When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse becomes inevitable.
We have seen a lot of marriage crashes in recent times which can be attributed to both partners not knowing what they want in the union.
A lot of ladies get marriages nowadays not because their live is worse being single but because of peer pressure, family pressure and societal pressure.
Then this leaves me with the question why do we want to get married? What do you as a lady need a husband for? Guys are also not excluded.
Guys: what do you need a wife for?

Our shield

Nigerian ladies need one for provision....material blessings

IamKashyBaby:


#TeamSingleLadies

Ooh yeaah, why they get married anyway?

you forgot to add #neverbeenkissedneverbeentouched

Women needs marriage to get unlimited intimacy.

Father of my kids, companion, someone I will grow old with.

Companion and friend

LordIsaac:
Nigerian ladies need one for provision....material blessings

Material blessing? Hahahahahah, you are funny.

Let me enlighten you, I can marry a guy and earn more than him, now who is in it for material blessing?
You think every ladies marry for money, that's bullshit.

I'm gonna make my own money, ain't depending on nobody.

If marriage is all about money only, I won't marry I swear cos I will make my own money.

midehi2:
Our shield

Buckler nko?

You can't be entirely fulfilled in life when you don't leave a child(ren) in this world

Rorachy:
Material blessing? Hahahahahah, you are funny.

Let me enlighten you, I can marry a guy and earn more than him, now who is in it for material blessing?
You think every ladies marry for money, that's bullshit.

I'm gonna make my own money, ain't depending on nobody.

If marriage is all about money only, I won't marry I swear cos I will make my own money.

Still, you've not mentioned why you'll need a husband.

Nothing really, cept for the preek.

To live the baby girl life...I'm tired of being an adult.

I have paid my dues.

To warm my bed
That's all ...

Blackhawk01:
Nothing really, cept for the preek.

Lalas247:
To warm my bed
That's all ...

men and their preek don suffer

thepussyhunter:










men and their preek don suffer

What else have u guys got to give

Lalas247:


What else have u guys got to give

are you for real?

you're really gonna make me start mentioning everything o and just so you know the list is endless

thepussyhunter:


are you for real?

you're really gonna make me start mentioning everything o and just so you know the list is endless

Ok what exactly can u do
Besides the obv

thepussyhunter:










men and their preek don suffer

That's the only thing I can't give to myself. Every other thing, I own my shii...

Lalas247:

Ok what exactly can u do
Besides the obv

financial support
spiritual support
emotional security
love
protection
give you children
give you a family
give you a new name
make you happy
etc

you should know there are alot of things men do for women that you cant give urselves..............even the bible mentions alot of these shiiiii

it isnt just about the big preek and hot sex you know

Blackhawk01:


That's the only thing I can't give to myself. Every other thing, I own my shii...

you can give ur self a family
or a new name, etc

c'mon i know you dont mean that sha

it means he'd be a sex t.oy and nat a husband since its cos of his male organ then............

for companionship, love sharing,...make babies etc

companionship tinzs

thepussyhunter:


you can give ur self a family
or a new name, etc

c'mon i know you dont mean that sha

it means he'd be a sex t.oy and nat a husband since its cos of his male organ then............

I don't need the new name. As a matter of fact, I'm not dropping my surname for any man, we could make it a compound name if he likes but drop my father's name? No way!

Family? Have got enough of that already. And if you're talking about kids, There's ART, adoption etc...

intimacy gadget sounds horrible, make that a booty call.

Blackhawk01:


I don't need the new name. As a matter of fact, I'm not dropping my surname for any man, we could make it a compound name if he likes but drop my father's name? No way!

Family? Have got enough of that already. And if you're talking about kids, There's ART, adoption etc...

intimacy gadget sounds horrible, make that a booty call.

hahahahahah

aderola the royal diva

you gat this shiii all planned out o..............thats booty call just weak me

okay how about
companionship for life
protection
love
emotional security
financial support
even spiritual support that he'd give...........

thepussyhunter:


financial support I don't need it
spiritual support remember who my husband is
emotional security kolewerk
love who love epp
protection I have a gun
give you children sperm bank dey
give you a family I can buy puppies
give you a new name I can pay
make you happy food already does that
etc

you should know there are alot of things men do for women that you cant give urselves..............even the bible mentions alot of these shiiiii

it isnt just about the big preek and hot sex you know

So my dear whatelse u got beside the D
Because nothing for ur list make sense to me

Lalas247:


So my dear whatelse u got beside the D
Because nothing for ur list make sense to me

jesu!!!

That sperm bank just weak me

nothing more maami

you have rendered me speechless (not typeless though)........

As e be so the guy you would end up marrying would only be useful in warming ur bed abi?

thepussyhunter:



hahahahahah

aderola the royal diva

you gat this shiii all planned out o..............thats booty call just weak me

okay how about
companionship for life
protection
love
emotional security
financial support
even spiritual support that he'd give...........

Companionship keh? I enjoy my space so much, don't want anyone intruding in the name of "companionship".

Protection? You say wah! As God wey hin be na

Love? You gotta be kidding me. If I get more love than I'm giving myself and love from family, izz gonna purge me. Mbanu! I no want

Emotional security? My emotions are in check, thanks to me.

Financial support? I pick my bills

Spiritual support? When did men become holy spirit or bible?

We own this shii, don't try us oooo.

Blackhawk01:


Companionship keh? I enjoy my space so much, don't want anyone intruding in the name of "companionship".

Protection? You say wah! As God wey hin be na

Love? You gotta be kidding me. If I get more love than I'm giving myself and love from family, izz gonna purge me. Mbanu! I no want

Emotional security? My emotions are in check, thanks to me.

Financial support? I pick my bills

Spiritual support? When did men become holy spirit or bible?

We own this shii, don't try us oooo.

So what's ur point