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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by veraponpo(m): 2:01pm On Aug 22, 2017
flex04:

Don't call your sister/brother by their name

For the Yorubas, even if the age difference is just a year, you must add a prefix like aunt or uncle. It is even more unacceptable if you call someone way older than you by their name. The person will just ignore or be lackadaisical.

Always eat your meat last

We do not know the source of this rule but when dining with a Yoruba family, you should always eat your meat last.


so wen there was no words like aunt or uncle wot do guys use

afonjas can just eat meat without their meal,,, afonjas and meat are like cry cry shocked shocked grin

Before the English words like bro, Sis, aunt and uncle came, the words used then was Bere mi for older brother or elderly ones not enough to be called baba ( father).

The general one for both ladies and guys is 'egbon mi'.

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Nobody: 2:02pm On Aug 22, 2017
I never got to understand that last one though. But subconsciously it is part of me now.
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by omoelerin1: 2:03pm On Aug 22, 2017
[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=59718522] shocked


BROOM IS BROOM

Most people think this is a myth but it is so true, Hajia Ramotu even confirmed this to me.

In Yorubaland, It doesn't matter if it is a toilet broom or broom used in sweeping the bedroom.
As long as it is a broom, it can be used to stir the Ewedu soup.

[/quo I have never seen your comment on nairaland that makes sense. I don't think you normal. And you always be the first to comment in every section. You get work at all?

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by OAFMods: 2:03pm On Aug 22, 2017
TINALETC3:
Wen u hv little issues wt dem, dey dnt jst insult u, dey also insult ur great grandparents dat ar long dead even b4 u were born(Iya le Iya eeee) grin grin, I guess it's anoda culture grin

Person wey whor-whor as you be like deworwor suppose de wear veil. God no create you to de show face where humans de not even on an anonymous forum like NL.
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by muller101(m): 2:05pm On Aug 22, 2017
The thread has been destroyed by bigots already
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:06pm On Aug 22, 2017
Cinta1989:
Let me sit here for some time, I know say YAWA must burst for this thread
. exactly am waiting too grin
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Nobody: 2:07pm On Aug 22, 2017
grin
refreshrate:
What about the oil & plenty pepper in stew thing?
refreshrate:
What about the oil & plenty pepper in stew thing?
refreshrate:
What about the oil & plenty pepper in stew thing?
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by jericco1(m): 2:07pm On Aug 22, 2017
I agree with point no 2
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by seegi(m): 2:07pm On Aug 22, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


BROOM IS BROOM

Most people think this is a myth but it is so true, Hajia Ramotu even confirmed this to me.

In Yorubaland, It doesn't matter if it is a toilet broom or broom used in sweeping the bedroom.
As long as it is a broom, it can be used to stir the Ewedu soup.

Plz wipe ur mouth... did u knw y, just bcuz u are lying, dere is a special one for it and it is called 'Ijabé' always small and thick

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by FemiEddy(m): 2:08pm On Aug 22, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


BROOM IS BROOM

Most people think this is a myth but it is so true, Hajia Ramotu even confirmed this to me.

In Yorubaland, It doesn't matter if it is a toilet broom or broom used in sweeping the bedroom.
As long as it is a broom, it can be used to stir the Ewedu soup.

When you post sensible comment, I do commend and appreciate u but now that you have done otherwise, I would love to do the same.
You are a mad animal

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Bimpe29: 2:08pm On Aug 22, 2017
Some of those things (culture) are golden rules that facilitate moral, unity and peaceful coexistence.

Home training is given an utmost importance in Yoruba land.

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by omoiyalayi(m): 2:09pm On Aug 22, 2017
Yoruba and respect is like rice & white

I remember when I first came to abuja I met a yoruba guy that we both came to abuja almost the same time we later became friend but anytime this guy wants to greet any elderly person be any tribe he always prostrate I used to remind him that not everybody fancy prostration. I used to tell him that it's only yoruba that he can prostrate for that will understand him more. That guy ehn grin

But that's how Yorubas raise their children and you can't take that away from them



Proudly yoruba

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:11pm On Aug 22, 2017
Danielmoore:
I am Igbo but my mother is Yoruba
I had a tough time with my mother family while growing up
they call us omoake because we no dey bow down greet them
a lot of weird thing about their culture sha
. omo ake mean the bold one no b abuse o
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:15pm On Aug 22, 2017
Tajbol4splend:


Your thought is a garbage
. garbage u are
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Lalas247(f): 2:17pm On Aug 22, 2017
Must we kneel down and greet

I hate doing that like ... we shouldn't bow down to anyone but God now .. sad
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:18pm On Aug 22, 2017
Tobiemmanuel007:
. garbage I am
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Rozaystunna(m): 2:22pm On Aug 22, 2017
afonjas and yeye rules mchwwww

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:25pm On Aug 22, 2017
OAFMods:


Person wey whor-whor as you be like deworwor suppose de wear veil. God no create you to de show face where humans de not even on an anonymous forum like NL.
ahn ahn eleyi gidi gan o this one is too much na
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Rozaystunna(m): 2:30pm On Aug 22, 2017
you forgot to add that afonjas dirty die!!

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by KingOvoramwen1(m): 2:32pm On Aug 22, 2017
Rozaystunna:
you forgot to add that afonjas dirty die!!

grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin
cheesy grin grin grin
grin

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by eluquenson(m): 2:32pm On Aug 22, 2017
Yoruba culture still the best in Nigeria
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Jaymaestro(m): 2:37pm On Aug 22, 2017
mtchewww. tribalists just ruined sth I hoped others will add for one to learn from but Noooo .. Nairaland tho

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:42pm On Aug 22, 2017
AmandaLuv:
Dirty things.
Dirty patas
I didn't believe my eyes when I saw yr signature as love is life


abeg bureau de change place we u branch last didn't only change yr moni o But yr brain also final



I didn't type that lipsrsealed

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 22, 2017
VickyRotex:
I thought this was common with every tribe or how an individual is raised!
Proudly Nigerian!!! cool cool

Omo Oodua nimi kiss
you said you're an Oodua, nobody castigated you! When I say I'm a Biafran, they'll yell at the top of their voices "Hang Him!!!!!!!"
Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 2:53pm On Aug 22, 2017
AmandaLuv:
Dirty things.
Dirty patas
I didn't believe my eyes when I saw yr signature as love is life


abeg bureau de change place we u branch last didn't only change yr moni o But yr brain also final



I didn't type that lipsrsealed

well offering u a Brain

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Tobiemmanuel007: 3:01pm On Aug 22, 2017
angry
Tajbol4splend:
[/quote]. [quote author=Tajbol4splend post=59720015]
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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by mercyville: 3:06pm On Aug 22, 2017
chinex276:
pls op don't forget the part where mining of skull is a special skill

That one is the culture of the ojukus exported to the SW. Look at different dry and wet skulls
downstairs ..

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by Nobody: 3:10pm On Aug 22, 2017
Opinionated:
The Yorubas are one of the major ethnic groups in Nigeria. They are mainly found in the South-Western part of the country. They are popular for two things-education and culture. In this case, we want to focus on the later which is culture.

Although almost all ethnic groups in Nigeria are culturally conscious, that of the Yorubas is a notch higher. Hence as a traveller to states such as Osun, Lagos, Ondo, Ogun, Oyo and Ekiti; you are expected to know or be aware of some cultural rules which you cannot find in a book. You are taught from your childhood. In order not to fall foul of these unwritten cultural rules, Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency shares some of these rules.
[b]

[b]Give elders items with your left hand


You must have observed that some people frown their faces or do not accept an item from the giver if you offer it with your left hand. This is one of the ways to indirectly 'offend' a Yoruba person. Even among your peers, you should not give items with your left hand. Always use your right hand.

Don't call your sister/brother by their name

For the Yorubas, even if the age difference is just a year, you must add a prefix like aunt or uncle. It is even more unacceptable if you call someone way older than you by their name. The person will just ignore or be lackadaisical.

Leave when parents have a visitor (s)


If you do not want to get into trouble with your parents especially your mum, you should leave when they have visitors. They do not want you to eavesdrop. If you decide to stay, the reward is a dirty slap from your mum!

Always eat your meat last

We do not know the source of this rule but when dining with a Yoruba family, you should always eat your meat last.

source: http://www.opinions.ng/5-unwritten-cultural-rules-yorubas/





[b]Greeting is a must


It is an 'abomination' if you walk past a Yoruba man or woman without greeting. It is even worse when you know them and you still do not greet. They will perceive you as uncultured, disrespectful and lacking home training. [/b][/b][/b]


@bolded. Is a effing big lie. Yoruba's only respect their own. Severally Yoruba kids will walk past you n greet d next Yoruba person and move on.
When they need your help that's when they show their lizard like talent of prostrating more than standing.

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Re: 5 Unwritten Cultural Rules Of The Yorubas by highwaist: 3:25pm On Aug 22, 2017
to all the flat head Republic people. afonja is from Ilorin, calling all yoruba afonja is stupidity

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