Lalas247:


.. one day sha naira will carry small weight

wen will be dat day?

ImaIma1:


Guy i have been baby shopping and i have not bought one single designer item and i can tell you that a family needs to be prepared financially.

Girl there is difference between needs and wants.
Everything you're buy-in are wants. Ppl survived in jungles before those things were made. Abi I lie. Maybe you're a 90's baby.
Na nappy dem use for us. Washable, reusable.
Most others are just effizy cos everyone is doing it.
Poor people survive without these things.
Just be grateful you can afford time savers.
But they are not compulsory

Even the list the hospital gives you for the necessary things you will need is not what a 20k monthly salary will support.

So how do cleaners and messengers and marketwomen have kids?

Even if you use cloth napkin, you will still spend money to buy it and spend money to treat rashes often because u can be sure that with napkin comes rashes.

Rashes when you refuse to change your kid as at when due because looking posh is your priority not the child.

I am a very practical and objective person. Before i go ahead with something, i weigh the options to avoid major problems later. Nobody likes to go around begging for assistance everytime. If it is once in a while, it is ok.
Someone that earns 20k and wants to start a family should have another source of income.

Agreed
But are you saying that poor ppl should not have children or that they are not surviving somehow
The desirable is not always attainable
Sometimes we just wing it and hope for divine providence.
See me now de find 200 k to marry and 40 don reach.
No need to marry again. Na to accept my cross. Not everyone can do that
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dayowunmi:

Most Nigerians are pretenders and unrealistic or maybe disconnected from reality is the more approximate term! Let's just thank god for ourselves but we must realize that the desire of every human being is happiness and companionship, and everybody deserves that regardless of socio economic status. someone was saying a man must have a regular salary of 100k before marriage! how many jobs pay that amount apart from federal government jobs? Using 100k as yardstick for marriage is tantamount to saying if you don't have a federal government appointment or a top company appointment don't marry.

hmm am soo glad for ur reasoning....d funny way dy attacked d op was surprising to me ..... I was even sympatisin wit low income earners and one madam said am lickin nl guy's ass for a trophy..lolxxxx...dy think al fingers r equal..
Abeg every malam wit e own kettle oo.... Since every guy is formin big man here...oya lefulefu, Randy19 and dat oga dat said he can only settle wit nrtin less dan 1million a month evfee or so... Oya am hungry and i nr know wat to chop dis nyt

Stellie:
awwwnn so swit of u

Thanks, how did your day go?

Stellie:
hmm am soo glad for ur reasoning....d funny way dy attacked d op was surprising to me ..... I was even sympatisin wit low income earners and one madam said am lickin nl guy's ass for a trophy..lolxxxx...dy think al fingers r equal..
Abeg every malam wit e own kettle oo.... Since every guy is formin big man here...oya lefulefu, Randy19 and dat oga dat said he can only settle wit nrtin less dan 1million a month evfee or so... Oya am hungry and i nr know wat to chop dis nyt

no worry ...me and Randy19 go contribute money take buy sharwama for u

mikolo80:

Girl there is difference between needs and wants.
Everything you're buy-in are wants. Ppl survived in jungles before those things were made. Abi I lie. Maybe you're a 90's baby.

Ok Mikolo go and get married with 20k salary.
90s or 80s, we are in 2010s.
By the way, I am 80s...early 80s

Randy91:



That Ukwu she gat is more than Divine......bt there are better Ukwus out there wey their pant in a year is nt even more than 3k and neat down there...


Abeg Buhari is back,I ll go 4 those Ukwu that r MAGNIFICENT in shape and HUMBLE at sight....


Lalas247 Ukwu is rugged at sight...all these island guys don too taste am......


#TeamVirginUkwu

ukwu analyst
see as i raise hand 4 u

Randy91:



That Ukwu she gat is more than Divine......bt there are better Ukwus out there wey their pant in a year is nt even more than 3k and neat down there...


Abeg Buhari is back,I ll go 4 those Ukwu that r MAGNIFICENT in shape and HUMBLE at sight....


Lalas247 Ukwu is rugged at sight...all these island guys don too taste am......


#TeamVirginUkwu

lefulefu:

ukwu analyst
see as i raise hand 4 u

Hmm make I no talk

Lalas247:



Hmm make I no talk

he dey trip for ur garage
i can see the admiration in his words but then randy na virgin hunter

lefulefu:

he dey trip for ur garage
i can see the admiration in his words but then randy na virgin hunter

Haha virgins still dey nl

Lalas247:

Haha virgins still dey nl

i dont know oo
Randy91 is in a guud position to answer dat

lefulefu:

i dont know oo
Randy91 is in a guud position to answer dat

Lol

Lalas247:

Haha virgins still dey nl

I like you Lalas. It's a soft feelings. Let's be friends?

lefulefu:
ukwu analyst see as i raise hand 4 u

Lolz.... is our work ooooooo

RuggedArab:


I like you Lalas. It's a soft feelings. Let's be friends?

Iffa hear

lefulefu:

i dont know oo
Randy91 is in a guud position to answer dat

yeah baba am 1

RuggedArab:

I like you Lalas. It's a soft feelings. Let's be friends?

Lalas247 pls take down ur dp oooooooo
d main UKWU eaters r here ooooo....

Randy91:



Lalas247 pls take down ur dp oooooooo

d main UKWU eaters r here ooooo....

Kikiki

Lalas247:
Kikiki

I only analyze and still have a virgin ass...Lolz

##TeamVirginUkwu??

Randy91:



I only analyze and still have a virgin ass...Lolz


##TeamVirginUkwu??

No shaking ride on

Stellie:
hmm am soo glad for ur reasoning....d funny way dy attacked d op was surprising to me ..... I was even sympatisin wit low income earners and one madam said am lickin nl guy's ass for a trophy..lolxxxx...dy think al fingers r equal..
Abeg every malam wit e own kettle oo.... Since every guy is formin big man here...oya lefulefu, Randy19 and dat oga dat said he can only settle wit nrtin less dan 1million a month evfee or so... Oya am hungry and i nr know wat to chop dis nyt

can u make it to my hux tonight...

in mua father's hux,there r many mansions there!!!

Lalas247:

No shaking ride on

u cn still help mua ministry wit a VirginUkwu...


I ve bn keeping it 4my future wife bt now pressure 4rm mua family makes me wanna lose it

Lalas247:
Haha virgins still dey nl

of course there are still #VirginUkwus on NL
u want to knw...
CC:Rozaytee

Lalas247:


Iffa hear

Does that answer my question? Oh no!

Ehen..... why are you blushing?

RuggedArab:


Does that answer my question? Oh no!

Ehen..... why are you blushing?

Black chics don't blush

Randy91:


u cn still help mua ministry wit a VirginUkwu...


I ve bn keeping it 4my future wife bt now pressure 4rm mua family makes me wanna lose it

Pls keep

Lalas247:

Black chics don't blush

They blush very well. Lol

Lalas.... your name sounds babish.

Victornezzar:

yeah baba am 1

well Lalas247 ur question has been answered

lefulefu:

well Lalas247 ur question has been answered

owfa dat level
Bush still call u??

Victornezzar:

owfa dat level
Bush still call u??

yes o.we yarn

lefulefu:

yes o.we yarn

Alright
No p

Let us be realistic. N20K a month cannot sustain a family of two not to talk of the one that has produced children.
Even the government that is paying N18k minimum wage knows it but loathe to admit it.
I am presently living above N20K and yet cannot cope. Despite the case that I am a single guy who does not smoke, drink, or womanise.