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How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 9:24pm On Aug 28, 2017
good days nairalanders, I'll be 24 on wednessday, due to Nigerian education system, I'm still in school.
I left my former school due to the fact that my course of study was not accredited. when I got another admission 2014 in my present school, I worked hard, read all night just to graduate with a good result cos my dept will employ anyone who graduate with excellent result and cos of that, ive always maintained a very high cgpa, but right now I'm not motivated about that. I've changed my thought, to own a business of my own rather than serve someone and call them boss and the business on my mind is capital intensive, a multi million naira business which by my estimate I could put it up at age 35 if I start now, now the problem is Nigerian education system wants me to be in school till 26yrs plus nysc is 27 and my school NDU was on strike last year so we lost one academic year, it seems I'll now leave nysc at age 28. God 4bid dat at age 27 I still want to depend on my parents. and now im on strike that only God knows when ill go back to school.I couldn't raise money cos the money my parents give to me is not enough to meet schooling demands and save, I told my dad to open a shop for me which someone will run it for me while I'm in school, he said no that I must go to school and focus I told my dad I want to leave school and start something else then when I established myself I'll come back to school, life is a race against time and I have goals set up for myself which I can't accomplish if I waste any more time, he didn't want me to, I told him to open a shop for me which someone will run it for me while I'm in school, he said no that I must go to school and focus, the thing is focusing on education is the last thing on my mind, I need to have something doing. please how do I convince him that I can get a degree at age 60 cos I have no interest looking for a job and I think certificate is pretty useless if you won't use it to look for a white colar job and even if you want to, job opportunity is choked in niger, but I need to do something now if I must survive.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nobody: 9:25pm On Aug 28, 2017
Booked, call me when sh!t hit the fans
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by longjohnsilver: 9:34pm On Aug 28, 2017
Hmmm...try and develop ursef first,

learn a skill that you know can and will fetch u money.

look for a small job around you while you try and wait out the strike.

Try freelancing, check business section of nland for that.

Save up n continue to save up.

Just try and make ur money now...and make sure u save d bulk of it...u might not really need ur parent's consent wen u save enuf to start the business.

Just keep the hustle clean.

Jah bless!!!

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Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by NCANpatroller: 9:35pm On Aug 28, 2017
For your mind now. You get idea. Until you fail several times in ur biz venture and you no cert to fallback on. Your eye go clear.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nedfed(m): 9:39pm On Aug 28, 2017
Op at the begining of ur write up, I tot you're a serious and ambitious type.
But at the middle, I discover you're a confuse type.
At the end, I see clearly that you don't even no wia you heading to at all. What a pity.

Waited time reading dis
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by stacyadams: 9:50pm On Aug 28, 2017
Nedfed:
Op at the begining of ur write up, I tot you're a serious and ambitious type.
But at the middle, I discover you're a confuse type.
At the end, I see clearly that you don't even no wia you heading to at all. What a pity.

Waited time reading dis
grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by tosyne2much(m): 9:53pm On Aug 28, 2017
You sound so confused and with the way things are going, you might miss out in two ways

Even if you aspire to become a boss of your own, at least you should take one step at a time. No one climbs two ladders at the same time bro

Some of us have been through more than what you're going through and here we are today, stronger and better. If I take my time to narrate to you my life challenges coupled with the journey of my own education, you will see that yours is a younger brother to mine and you might even be moved to tears. But against all odds, I'm glad that discouragement, frustration and resentment did not make me give up.

Why not complete your education first and then you can now decide what you want to do with your life without your parents' validation. Remember you're already approaching a phase in life when you are fully in control of your life

Be patient and keep pushing forward bro

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Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 9:57pm On Aug 28, 2017
NCANpatroller:
For your mind now. You get idea. Until you fail several times in ur biz venture and you no cert to fallback on. Your eye go clear.
you need not to worry about that, Ill keep analysing till I get things done, if I fail once, it won't be a problem, I can always try and my chance of getting it done will be bigger after every fail.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by chigoizie7(m): 10:01pm On Aug 28, 2017
When ur father agrees to ur terms, let me know. As for now? I am sleeping
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 10:03pm On Aug 28, 2017
Nedfed:
Op at the begining of ur write up, I tot you're a serious and ambitious type.
But at the middle, I discover you're a confuse type.
At the end, I see clearly that you don't even no wia you heading to at all. What a pity.

Waited time reading dis
you may want to check you spellings.
back to the topic, I know where I'm heading but I may be trying to move faster than my shadows, but its for the best, if I start a little too late, I'll be able to get what I wanted very late, but if I have something at hand, I'll be able to have the zeal of going back to school. I don't want to come out and start looking for where to start
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by zealblinks(m): 10:04pm On Aug 28, 2017
your articles show that you are not interested in education. tell your parents what you really want
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 10:08pm On Aug 28, 2017
zealblinks:
your articles show that you are not interested in education. tell your parents what you really want
I just think my mind is made up on something else, and the system is so slow that I'm running outta patience, but I'm interested in education just haven't figure out how education could help me. believe me I don't know what I'll be doing with certificate.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nedfed(m): 10:09pm On Aug 28, 2017
dukeprince50:
you may want to check you spellings.
back to the topic, I know where I'm heading but I may be trying to move faster than my shadows, but its for the best, if I start a little too late, I'll be able to get what I wanted very late, but if I have something at hand, I'll be able to have the zeal of going back to school. I don't want to come out and start looking for where to start

Your future your palava
How dos dat change the situation of the country? Abeggggggi
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Prec1ous(m): 10:15pm On Aug 28, 2017
I seem to understand what this guy is going through.

You are very ambitious and I love it, but it seems you are studying a course you don't really fancy.

I will advice, use your own money to start something and stop asking your father, push yourself through school and use the school environment to test the viability of your business and ideas.

Let me tell you a secret, if I could do it again, I would have put off going to the University for learning a trade at least two years.

But you are in, don't drop out, use that place as a spring board for your business.

You owe me.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 10:20pm On Aug 28, 2017
Nedfed:


Your future your palava
How dos dat change the situation of the country? Abeggggggi
u have a serious problem, the economy is bad cos we all think school is the key, the richest man didn't go to school but he is able to employ thousands of person and directly or indirectly positively affecting his country economy, if 10000nigerians employ 100 persons each, job opportunity will rise to 1000000, and 1million+ citizens will be employed, did you see how entrepreneurial activity can epp ur economy? that is not my reason though, I just wanna leave a life I always dream about but it can help you indirectly, if u understand, good, if you don't, please I'm begging u with the name of whatever u believe, please leave my mention
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 10:29pm On Aug 28, 2017
Prec1ous:
I seem to understand what this guy is going through.

You are very ambitious and I love it, but it seems you are studying a course you don't really fancy.

I will advice, use your own money to start something and stop asking your father, push yourself through school and use the school environment to test the viability of your business and ideas.

Let me tell you a secret, if I could do it again, I would have put off going to the University for learning a trade at least two years.

But you are in, don't drop out, use that place as a spring board for your business.

You owe me.
thanks man, I appreciate, and I also have no interest leaving school, I just wanna start somewhere sooner than later, I wanna start with something to raise capital
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nedfed(m): 10:29pm On Aug 28, 2017
dukeprince50:
u have a serious problem, the economy is bad cos we all think school is the key, the richest man didn't go to school but he is able to employ thousands of person and directly or indirectly positively affecting his country economy, if 10000nigerians employ 100 persons each, job opportunity will rise to 1000000, and 1million+ citizens will be employed, did you see how entrepreneurial activity can epp ur economy? that is not my reason though, I just wanna leave a life I always dream about but it can help you indirectly, if u understand, good, if you don't, please I'm begging u with the name of whatever u believe, please leave my mention
To you now you're educating me right
I shook head for you little boy
Wish you know who i'm

My little advice is try grown up
Life experience you gat not
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 10:36pm On Aug 28, 2017
Nedfed:

To you now you're educating me right
I shook head for you little boy
Wish you know who i'm

My little advice is try grown up
Life experience you gat not
that's why I'm pumped up for that experience, and I won't educate you, just told you it has a lot to do with your country economy instead of shouting APC and BUHARI, you can do something else. have you wondered why people shout APC and economy but one man splashed out some cash building one of the worlds biggest refinery, and that has the capacity to employ a lot of job seeking ppl
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by nadalion: 12:22am On Aug 29, 2017
i just stumbled on this post an dukeprince50, it's a pleasure knowing people with such zeal still exist in our Nigerian school.
Here's my suggestions;
1. Don't drop out of school. You in subsequent posts said you'll not but I need you to understand that school (as an institution) has a way of forcing many experience in you that will help you in later years.
2. Talk to people around. I know NDU is a small school and though there might not seem like it, there's alot you can do in that environment (Amassoma) and society (Bayelsa) at large and earn experience/Money while doing it.
3. Have friends of like minds. Having dreams is good but, pursuing it alone is very dangerous. This is because when you have admirers/Like minds, i they can share thoughts with you that can help you avoid some problems that goes with the dreams you've laid out for yourself. Having haters can also help you gain momentum and strength so try to have a balance between the two.
4. I don't think your parents are the ones that need talking to. Yeah, I just said it. reading through your summary/post, I figured you don't have a role model/guider you look up to/consult. Before you make any strong decisions please find one. this is important because sometimes it takes someone who's gone through an experience to show you the dangers of some decisions.

I can say more but hey, people get paid to do that kind of thing wink
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nobody: 12:52am On Aug 29, 2017
dukeprince50:
u have a serious problem, the economy is bad cos we all think school is the key, the richest man didn't go to school but he is able to employ thousands of person and directly or indirectly positively affecting his country economy, if 10000nigerians employ 100 persons each, job opportunity will rise to 1000000, and 1million+ citizens will be employed, did you see how entrepreneurial activity can epp ur economy? that is not my reason though, I just wanna leave a life I always dream about but it can help you indirectly, if u understand, good, if you don't, please I'm begging u with the name of whatever u believe, please leave my mention
Guy am with you on this, school is over rated abeg, but if I were you I will learn a very good skill set that I can use to raise money for my biz. An average Nigerian youth with a degree is more confused that an average trader ,that has made the economy so bad that we are all dormant doing nothing.

I hail you bro, at least you have good mindset to begin with.

Remind your dad that most of the things he uses today were invented by people who did not go to school or dropped out, yet they died helping humanity and becoming rich as a result.

I have a degree, yet my skill is what's paying the bills today.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 5:55am On Aug 29, 2017
NCANpatroller:
For your mind now. You get idea. Until you fail several times in ur biz venture and you no cert to fallback on. Your eye go clear.
lol
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by showietee: 6:45am On Aug 29, 2017
Prec1ous:
I seem to understand what this guy is going through.

You are very ambitious and I love it, but it seems you are studying a course you don't really fancy.

I will advice, use your own money to start something and stop asking your father, push yourself through school and use the school environment to test the viability of your business and ideas.

Let me tell you a secret, if I could do it again, I would have put off going to the University for learning a trade at least two years.

But you are in, don't drop out, use that place as a spring board for your business.

You owe me.


op! I will advice you do this.


Don't give up on your education, try to learn a skill or trade, perfect it over time, borrow when you know you are good to go.


School might look like a waste of time, but try use that time to achieve more.

one of the quality of an adult is ability to multitask.


Give what you think a try and don't give up what you have at hand.



I went thru similar stage.... Studied economics but practising farming.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Exponental(m): 7:18am On Aug 29, 2017
Good intention! but I will advice you finish school first, going back to school isn't easy. Your certificate might help your intended business in futurey. Try start your business and don't lose focus. Try raise the capital yourself, dad will be proud of you.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by dukeprince50: 9:12am On Aug 29, 2017
Exponental:
Good intention! but I will advice you finish school first, going back to school isn't easy. Your certificate might help your intended business in futurey. Try start your business and don't lose focus. Try raise the capital yourself, dad will be proud of you.
I will raise it if I could, school demands is taking the little cash I have, but I get all u guys have said, I'll finish school, I don't feel like dropping out, I just felt I could come back to school anytime
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nobody: 9:29am On Aug 29, 2017
Omagzee:
Booked, call me when sh!t hit the fans
That's Kendrick. Mendela inspired.
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by joceey(m): 9:47am On Aug 29, 2017
Young man let me advice you with a sincere heart please finish your school first before going into any business..You are looking at things from one direction take your dad advice....Goodluck
Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 29, 2017
androidroot:
That's Kendrick. Mendela inspired.
Actually from Obie Trice ft. Eminem. Don't know the title of the song again

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Re: How Do I Convince My Parents by njele: 4:37pm On Aug 29, 2017
I like your spirit but you have to be realistic when it comes to business. step by step is the key to success

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