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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Chai, bros have you tried withdrawing 20k recently put it somewhere and spend small small and see what happens after three days...God forbid.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 1:14pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
supersystemsng:but the bills are expensive Transportation to work Fuelling your gen Foodstuffs Gas Etc |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 1:16pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Most people don't realize that infidelity is more rampant in poor neighbourhoods. Its in neighbourhoods like that that someone would take advantage of your wife always coming to watch Telemundo to nack her, or your kids coming to charge phones to molest them. It is not uncommon for women in these hoods to have one or two bastards in their flock. An old school mate of mine, whose family were down on their luck, moved to one funny place in Ketu, where its normal for girls to have had 2 kids before 18. Dude was baiting girls with silly things, until he also got hooked impregnating a random girl. Long and short, he has been on the same spot in life since then. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by AreaFada2: 1:16pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Gerrard59: It is not about coming from anybody. Simple reality is many are having kids without any income at all. Hardly anything you or I can do to stop it. Many cannot even afford condom. Because free WHO condoms end up in chemists for sale. I saw that as a kid in the chemist decades ago already. Some have no information (that you may have) on how to get free ones. Nor be today. While I'd not dare start a family earning below 250K monthly if I was in 9ja environment, millions of people are not going to use yours or my ideal standard as theirs. If they did, there would we far less poverty today. Now, how many people have you been able to dissuade from having kids in poverty? In 9ja, we like to sit on the high horse postulating what is ideal & lofty. Meanwhile the opposite is happening all around us. That becomes sheer hypocrisy. The man is here giving a practical solution on how to manage, not theory. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 1:19pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
supersystemsng:Lol too much juice |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 1:20pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
supersystemsng:of course na I can relate I've deposited 20k in the bank I con dey withdraw am small small till e finish.I no dey even check the account balance till the account enter 300 naira just between Monday-friday.I con dey wonder wetin I buy.to enter market sometimes dey fear person 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lalas247: bad girl 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by MansaHenry(m): 1:24pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lalas247:currently that will be 23k....thanks to Buhari..and his cohort!u have gat a Nice Sense of humor. |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by AreaFada2: 1:24pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Until your parents get tired of you when you have more grey hair than them. People do not have to do as he wrote. But at least he's proffering something practical, not idealistic or theoretical. Each person can decide that's the standard he wants for himself. To begin with, anyone in such a situation is already down. But it does not mean he's out. His zeal, focus & determination will be crucial in years to come. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 1:25pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
MansaHenry:So it even cost more lol u see my pant na 23k 3 k change remain seff It's not my fault o .. blame exchange rate .. one day sha naira will carry small weight 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 1:26pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Bagehot:of course na.wives and children of poor men are easy to deceive and take advantage of. How much you wan take use deceive daughter of a big man? 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
AreaFada2:then when you see you're getting old get yourself an apartment and a job. No one Should tell you when to leave your Fathers house |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by AreaFada2: 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Bagehot: Yep! cases of "married woman died during marathon sex with married lover in a hotel" happen mostly in those places. 25k can be enough to turn the head of some married women whose hubby has very little income. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by win2kwire: 1:30pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
What 1diot human pays tithe of 10% in this century to a god that is unproven and religions run by 419 criminal pastors! Are you people mad in that useless country? 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 1:32pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
win2kwire: don't start please |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by ImaIma1(f): 1:33pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
alexialin: We haven't even talked about feeding. Garri is 350 for a derica, rice is 280. Bottle of oil is about 500. And this kind of man will want to eat well o. If he drops 2k every week for food; what will it buy? That is 8k out of 20k. That one is okro and omi obe everytime with eja kika and lafun because black amala is double the price of white. He should forget soups like edikaikong and kill afang in his mind completely. Please men think twice...it is a trap 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by MansaHenry(m): 1:38pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lalas247:lool,funny u,we pray d naira eats some protein by the next time our beloved Bubu returns to London.Naira only fattens up in his absence |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 1:39pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
AreaFada2:area fada excuse me please There's a poor family I met in my church. A family with 8 children and the wife is a full time housewife relying on the father for everything. The man is a bike man and on a good favourable day he comes home with 2k or 2,500 I talked to him about family planning and tried dissuading him from having more kids, eventually all my talking yielded nothing. Recently his wife called me they have a son now,making 9 children all of them relying on 2k per day. When I told him about the dangers inherent in having more kids before he had the 9th that he cannot take Care of ,his response was "it's God that takes care of children" Many of them refuse to listen that's the problem and if you keep talking about it it will look as if you're prying into their business or private lives When he told me that he had his 9th child and 2 of his kids were sent out of school and I should give him money, I hung up the phone on him and didn't say anything. Since then after church he refuses to greet me and even me no send him again. His wife though still greets me then a Sunday she stylishly said it in a play play manner that its you and my husband that are fighting abi are you quarrelling with me too and I replied her immediately that I'm not fighting with anybody o.I only came to church to worship God and I've achieved that.odabo.na so I walked out if her immediately 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Abi? The men are the ones trapping themselves. Thinking they are trapping the women. The op is a guy, with his poverty mentality He dey find who he go Carry join body suffer for life! Ladies think twice o, before one guy sweet talk una into never ending suffering. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 2:02pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
supersystemsng: When I was about to get married, the first thing my pastor asked was if I had a place of my own, and I had a stable reasonable income. The next thing was an assignment for my wife and I to write a detailed life-plan of where we see ourselves at every stage of our life, our aspirations, and a plan on how to get there. If you have ever heard stories of how Mr X, a wretched fellow was class-mates with, or grew up with Mr Y, an uber-successful person, and you wondered why their paths diverged in life, its from their individual choices. I know people that got girls pregnant during NYSC, and got stagnated badly in life - one married a deeper-life type girl - today they are divorced: she started screwing for money, got tired of the marriage, and absconded with the kids. A couple of guys I know got married immediately they got jobs cos they were now 'adults' - a few years later, they are stuck cos they didnt get professional certifications, and certainly cant afford them right now - family obligations and all. I refused to marry until I had attained a bit of professional standing, and married 7 years after a lot of my peers. My son came a month ago, and a lot of crazy un-budgeted expenses came up due to medicals. To the glory of God, I have been able to meet them. I'm cuddling him now while my wife sleeps, and I'm filled with pride that I can provide at least the basics of life, and set my son up for a bright future (amen). Every bank executive I knew married fairly late, and today, they can provide incredible opportunities for their kids, that most of us can only dream of. God created everyone for a purpose; this life of misery and lack is not for anyone, but too few jump into life with a plan, and instead follow a template that a mediocre society has set for them, and end up miserable. If you think life is about going to school, coming out to get any random job, and getting married as soon as possible cos you want to do everything early without having a plan for the rest of your life, you would come short of your true potential. As your kids grow, what would you even teach them? How to endure suffering? Or how to achieve their true potential? Would you be the one to break the cycle of want in your bloodline? Or the one to perpetuate it? Would you let yourself be an object of ridicule for a starving wife? Or would you be the object of her admiration? Be wise. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by clemzo101(m): 2:09pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Op u have not talked about the wedding itself including bride price, ABI u just carry the woman put for house give am belle ni? |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by clemzo101(m): 2:10pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
That's not realistic at all.....op forget that thing |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Bagehot: May God bless you for this post... Very enlightening.. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Monki(m): 2:20pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Na wa sha 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by tunary(m): 2:27pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
supersystemsng:And I thought old friends are the best na was o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 2:30pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lalas247:And where do you shop that a pair of knickers is 50 quid? |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dayowunmi(m): 2:32pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
AreaFada2:God bless you. The op only gave a perspective on how those with low income can get married and ppl are castigating him. What is the ratio of people earning steady 20k sef? All those people criticizing him are only doing so because they have rich parents. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by GMBuhari: 2:33pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Habeyy: Hehehehe well people are naturally critics of good thing i shared a topic with some of my friends it was about n power, several thousands of you know who condemned the program calling it a ready made cake for Hausas One of the critics was the first person to open a thread about not receiving salaries even though it wasn't a month yet Point is these ladies have turned slaying into olosho business, young and old but majority of them don't want to work, I met a female student once, she learnt catering used to do cakes for environmental department in an institution she didn't have much but she was people's envy when she launched her slay queen career she was dating a Yahoo boy, that one carries her around in his muscle, shops for her this and that, She still dated a student, that one was a bricklayer / Mason very diligent and makes average monies . This same biatch is dating Okada boy that one too gives her money, While the puszzy was selling she abandoned catering, contrary to what everybody thought one shopping is about 200k, an amount more than enough to open shop and establish that amount is different from pocket money from bricklayer and Okada Eventually all three guys met at her house, fought maturely and left her she's back to square - 5 now , story spread like wild fire she can't buy flower let alone buy pants, her shop is gone, nobody wants to sponsor her, what do you think of that? 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 2:36pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
tunary: trust me...run from those retards. they're only the best whne you're on the same financial level not when you're better off, or they're better off 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by carbonado(m): 2:44pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
" Lalas247:"...hi lalas247,i must say the lord is truely wonderful in his ways...if you know what i mean by your profile pic. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Biodun1929(m): 2:45pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Lalas247: What are you feeling like? SMH! |
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