theboss01:
Can this be true? She came for me in the first place. Now I'm so in love with her. It'd hurt me so much if i get to know she isn't faithful

of course it will hurt. She knows u love her much and she's using dat as an advantage. She might love u but she's controlling you thru ur emotions and I won't be suprised if she's having sex somwhere else. Based on personal experience with your kind of story, i suggest u break up with her quick.

Don't ever allow a lady give u headache in life Remember After God is a man
After devil is a woman.
Have u ever wondered why the devil went to negotiate with Eve instead of Adam?

Buharison:
Your girlfriend is an enemy of state

Lwkmd!!!

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

Monkey dey work Baboon dey chop. We are all Nizoorians.

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

Monkey dey work Baboon dey chop. We are all Nizoorians...

bennymark:



'she said'

what women say is usually different or opposite from what they want.

lack of money makes some people depressed, probably why she is sad when you can't provide

if you are not giving up on her, find psychological methods of changing her, your words will mean nothing. also try to pan her into facing reality. she will become serious and stop seeing you as an ATM when she understands you are not just out for fun.

MAKE SURE SHE DOES NOT THINK YOU ARE DESPERATE. OBSERVE YOUR FINE BOY AND GIVE HER ATTITUDE WHEN NECESSARY

thank u very much

TsaTrinity:


of course it will hurt. She knows u love her much and she's using dat as an advantage. She might love u but she's controlling you thru ur emotions and I won't be suprised if she's having sex somwhere else. Based on personal experience with your kind of story, i suggest u break up with her quick.

okay. thanks

thepussyhunter:

lol
but he's in love plus he aiint sure if the lady is just using him

that's the point

Benita27:
Obviously she's using him. The op knows she's but needs someone to also tell him that.

U can never b too sure. i have no proof that she's seeing other guys. women r delicate that's y u don't just jump into conclusion with them. I know why i shared this topic...and i think I've gotten some nice response

theboss01:
Can this be true? She came for me in the first place. Now I'm so in love with her. It'd hurt me so much if i get to know she isn't faithful

She might not be having sex with another man which is a 50/50 thing

However one thing is very very clear

She doesn't love you.
When a girl truly loves you you'll know. She might have small attitude problem just like some men still cheat, but she won't ignore you during your hard times. Haven't you heard of girls who spend their hard earned money on their broke boyfriends, that's what love makes women do.
Her love is conditional love
It might be a hard pill to swallow, but please dust yourself up and move on

I truly hate stories like this, good guys don't deserve to go through this

I'm very sure she met you at a time when when you where vulnerable and down

Fuckboys/runs girls can smell desperation a mile away.

theboss01:
I don't even think of abandoning her. I still love her. I'm not sad with the fact that she asks me for money but with her reaction when i don't have to give at that point in time. Remember she said she isn't looking for a guy to spoil her with money but real love.

So bad that u are seeing the signs and ignorant of looking for other girls is killing u.
For me, the only credible way of girl loving u is communication.
I date only women of abt 30 but one of them just need us to be communicating. You see, women don't necessarily need money but good communications and u behaving manly.
Forget about love, learn the seductive communication and women will be all over u.

It is the same kind of hope the Op is having Nigerians have been having, bro, the signs are clear, U're her cash vault.

generationz:


She might not be having sex with another man which is a 50/50 thing

However one thing is very very clear

She doesn't love you.
When a girl truly loves you you'll know. She might have small attitude problem just like some men still cheat, but she won't ignore you during your hard times. Haven't you heard of girls who spend their hard earned money on their broke boyfriends, that's what love makes women do.
Her love is conditional love
It might be a hard pill to swallow, but please dust yourself up and move on

I truly hate stories like this, good guys don't deserve to go through this

I'm very sure she met you at a time when when you where vulnerable and down

Fuckboys/runs girls can smell desperation a mile away.

i agree with u. I'll just have to slow down things with her

theboss01:
i agree with u. I'll just have to slow down things with her

Please do so for your sanity, you can focus on your work

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

ATM machine keep it up
some guys very annoying

Bros u are finished, just go meet any guy wen u knw say he dey smoke weed make he load u one better slap so dat u go reboot. Thank me later

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

You be mumu, small time the girl would be using your head to play ping pong only for you to run back to NL for advice. Guy any girl that does not listen to your instruction as man leave her let her go and meet who she respect. This is basic intelligence if your mama no respect your father will she ever be your mother abi na your own papa de respect your ma for house.

You are not even the deputy boy friend. You are the personal assistance on economic empowerment to the boy friend.

60% of girls who says no sex till marriage have someone banging them! But have chose you to be the good guy they will marry

Please report this matter to the nearest police station... "your ATM has been stolen"

All sia indomie kids sef

pocohantas:


Alright then...you're just her own Npower.

Please don't ignore that attitude, don't ever ignore such an attitude. You'll face lots of challenges in marriage, intentionally adding a fair weather wife to it...isn't in your best interest.

Npower ?

In case you didn't get the story properly

Our relationship started some yrs back. Then i wasnt really ready for it. She use to tell me how much she loves me and sometimes she cries when I'm not around. At that time i didn't understand what love was all about. Still she kept on loving me, she never left. It was recently that i actually started feeling so much for her....so much that i now feel she's a part of me. She's the first girl that i have ever felt something so strong for. I really do love her now. But my pain is after so many yrs she's now putting up attitudes as if to say she doesn't care anymore. She brought up this marriage issue, she said we can build little by little, she said so many things. She has changed so badly and I'm really hurt

...and please don't talk about love when you don't have a first hand experience. It's not a child's play

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

My broda, Ride on broooo ! You are in love. Nothing wrong by falling in loveeeee.

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

Quit the relationship for your sanity