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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kellapaw: 11:07pm On Jul 05, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:


you love her so much? You surely don't wana blow everything before you get started.

Act like a boyfriend already. That's all you need. Pages 1-9 will help.

Cheers.

Thanks.


Tho I av confidence in talking to other Babes. And woeing them Buh this one is different.

She dont rapport with anybody in the hostel. We do greet ourself casually. 3 days ago she came from a journey. When I met her. I ask that . How was her trip. And hope she had fun. And she smiles heavily back to me in reply. Buh to continue aqain is like a Jericho now
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jul 05, 2017
DavidTheGeek:
lipsrsealed



we no our selves
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kellapaw: 11:10pm On Jul 05, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:


you love her so much? You surely don't wana blow everything before you get started.

Act like a boyfriend already. That's all you need. Pages 1-9 will help.

Cheers.


I also need help pertaining getting a girl wet.

Physically or even on phone.

U said it Early 2014 that u will Post it. Buh I seriously need it now oh bro. Pls drop it For ur students
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by henryblaze25(m): 8:00pm On Jul 09, 2017
Hi ted! Am here again.

Met dis pretty lady recently on facebook, had to ask around who knows her and luckily a close friend is a friend to her cousin. He called cousin and told her 1 of his friend(me) likes her cousin and she is not reply inbox messages via facebook.

We had a 4line chat, which she usually responded days later. I met my friend and told him. He contacted d cousin and he said she laughed, if I was expecting her to come cheap and joke with her.

I inb chat her on facebook without success and she should kindly send me her number let's talk. Lo and behold, she did. I discovered d number was not registered on whatsapp.


Called 24hrs later, checked on her and asked her if she is cool with me calling her 4 us to know ourselves better, she said yes.

Plan calling ones a week(Friday), what should d next topic of discuss when I call? #eppurboi
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:17pm On Jul 13, 2017
henryblaze25:
Hi ted! Am here again.

Met dis pretty lady recently on facebook, had to ask around who knows her and luckily a close friend is a friend to her cousin. He called cousin and told her 1 of his friend(me) likes her cousin and she is not reply inbox messages via facebook.

We had a 4line chat, which she usually responded days later. I met my friend and told him. He contacted d cousin and he said she laughed, if I was expecting her to come cheap and joke with her.

I inb chat her on facebook without success and she should kindly send me her number let's talk. Lo and behold, she did. I discovered d number was not registered on whatsapp.


Called 24hrs later, checked on her and asked her if she is cool with me calling her 4 us to know ourselves better, she said yes.


Plan calling ones a week(Friday), what should d next topic of discuss when I call? #eppurboi

For a perfect combo with a new girl, it is very important for you to assume you know each other already. Dont act and talk like you are just meeting her. Doing that can get you stuck, that is why most guys get stuck at a point. They run out material too easily.

Having said that, it is vital for you to make her know you are not chasing her. How do you do that? My talking and acting like she is not even important, not calling/checking on her all the time, and getting busy with other girls too. When you game several girls at a time, you end up with choices and your level of hunger for the opposite sex reduces. Game other girls while you are also gaming this one.

Forget about your friend and your cousin. You dont need them anymore. Talking to your friend, or her cousin talking about you to the main chick undermines your own potential.

Act like a boyfriend already.

You dont need topics to discuss. All you need is know what stage you are in? Have you made her laugh? Have you given her a nickname? DO you sound relax and free, like you are talking to an old friend, when you call her?

If you plan on calling for now, then light chats is all you need to be doing. Stuffs like how her day went, to teasing her about how she sounds on fun, linking up to you assuming she might be the last or first born, blah blah, which further opens the convo up to family discussion, knowing more about her, her dreams, aspirations, blah blah. You wana go light, and not trying to achieve this on a single call. Have a plan, and dont forget to be gaming other girls.

And never ever ask her out, or tell her to be your friend. Only guys with no boyfriend potential ask for permission when they havent game or showed traces of a boyfriend.

keep in touch.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:26pm On Jul 13, 2017
Kellapaw:


Thanks.


Tho I av confidence in talking to other Babes. And woeing them Buh this one is different.

She dont rapport with anybody in the hostel. We do greet ourself casually. 3 days ago she came from a journey. When I met her. I ask that . How was her trip. And hope she had fun. And she smiles heavily back to me in reply. Buh to continue aqain is like a Jericho now

its all in your head. You are the one making it difficult.

Just imagine the way you rapport with a guy, or imagine the way you talk to an old friend., its just the same way you should view talking with her. She is smiling already? What other friendly invitation for a convo do you need?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sheggun1: 11:39pm On Jul 18, 2017
Abeg pls help me..... My heart is like a stone I don't av feeling for anybody but I do care...... And pls help on how to get a lady wet within 5minutes
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by TheAziz: 8:27pm On Jul 30, 2017
jmaxjohn:


Lol. Why would I be hating on a learner?
All I got for you is pity bro. Seems you don't understand the kinda group I learn from (real social dynamics).
Look it up, toddler
bros can you please help with some ebooks?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by henrieternal2016(m): 1:12am On Aug 01, 2017
hello ted. i discovered i really like women, especially beautiful, busty and heavily back-sided ones. plus i am also a sex addict. i would love to be having sex if possible every 30 minuites. but i have problems befriending girls talk more of fucking them. how can i befriend a gilr i just met the first time and Bleep her. like for example, i met a girl at d club last week wednesday, d type of girl i describe above. after overcoming d fear of approaching, i walked up to her and asked her to hang out with me for the night, but she said her boyfriend works at d club. i then said it was nice meeting her n left. what shoukd i have done that i didnt do. the chances of meeting her again is slim........
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by chidexxy007(m): 7:43am On Aug 01, 2017
Sheggun1:
Abeg pls help me..... My heart is like a stone I don't av feeling for anybody but I do care...... And pls help on how to get a lady wet within 5minutes
You need Jesus man...lol

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:57pm On Aug 05, 2017
henrieternal2016:
hello ted. i discovered i really like women, especially beautiful, busty and heavily back-sided ones. plus i am also a sex addict. i would love to be having sex if possible every 30 minuites. but i have problems befriending girls talk more of fucking them. how can i befriend a gilr i just met the first time and Bleep her. like for example, i met a girl at d club last week wednesday, d type of girl i describe above. after overcoming d fear of approaching, i walked up to her and asked her to hang out with me for the night, but she said her boyfriend works at d club. i then said it was nice meeting her n left. what shoukd i have done that i didnt do. the chances of meeting her again is slim........


You failed a simple test. She gave you the boyfriend line to see how you will react, and you capitulated too easily. Your method was probably too direct, that was why she gave you that line. No girl wants to be considered too easy/cheap. Even "Ashawo" go still give you resistance if you no do well. grin

You seem pretty desperate tho. Leave your sex goals and desires for now. Focus on building quality convo, and stirring attraction. The sex will come at the right time. You need to get your social game up first. Read pages 0-9

Cheers.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by thesuave10(m): 10:17pm On Aug 05, 2017
This is probably one of the worst I've seen on dating. What is this? undecided
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:28pm On Aug 05, 2017
Sheggun1:
Abeg pls help me..... My heart is like a stone I don't av feeling for anybody but I do care...... And pls help on how to get a lady wet within 5minutes

You don't have feelings, but you want to get a lady wet?...lol...

Don't be an egoist.

Learning proper social skills is not just about getting laid- it's a different ball game entirely.

You just need to work, and stretch the boundaries of your comfort zone. Forget about getting girls wet for now; focus on acquiring proper social skills. Read page 0-9: all the basics have been properly highlighted there.

Cheers
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by damilare96(m): 11:43pm On Aug 05, 2017
xxxtedyxxx there is this girl I like ,we're very close and I need to shag her but she is bringing God stuff in it .is there a way I can penetrate her defence ?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sheggun1: 5:52pm On Aug 06, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:


You don't have feelings, but you want to get a lady wet?...lol...

Don't be an egoist.

Learning proper social skills is not just about getting laid- it's a different ball game entirely.

You just need to work, and stretch the boundaries of your comfort zone. Forget about getting girls wet for now; focus on acquiring proper social skills. Read page 0-9: all the basics have been properly highlighted there.

Cheers
I av a girlfriend already but my love for her is like wave........ And am a social person already.... I just need to upgrade my game
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:02pm On Aug 06, 2017
Sheggun1:
I av a girlfriend already but my love for her is like wave........ And am a social person already.... I just need to upgrade my game

All of you have to do is increase the tempo of your approach. Talk and meet lots of girls- both online and in the real world. You will need to stretch your comfort zones, and do things you won't do normally.

It's a numbers game. Do more approaches.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sheggun1: 10:21pm On Aug 07, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:


All of you have to do is increase the tempo of your approach. Talk and meet lots of girls- both online and in the real world. You will need to stretch your comfort zones, and do things you won't do normally.

It's a numbers game. Do more approaches.


thank boss...... My problem is day I don't like approaching girls on street.... Or let mesay my heady is always blank when I see a girl I like and I won't av good start up line
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:10am On Aug 08, 2017
Sheggun1:
thank boss...... My problem is day I don't like approaching girls on street.... Or let mesay my heady is always blank when I see a girl I like and I won't av good start up line


use this line....it works wonders.

just make sure you are looking cool, and smiling...at the same time.


" Hi babe, I have seen you a few times, but we haven't met, what's your name"


say it like that.


don't change anything. It works wonders for girls who live near you, or girls in your department (school toastings grin)
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sheggun1: 5:43am On Aug 08, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:



use this line....it works wonders.

just make sure you are looking cool, and smiling...at the same time.


" Hi babe, I have seen you a few times, but we haven't met, what's your name"


say it like that.


don't change anything. It works wonders for girls who live near you, or girls in your department (school toastings grin)
wat if it is someone am seeing for the first time...... Or inside a cab
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by uthmanismail: 7:30am On Aug 08, 2017
hello test, dere is diz gal I met on fb n to b realistic she is a classic babe n wit no doubt she has a bf bt anytym I chat her she respond n I knw many guyz would have a toast her..... d gal is sum1 ho is in my LGA bt Neva met her n her either.... I wanna hook wit diz gal coz she is my type by d p here is
1. D Gal is social n knws wassup
2. Am d type Ho dnt stress tinx as soon I understnd u dnt feel or Lyn me....i cut off
3. Guys ar rushing on diz gal whc am thinking nting will b new to her coz guys go Don do may tinz
4. Am an Introvert bt Extrovert to people I knew
I will love if u may hint me up on wat is should do n d approach I should dat will amaze her......Am a guy dat cn pretend evn though am feeling u..... boss teddy help me out
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by KingsJohnson(m): 9:30am On Aug 08, 2017
Mylestone:





nigga stop hating.....D BANG RULE EBOOKS IS D REAL SHIT....
I hv d PDF reader on ma fone.allotta nigaz hv been given deirs...jos drre dy LUK UCHE FACE


My G gud morning, I really need that Ebook
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by jerusalem234(m): 2:47pm On Aug 08, 2017
xxxteddyxx u said the greatest investment a lady can give is sex,so my first question is how can i make a lady invest sexually in a relationship,i mean to invest sex in a relationship.my second question is u said the best tin a guy should do to a girl is to act like her boyfriend instead of asking if she have a boy friend,so i wana ask if in the process of acting like her boyfriend one day an her real boy friend show up when the acting boyfriend an d girl are having fun or romancing each other wat should the acting guy do now dat the real lady other boyfriend showed up?pls i need ur reply urgently.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by DonEvarest(m): 6:50am On Aug 14, 2017
Hi Teddy, well-done
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by igboboy3(m): 1:25am On Aug 27, 2017
DonEvarest:
Hi Teddy, there is this girl I met in 2015 at my brother's house. We were so close then and usually liked being around me. I got acquainted with her then boyfriend and we all got rolling together. Fast forward to 2016 after I've gone home and come back, the boyfriend told me that they have broken up. I tried to see if I could reconcile them both to no avail. I later went back to school and early this year when I met her again when I went on weekend I proposed to her. By then her then bf has travelled out of the state. She declined at first and later agreed. But on getting back to school, I sent her Val's wishes of which she responded "thanks love". I proposed her coming over for us to celebrate it. She agreed but later refused picking up my call when the agreed time reached. I later went back for weekend to ascertain her probs, but she told me that she does not want to engage in relationship now untill she gains admission. After long failed persuasion I let her be. Two weeks ago I called her to my room and brought up the topic of which she still maintained her stance. Upon wanting to leave she hugged me telling me that when She will be ready for relationship that I would know.
She never called me since we met but we do chat normally online.
What do I do, should I bone the girl?


You're in the friend zone. That, in itself, is not a bad thing because you can't be bf to every girl you meet. However, any chance of becoming a bae is now slim. She already knows you like her. You've over-invested and are no longer a prize(except your papa is Dangote).

She does not have to invest anything again (e.g taking your calls, initiating calls, visiting you e.t.c) because she has already attained you.
You are now Option B while she scouts around for Option A.

Just let the girl be. Get out of her orbit and stop this your 'Brother Mulika' behaviour. Also, get some options for yourself. She's not the only fish in the sea

Wise hunter does not always chase fowl, just set trap.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by afolwalex20(m): 5:08am On Aug 31, 2017
xxxtedyxxx and other relationship pros in the house.. come to my aid o

there's this girl in my area.. we haven't met but I already collected her number from a friend. I'm planning to cal her tomorrow for a possible meeting.. Wong move??

I'm not a dullard in this game too o but I will also like to know things to discuss with her tomoro, I need to get this girl bfo Saturday.. I dey comot for area soon
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:21pm On Aug 31, 2017
afolwalex20:
xxxtedyxxx and other relationship pros in the house.. come to my aid o

there's this girl in my area.. we haven't met but I already collected her number from a friend. I'm planning to cal her tomorrow for a possible meeting.. Wong move??

I'm not a dullard in this game too o but I will also like to know things to discuss with her tomoro, I need to get this girl bfo Saturday.. I dey comot for area soon

There is nothing like meeting a girl yourself and getting her number. It makes you look manly and confident in her eyes. Going behind her to get her number, whether from her friend or a mutual friend is a chicken-hearted move. It leaves you with less options and more explanations to do.

You even sound desperate. Is she miss world or Beyonce? grin

Do you know there are millions of hot girls like her out there?

Think abundance bro. Focus on the process, and not the outcome

You Wana get her before saturday?

Think abundance.


Wait till your paths cross.

And approach her yourself.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:22pm On Aug 31, 2017
Words.


You are too gbasky bro

igboboy3:



You're in the friend zone. That, in itself, is not a bad thing because you can't be bf to every girl you meet. However, any chance of becoming a bae is now slim. She already knows you like her. You've over-invested and are no longer a prize(except your papa is Dangote).

She does not have to invest anything again (e.g taking your calls, initiating calls, visiting you e.t.c) because she has already attained you.
You are now Option B while she scouts around for Option A.

Just let the girl be. Get out of her orbit and stop this your 'Brother Mulika' behaviour. Also, get some options for yourself. She's not the only fish in the sea

Wise hunter does not always chase fowl, just set trap.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by afolwalex20(m): 8:51pm On Aug 31, 2017
xxxtedyxxx:


There is nothing like meeting a girl yourself and getting her number. It makes you look manly and confident in her eyes. Going behind her to get her number, whether from her friend or a mutual friend is a chicken-hearted move. It leaves you with less options and more explanations to do.

You even sound desperate. Is she miss world or Beyonce? grin

Do you know there are millions of hot girls like her out there?

Think abundance bro. Focus on the process, and not the outcome

You Wana get her before saturday?

Think abundance.


Wait till your paths cross.

And approach her yourself.
yeah.. thanks! I've called her tho, but she didn't sound well after I told her where I got her number.. I'm already thinking of meeting her one on one tho, ain't calling her again
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:23am On Sep 01, 2017
afolwalex20:

yeah.. thanks! I've called her tho, but she didn't sound well after I told her where I got her number.. I'm already thinking of meeting her one on one tho, ain't calling her again


yea of course she won't sound well.

It's far more better to approach her yourself and get her number.

Don't be desperate. See her as just another girl.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kelvinatkins(m): 11:47pm On Sep 02, 2017
boss m kinda confused here, hw do I deal with no sex relationship.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by blaze612(m): 12:55pm On Sep 03, 2017
kelvinatkins:
boss m kinda confused here, hw do I deal with no sex relationship.
Must you have sex?
Is sex the reason you are in relationship?

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