Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by GloriaNinja(f): 10:46am On Aug 24, 2017 |
femi4: Correct!
Not everyone will get marry and not all that married stayed married YOU GET SENSE, ONLY INTELLIGENT AND WISE PEOPLE KNOWS WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT. |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by femi4: 10:48am On Aug 24, 2017 |
boldking: Let me tell you guys the truth, THERE IS nothing like spare money in Nigeria, money na money and mind you MMM is dead and gone robbing peter to pay PAUL thats a scam .....I DON LEARN MY OWN D HARD WAY 250K WEY I SUPPOSE USE BUY LAND FOR VILLAGE MMM SAY NA FROZEN MAVRO.....DEY CALL MY HARD EARN MONEY MAVRO still looking for a link between your post and the topic |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Fourwinds: 10:50am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Nma27: Any1 who allow these point to hinder them from marrying no ready in d first place. You owe it to yourself to be happy. the truth is that I have seen what OP stated as facts... I know of ladies in such predicament |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 10:51am On Aug 24, 2017 |
majekdom2: Very sordid points here... attitude, character, personality, appearance and somewhat luck are reasons why people get or don't get married. na here dem go ever see you, it's amazing how an untrained, uncouth fellow like you expect the best behaviour from another human being when you are a natural born jerk
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by tosyne2much(m): 10:51am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Where are the "marriage is not for everyone" crew nah? ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Cooleasy(m): 10:53am On Aug 24, 2017 |
boldking: Let me tell you guys the truth, THERE IS nothing like spare money in Nigeria, money na money and mind you MMM is dead and gone robbing peter to pay PAUL thats a scam .....I DON LEARN MY OWN D HARD WAY 250K WEY I SUPPOSE USE BUY LAND FOR VILLAGE MMM SAY NA FROZEN MAVRO.....DEY CALL MY HARD EARN MONEY MAVRO 250k stylishly transformed to Macro.
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Hannysmilez(f): 10:56am On Aug 24, 2017 |
thesuave10:
Who the fûck is holding them? the virginity thing is still stupid regardless of anything. And by the way eating dirt is ok to a mad. So your case is invalid ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) Exactly. It's okay for them to eat dirt,so let them eat. It's their madness and not yours. It's stupid to you,thank you. Fortunately for virgins,your opinion isn't ultimate. You should frame it and put it on a wall where you can see it and chant the lines each time you're getting f*cked. 1 Like |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by tosyne2much(m): 10:56am On Aug 24, 2017 |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by royalamour(m): 10:58am On Aug 24, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE. You are fruitlessly trying to paint the institution so bad and dangerous. This is understandable. |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Lalas247(f): 11:06am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Pusyiter: Hi ladies, this is not a platform to express your frustration. The fact that a guy dumped you or you had had a failed relationship does not mean all men are screwed. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Abi lalas247 I lie? Ur head dey der jare ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) u no lie There is always one stallion out there ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) it is a beautiful thing to have a companion for life if done in the right way ... 1 Like |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Setaje(f): 11:10am On Aug 24, 2017 |
sadly I belong to 1 and 3! may God help me. |
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by ivolt: 11:23am On Aug 24, 2017 |
A man or woman can get married at any age. Money answereth all things. |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 11:26am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Vivly: It's sometimes baffling the kind of research Nairalanders put energy into. I tire oh, I actually blame spectranet |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by omoharry(f): 11:34am On Aug 24, 2017 |
noscarn91:
Fine girl , I would like to lick you from head to toe that is gross.. |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by studM(m): 11:35am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Dillusionist: where is it written that everyone must marry??.... Ho abt u..y dont u speak for urself my dear |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by noscarn91(m): 11:59am On Aug 24, 2017 |
omoharry: that is gross.. Was I talking to you , mind your business |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Victornezzar: 12:10pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
thesuave10:
Who the fûck is holding them? the virginity thing is still stupid regardless of anything. And by the way eating dirt is ok to a mad. So your case is invalid ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) Now I know ur very daft Bad parental upbringing |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by jojothaiv(m): 12:10pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Make i dey stroll comot! |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by MichaelBlake40: 12:33pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
mikeycharles: Africa and marriage, since when has marriage been an achievement, I concur with what this girl is saying Excuse me o no vex hw will the girl have children if she remains a virgin |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Akowemoon(m): 12:47pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
ikorodureporta: A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t!
1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS
Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society...
As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle....
2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS
Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single.
If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness...
3. ENVIRONMENT
Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated....
4. CAREER
These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny
5. CHASTITY:
These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life....
My dear,Not all ladies in this our generation will get married n stay in marriage coz what we have now is the opposite of how my mother married my mum n some other parents too |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by genkins(m): 12:48pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE. Its like saying that a car is not for everyone ,some people have lost their lives as a result of car accidents |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by MrMoney007: 12:48pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Vivly: It's sometimes baffling the kind of research Nairalanders put energy into. E pain am. you must be one of the #papagomarry |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by mikeycharles(m): 12:51pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
MichaelBlake40:
Excuse me o no vex hw will the girl have children if she remains a virgin she'll probably become mother of Christ ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Paramount01(m): 12:56pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE. Is like you are in there category. I pity for you, anyway call me I am available |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by patola080(m): 1:01pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
Number 7 dos looking for God fearing man , tall, handsome, working in oil company , rich |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by arizon101(m): 1:14pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
ikorodureporta: A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t!
1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS
Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society...
As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle....
2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS
Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single.
If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness...
3. ENVIRONMENT
Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated....
4. CAREER
These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny
5. CHASTITY:
These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life....
How on earth will she hv kids if she is still a Virgin ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Oga d pic no mak sense she has 2 brk d stuff 2 hv kids 2 b an example to. ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by vicardino(m): 2:29pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
I bet cars are overrated and not meant for everybody cos so many have lost their lives via accidents o, ba? Nothing is overrated, it depends on the readings and how wired your mind is. Marriage isn't overrated and it's for everyone who can afford it. The truth is, not everyone can afford it, that's not the fault of marriage nor the fault of God who instituted it but the fault of you and I who just can't afford it. GloriaNinja: MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, AND NOT FOR EVERY BODY, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES ALL IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AS A RESULT OF MARRIAGE. |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 2:38pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: na here dem go ever see you, it's amazing how an untrained, uncouth fellow like you expect the best behaviour from another human being when you are a natural born jerk obviously, you failed english in your Waec ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by Nobody: 3:54pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
majekdom2: obviously, you failed english in your Waec ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) a jerk you are, a jerk you will always be.By the way, I saw you reported me the other time ,after being a jerk you then cry to the mods ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by nokia1000(m): 4:09pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
They are full of artificial.
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Re: Why Some People (Especially Ladies) May Never Get Married by McTobe(m): 4:13pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE. So my dear friend U will not venture for fear of failing right? U will not go into a business for fear that some people have failed in that line of business in the past? |