...Want a happy home, try to fix finances first, otherwise you hear them calling their wives witch...When such cases reach me, i ask how many business did you do that failed to qualify your chic as a witch...and the typical response i get is a dumbfounded look...

When they make money it's their own, when they are broke, the chic is a witch and her family low lives...

you no ask the evidence of witchcraft?

Na them dey blame their wives and transfer aggression on their wives.

Them full Lagos. Any small thing them go dey beat their wives till them enter kirikiri for murder.

He who lives without a plan,plans to fail

MansaHenry:
Lol!!some peeps might just lose hope on seeing panties #20k!!tho on a gud day 20k goes down on booze alone

lol it's just exchange rate here doesn't seem so much .. £50 if exchange rate still at #400 that's 20k no lie that how much I pay but seems lots when u convert it ...
Its Buhari fault £ to naira

dangotesmummy:
you no ask the evidence of witchcraft?

Na them dey blame their wives and transfer aggression on their wives.

Them full Lagos. Any small thing them go dey beat their wives till them enter kirikiri for murder.

He who lives without a plan,plans to fail

GBAM @ He who lives without a plan,plans to fail

I',m becoming more and more sympathetic to our ladies by the day...they beatr them blue, yellow.purple, ask for sex, she goes to take loan,beg, buy on credit for the house, she gets abused, the husband who should even try wears cloth hangs around the neighbourhood comes back at night deceiving his own soul and later the woman is labelled a witch...When we tell ladies look lwell before marriage, they don't listen....

Lalas247:

lol it's just exchange rate here doesn't seem so much .. £50 if exchange rate still at #400 that's 20k no lie that how much I pay but seems lots when u convert it ...
Its Buhari fault £ to naira

What's the make of your pants dear? Can you send the used ones to my sisters on the forum, maybe they can sell it like 2k...in bend down ..

redbeans:
hian! Ordinary pant over 20k


my pay is even less than 15k. That means you will cast and bind if i propose with my below-pant-standard salary

I beg you in God's name, hustle, skill-up to earn at least 50k. Do not get married. This is beyond just caring for a family, unless you have no aspirations in life, and you want to live hand-to-mouth for the rest of your days, please do not get married on 15k. You should even be paranoid of having unprotected sex.

alexialin:
The suffer that awaits such woman who ventures marry a man with just low salary does not like herself. Except she's comfortable on her own? Then please go ahead and marry. But if the woman is aso earning. 20k abeg wait on God.
There is no trophy given to who marry on time.

At the end children will either go into prostitution to train themselves in school and the boys into armed robbery or yahoo yahoo

Some people sef

Right! Except that 20k is dollars or pounds...but if it is naira, please and please no sane man should get married if he wants to have peace of mind and a good marriage. Money is the a major source of problems in marriages. Forget whether the woman is a slay queen or a meek village girl, marriage needs more than that to run.
Imagine if the wife gets pregnant despite their being careful. She needs to go for antenatal,eat well, buy baby things,etc. what if her pregnancy is the difficult type and she has to be hospitalized? The man will be frustrated and be thinking all the time and going about begging for money and help.
Time that should be invested in loving each other will be for shouting, throwing tantrums,thinking and even regretting. That is when any little thing will trigger anger and could lead to beatings.
Marrying is not the ultimate goal in life. It is wickedness to get married with an income that is obviously not enough for one person.

This message isnt for people that own a phone to browse nairaland...they are on the street, withba nokia tourchlite....if u pass dis level pls ignore.

supersystemsng:


What's the make of your pants dear? Can you send the used ones to my sisters on the forum, maybe they can sell it like 2k...in bend down ..

kuku kill me

Omuneizzy6:
ohh you saw only 20k women with money, are you blind? You didnt see when he said you ladies must support with little something... Must you fold your hands and look your husband alone with 20k look nigeria is hot..20K go and ask those bank tellers how much they receive every month you think to wear make up and big suit that is all?

Bank tellers in the two banks I worked in earned around 60k monthly - they are not living big, but hey, they are not on a destitute 20k.

supersystemsng:


GBAM @ He who lives without a plan,plans to fail

I',m becoming more and more sympathetic to our ladies by the day...they beatr them blue, yellow.purple, ask for sex, she goes to take loan,beg, buy on credit for the house, she gets abused, the husband who should even try wears cloth hangs around the neighbourhood comes back at night deceiving his own soul and later the woman is labelled a witch...When we tell ladies look lwell before marriage, they don't listen....

men wey dey beat their wives and the wives refuse to leave or the woman wey leap into marriage without looking, if you look deeply after all the bs and after all the sacrifices of the woman,when you get to the bottom of the matter, the reason they refuse to leave is that the sex is too good to leave.the phenese is doing wonders to their senses.

Yoruba's say there are 3 major O's why women refuse to leave a marriage despite all the abuse and disrespect they get

O-owo-money
O-oko-phenese
O-ounje food


If one or 2 out if the 3 is met if you like tear her clothes naked,beat her like a criminal, she will still stay there and be forming good wife till she dies there

Kaybaba5:
these people are just saying trash, if you mistakenly impregnate one girl and the the girl refuses abortion. nobody will tell you how you will manage that your 20k salary........

i support the op

Recipe for domestic violence.

Bagehot:


I beg you in God's name, hustle, skill-up to earn at least 50k. Do not get married. This is beyond just caring for a family, unless you have no aspirations in life, and you want to live hand-to-mouth for the rest of your days, please do not get married on 15k. You should even be paranoid of having unprotected sex.

definitely o. I'm not getting married till i make it. ordinary baby pampers alone i go hear am if i make that mistake.

Lalas247:

kuku kill me

Lol... too much sauce dear, easy

dangotesmummy:
men wey dey beat their wives and the wives refuse to leave or the woman wey leap into marriage without looking, if you look deeply after all the bs and after all the sacrifices of the woman,when you get to the bottom of the matter, the reason they refuse to leave is that the sex is too good to leave.the phenese is doing wonders to their senses.

Yoruba's say there are 3 major O's why women refuse to leave a marriage despite all the abuse and disrespect they get

O-owo-money
O-oko-phenese
O-ounje food


If one or 2 out if the 3 is met if you like tear her clothes naked,beat her like a criminal, she will still stay there and be forming good wife till she dies there

Chineke me...you go wound person o

supersystemsng:


Bros, some part of Lagos. on the island, you need 200k for apartment yearly oh..otherwise na landlord abeg next week, two weeks time.

yes na

Lagos is one of the most expensive cities to live in Africa na

dangotesmummy:
men wey dey beat their wives and the wives refuse to leave or the woman wey leap into marriage without looking, if you look deeply after all the bs and after all the sacrifices of the woman,when you get to the bottom of the matter, the reason they refuse to leave is that the sex is too good to leave.the phenese is doing wonders to their senses.

Yoruba's say there are 3 major O's why women refuse to leave a marriage despite all the abuse and disrespect they get

O-owo-money
O-oko-phenese
O-ounje food


If one or 2 out if the 3 is met if you like tear her clothes naked,beat her like a criminal, she will still stay there and be forming good wife till she dies there

When they had time on their side, they were practicing professional sex delivery, well you've said it, if you don't earn well, at least be good in the bedroom to keep your wife...lol

supersystemsng:





Chineke me...you go wound person o

any woman you see today that agrees to marry a man on a 20k budget it's because his sex game is good.poor men are always h-orney

Alariwo2:
20K? Don't even try it.

You'll eat, you'll feed wife and kids, buy pad and pampers every week abi na month. Buy cloths and other accessories.
Transport nko?
House rent nko? abi na 'face me I slap you' you wan stay?


No just try am

Even if no face me I slap you, with this 20k budget... kolewerk

dangotesmummy:
yes na

Lagos is one of the most expensive cities to live in Africa na

I won't say Lagos o... in Ikotun, Abaranje, Ijesha, Okoko, Sibiri, Ojo, life is cheap..I would say Island

dangotesmummy:
any woman you see today that agrees to marry a man on a 20k budget it's because his sex game is good.poor men are always h-orney

Brother no woman would easily marry a 20k guy oh... i don't wish it on any lady

supersystemsng:



Brother no woman would easily marry a 20k guy oh... i don't wish it on any lady

some women and they're in the minority

ImaIma1:


Right! Except that 20k is dollars or pounds...but if it is naira, please and please no sane man should get married if he wants to have peace of mind and a good marriage. Money is the a major source of problems in marriages. Forget whether the woman is a slay queen or a meek village girl, marriage needs more than that to run.
Imagine if the wife gets pregnant despite their being careful. She needs to go for antenatal,eat well, buy baby things,etc. what if her pregnancy is the difficult type and she has to be hospitalized? The man will be frustrated and be thinking all the time and going about begging for money and help.
Time that should be invested in loving each other will be for shouting, throwing tantrums,thinking and even regretting. That is when any little thing will trigger anger and could lead to beatings.
Marrying is not the ultimate goal in life. It is wickedness to get married with an income that is obviously not enough for one person.

Don't mind the op.

That's why u see husband killing wife over 50naira
Wife killing husband over 100naira.

Is that marriage not cursed already from day one?

When no food to eat, everyone at home is angry. And the man will still want to fucvk his hungry looking bonga fish wife.

Mentality of some men never cease to amaze me.

I see some hungry looking married women and children. I just shake my head in wonder.

Those who are not hungry looking, some u see them going to hotels or coming to their married male friends or neighbor office to have short time and the yeye married man will dole out some cash to another mans wife wey hunger one nearly kill for house.

At the end, everyone come back home to deceive each other.

Before I use to be like, I wan marry O... I want marry!

But looking at the betrayals, hunger and shameless attitudes of some married people. Marriage sef no hungry me again. The whole feeling has been squashed down completely.

I Just focus on making my life and my business better, simple!

The worst evil I can do to myself is living in denial and abject poverty cause I want to bear Mrs?

God forbid