Giddyperson:
Even on the one day she was gone, she called me by 4:30am the next morning that I should wake up and wake hubby. Then I should read Psalm 1-4 aloud while hubby would read 6-10 then together we read 11 and pray

lwkmd

Lmao! By the time your MIL is done, you and your hubby will open a church. Abeg, let me know by then, so I can be in charge of collecting offering giddy house of prayer and deliverance ministry.

Giddyperson:
lol I don't really want her to go jor. I just wish she would listen more and not be so persistent in her ways . The other day she brought bread to our bedroom at night. Hot and freshly baked and just because Giddybaby was staring at her she tried to put some in her mouth . EBF is a joke to her so she stays putting things in my baby's mouth even after I've said no one should. And some of the things she wants to feed her at so not safe. Before I come back from work one day and find my baby devouring ice-cream . I don't let her do these things while I'm here but she keeps trying so I'm just scared of what she would do when I resume work and my baby is at her mercy. I sha have my 'little birds' that flash me whenever she's up to something so it won't be that bad.

Also hubby is currently out of town and usually this is my 'free from marriage duties' period but it's not working this time cuz you can't tell MIL to eat indomie or cereal She would look at you with Ahnie's Isoko eyes and your brain would reset. Recently hubby got her to go and visit another of her kids for a week so we can rest from excess church, preaching and prayers. See us breathing sighs on relief when she left. Just for the woman to come back the next day and say she prefers staying here . Even on the one day she was gone, she called me by 4:30am the next morning that I should wake up and wake hubby. Then I should read Psalm 1-4 aloud while hubby would read 6-10 then together we read 11 and pray

Pweetiebabe:
That's so 2ru sis, I remember one of my Antenatal visit to d private hospital I used I got there ard 8am and till like 1:30pm we no see doctor, matron or sister to come attend to us, I ate breakfast,slept woke took second round of food den sleep again before dey called d matron who was off duty to come attend to us.....I was just imaging wot if there's an emergency case.

mbanu! Cappo That is not a private hospital they're not business minded at All imagine customers :Dthat they will miss cos of that delay. For all my pregnancies I used both govt and private for ANC but had my deliveries in the private and their services were top-notch . They had this extra/personal touch that I liked. And I prefer using gynaecologists( personal choice) they take the delivery, which I know I can't get in govt hospitals. Don't get me wrong the nurses and medical officers are great but it's just a personal choice.

Yes maam. God bless you.

queensnow:
Check ur mail box

olalayo1710:
u know everytm I use to pray for giddyperson mil, she is indeed a wonderful mom, may God bless her real good, I was also in ur shoes when I gave birth to my first fruit, mil came to Lagos d day I delivered only to tell hubby I will follow her to abk when am discharged, in which he decline that we can travel with a day old baby,was discharge that evening she sleep that night and she traveled back d following morning, I was left alone with my baby cos my mom was in Ilorin wit one of my sibling that was sick that time(cos I trust my mom). thank God I scale tru that phase. God bless all d real and good moms out there.

seriously she's a saint. Whenever she tells me she's going for confession I'd be wondering whether she's going there to confess over reading the bible

Giddyperson:
lol I don't really want her to go jor. I just wish she would listen more and not be so persistent in her ways . The other day she brought bread to our bedroom at night. Hot and freshly baked and just because Giddybaby was staring at her she tried to put some in her mouth . EBF is a joke to her so she stays putting things in my baby's mouth even after I've said no one should. And some of the things she wants to feed her at so not safe. Before I come back from work one day and find my baby devouring ice-cream . I don't let her do these things while I'm here but she keeps trying so I'm just scared of what she would do when I resume work and my baby is at her mercy. I sha have my 'little birds' that flash me whenever she's up to something so it won't be that bad.

Also hubby is currently out of town and usually this is my 'free from marriage duties' period but it's not working this time cuz you can't tell MIL to eat indomie or cereal She would look at you with Ahnie's Isoko eyes and your brain would reset. Recently hubby got her to go and visit another of her kids for a week so we can rest from excess church, preaching and prayers. See us breathing sighs on relief when she left. Just for the woman to come back the next day and say she prefers staying here . Even on the one day she was gone, she called me by 4:30am the next morning that I should wake up and wake hubby. Then I should read Psalm 1-4 aloud while hubby would read 6-10 then together we read 11 and pray

Hahahahahahahaha this sounds somehow like my MIL. She's a darling too but atimes comes across as too aggressive and domineering. Mine is 5am kpomkpom kpom ekpele ututu (knock knock knock morning prayers) you MUST come out o. For my first daughter I did EBF but mama nnukwu broke it without permission at 5months. I came home and met my baby gulping pap I was shocked. Guess what mama said? I don't understand all this nonsense you educated people are doing starving a child, see how light and empty she is. She isn't heavy. Moreover my bible never said don't give a baby pap and water! I was weak. But I love the woman all the same cos she's my voltron MamA has done plenty things. She gave my baby akpu at 7months. Used Goya olive oil as baby lotion instead of the boots I bought and baby broke out in rashes from head to toe. Oh yes she kills and prepares a whole chicken for me and my babies once we clock 6months just the two of us must finish it the baby gets the 2 drumsticks and I get to eat the rest.( I love this sha). She once called me and her son irresponsible parents cos we went out late at night just to flex. Phew....Plenty stories but lemme stop here. I still love her sha and I know she loves me well.

Giddyperson:
seriously she's a saint. Whenever she tells me she's going for confession I'd be wondering whether she's going there to confess over reading the bible

Naomi14:
Lmao! By the time your MIL is done, you and your hubby will open a church. Abeg, let me know by then, so I can be in charge of collecting offering giddy house of prayer and deliverance ministry.

giddybaby would even be our lead prophetess cuz MIL interprets her babbling as speaking in tongues

Maitama Gh charges 2k for VB and 35k for cs.
They begin at 8am and attend to first timers, then older people. I haven't seen any reason to doubt them yet.

Giddyperson:
seriously she's a saint. Whenever she tells me she's going for confession I'd be wondering whether she's going there to confess over reading the bible

lol! Father forgive me for i did not read the whole chapter of john 21 today..... i only read verses 1-23!

Sansa143:
Evening all!
Rant time!
So am bak 4rm d ban!I thought we were sisters in dis forum but I got d shock of my life wen one of us decided I should be banned 4rm posting in health section entirely 4 a whole 24hrs!I am really disappointed in whoeva did such!I hold no grudge against d person!Since dats how it is now,is best I become a peeper!Thanks alot!

How did you know it was one of us?

Thank you @Tripplemo,@Bloomingbud and @Eksbabe for your suggestions God bless

ebonychic18:



Hahahahahahahaha this sounds somehow like my MIL. She's a darling too but atimes comes across as too aggressive and domineering. Mine is 5am kpomkpom kpom ekpele ututu (knock knock knock morning prayers) you MUST come out o. For my first daughter I did EBF but mama nnukwu broke it without permission at 5months. I came home and met my baby gulping pap I was shocked. Guess what mama said? I don't understand all this nonsense you educated people are doing starving a child, see how light and empty she is. She isn't heavy. Moreover my bible never said don't give a baby pap and water! I was weak. But I love the woman all the same cos she's my voltron MamA has done plenty things. She gave my baby akpu at 7months. Used Goya olive oil as baby lotion instead of the boots I bought and baby broke out in rashes from head to toe. Oh yes she kills and prepares a whole chicken for me and my babies once we clock 6months just the two of us must finish it the baby gets the 2 drumsticks and I get to eat the rest.( I love this sha). She once called me and her son irresponsible parents cos we went out late at night just to flex. Phew....Plenty stories but lemme stop here. I still love her sha and I know she loves me well.

lol this sounds like my MIL only that mine isn't so domineering. She would only nag about it and if I'm not listening she would try to go through her son and when we both refuse you would think she would give up but no. I know she would still give or rub when she gets tired of asking. Lmao @akpu at 7 months. The making of a strong baby.

AlphaHandMaiden:


lol! Father forgive me for i did not read the whole chapter of john 21 today..... i only read verses 1-23!

lmao, very possible

MrCork:

u better get ur square root off this thread..

this question has been bothering me..

in this modern day, what exactly do u do with the placenta? is it OK to leave it at the hospital?

I know in old times, they give it to the parent..in which some bury it or whatever way to prevent it from getting in "wicked people's hand"..

I've been wondering what to do with it when the time comes, cos it's not something u just wanna throw in the dustbin like that ..and burying is not really an option especially when everywhere is cemented.
can u leave it in the hospital for them to destroy and dispose it them self?

u know this is Africa.. and we are kinda kinda too religious in this part of the continent hence the question..

Giddyperson:
lol this sounds like my MIL only that mine isn't so domineering. She would only nag about it and if I'm not listening she would try to go through her son and when we both refuse you would think she would give up but no. I know she would still give or rub when she gets tired of asking. Lmao @akpu at 7 months. The making of a strong baby.

Lol ..my own MiL can talk for africa..she will jist oo,tell story ooh to d extent that i will fall asleep,e no go do oo she will tap me again Nd continue talking. .. miss her tho.

kelizosuy:
I went for antenatal today and I heard one woman in labour shouting na so fear grip me nor be small. I'm seriously thinking of having an epidural

Don't worry,keep fear aside. Everything's gonna be alright

casler:

Delta good oh,my sister. To arrange money for anc and delivery for some states no be moi moi,if e enter Cs nko .leave matter.
How zino and chibobo, Jare.

Do they pay for Anc....never heard of that....like seriously!

booqee:
u better get ur square root off this thread..

..an if u want pregnancy talk..ask me nicely innnnit!!!

booqee:
u better get ur square root off this thread..

..u will never find man on nairaland wit these kinda atitude

ahnie:


Do they pay for Anc....never heard of that....like seriously!

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You pay for your Ante natal registration and ANC is included in the whole package so it's still indirectly paying for it I guess!!

I admire you people strength... More grace and power to you woman oo...

Please kindly ensure to take notice/pay attention to your dreams during these time. please once you noticed any repeated bad dreams that makes you scared/uncomfortable when you wake up, ensure to talk to your husband/pastor/imam/prayer partner/friend or any body you feel could pray/intercede along with you.

I pray the lord would guide you women on these journey..Like the Hebrew woman, the lord would strengthen, provide and comfort you through the journey and help you offload/give birth with ease in Jesus name.

booqee:
this question has been bothering me..

in this modern day, what exactly do u do with the placenta? is it OK to leave it at the hospital?

I know in old times, they give it to the parent..in which some bury it or whatever way to prevent it from getting in "wicked people's hand"..

I've been wondering what to do with it when the time comes, cos it's not something u just wanna throw in the dustbin like that ..and burying is not really an option especially when everywhere is cemented.
can u leave it in the hospital for them to destroy and dispose it them self?

u know this is Africa.. and we are kinda kinda too religious in this part of the continent hence the question..

Hubby collected mine and threw inside canal (what he told me thoo) and please ignore that creature quoting you, he's an AMERICANA troll on NL

booqee:
this question has been bothering me..

in this modern day, what exactly do u do with the placenta? is it OK to leave it at the hospital?

I know in old times, they give it to the parent..in which some bury it or whatever way to prevent it from getting in "wicked people's hand"..

I've been wondering what to do with it when the time comes, cos it's not something u just wanna throw in the dustbin like that ..and burying is not really an option especially when everywhere is cemented.
can u leave it in the hospital for them to destroy and dispose it them self?

u know this is Africa.. and we are kinda kinda too religious in this part of the continent hence the question..

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Plz don't leave it in the hospital o, like you said we are in Africa... I think it's best you give it to ur hubby so he can flush it down the toilet!!

5H4D3:
Yes maam. God bless you.

amen ma'am bless u too

Helloo mamas, please has anyone used any of these three: Medela Manual breast pump, NUK manual breast pump or Tomme tippe manual breast pump. Please i need reviews on them so i can make my choice amongst the three. Which do you think will work fine....ejor,biko,pleaseee don't ignore.....thanks.

Booqee see you complaining about spoilers then you came and dished out your own. Thank God I have no clue what you are talking about. This thread is slow. You people should talk . I never thought I'd say this but I'm finally tired of maternity leave. I want to go back to work and watch movies. On the bright side, Muslim people would soon do party, I'm counting down. Zaynie what's the venue.

Leaving placenta in the hospital is a NO they dare not ask u to leav it sef collect and dispose ur sef dunno if it's safer if u dispose in water like ocean or sea or look for a place to bury deep

booqee:
this question has been bothering me..

in this modern day, what exactly do u do with the placenta? is it OK to leave it at the hospital?

I know in old times, they give it to the parent..in which some bury it or whatever way to prevent it from getting in "wicked people's hand"..

I've been wondering what to do with it when the time comes, cos it's not something u just wanna throw in the dustbin like that ..and burying is not really an option especially when everywhere is cemented.
can u leave it in the hospital for them to destroy and dispose it them self?

u know this is Africa.. and we are kinda kinda too religious in this part of the continent hence the question..

imurboss:
Helloo mamas, please has anyone used any of these three: Medela Manual breast pump, NUK manual breast pump or Tomme tippe manual breast pump. Please i need reviews on them so i can make my choice amongst the three. Which do you think will work fine....ejor,biko,pleaseee don't ignore.....thanks.

whatever you do, don't pick tommee tippee manual.