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Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by ikorodureporta: 8:18pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t! 1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society... As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle.... 2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single. If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness... 3. ENVIRONMENT Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated.... 4. CAREER These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny 5. CHASTITY: These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life.... 19 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 8:21pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by mizzbouqui(f): 8:24pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by GloriaNinja(f): 8:31pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Vivly(f): 8:34pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
It's sometimes baffling the kind of research Nairalanders put energy into. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by GloriaNinja(f): 8:40pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Dillusionist(m): 8:41pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
where is it written that everyone must marry??.... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Young03(m): 9:01pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Na by force to marry? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Divay22(f): 9:02pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Alright 1 Like |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Blackhawk01: 9:10pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
6) Cooking These set of girls hate the kitchen pass the delivery room and food, they say izz the way to a Naija man's heart. E.g Blackhawk ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Lalas247(f): 9:11pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Chews kuli kuli |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by josephine123: 9:59pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Pusyiter(m): 10:34pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Hi ladies, this is not a platform to express your frustration. The fact that a guy dumped you or you had had a failed relationship does not mean all men are screwed. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Abi lalas247 I lie? 27 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by ikorodureporta: 5:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Vivly: is there any area u dnt agree with? Share & let others learn from it... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 24, 2017 |
No need for these long stories, Marriage is for single people. Many will not get married because they aint single. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by mikeycharles(m): 10:00am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Africa and marriage, since when has marriage been an achievement, I concur with what this girl is saying 3 Likes
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Franco93: 10:00am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Nothing but attitude makes a lady not to marry, or divorce after marriage 3 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 10:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
You arent God o! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by hernyman: 10:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by speezyWears: 10:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Osas83(f): 10:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Daeylar(f): 10:02am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by VIPERVENOM(m): 10:02am On Aug 24, 2017 |
I'm proud to be a virgin and I'll remain a virgin till i die because i want to be a good example to my children......... ![]() ![]() 10 Likes
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by chomchom1(f): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
rubbish post... nobody is GOD ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Phi001(m): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
ikorodureporta:Is it the size of the church that determines how mushroomy it is? ![]() ![]() 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by free2ryhme: 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
ikorodureporta: As you make your bed so you lie on it ![]() |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Kriz08(m): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by boldking(m): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Let me tell you guys the truth, THERE IS nothing like spare money in Nigeria, money na money and mind you MMM is dead and gone robbing peter to pay PAUL thats a scam .....I DON LEARN MY OWN D HARD WAY 250K WEY I SUPPOSE USE BUY LAND FOR VILLAGE MMM SAY NA FROZEN MAVRO.....DEY CALL MY HARD EARN MONEY MAVRO |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by benzems(m): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by burkingx(f): 10:04am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by sod09(m): 10:04am On Aug 24, 2017 |
is it by force to marry... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by burkingx(f): 10:04am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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