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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by adajoe555: 9:07pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
I have only 2 female friends and the rest are male. I know how they behave and there is a limit to everything. Some guys use such opportunities to start something funny . me just being careful sha Boo boo have said I should limit my friendship with guys. So I'm trying my best 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Acidosis(m): 9:07pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie: Carry go dear, nothing do you. I agree with your points 100%. A guy and a girl can NEVER be "best friends" without one or both parties getting something sexual or sensual as benefits. Sometimes, it is not always for s. e. x... Some guys are so s€x starved, they can befriend some girls just so they could peep at her boobs, thighs or even sniff her panties.. While the girl would be somewhere forming "my best friend is a guy and nothing is attached" babe, nigga is somewhere sniffing your undies both day and night; tapping currents like his life depends on it". 11 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 9:16pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Acidosis:Preach on bro! It hardly happens that there's no string attached. Lol, male besties keh? If I get junior sister wey dey do that thing I go talk to am reset her brain factory settings. 7 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Acidosis(m): 9:18pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie: Lol! You're so funny |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 9:20pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 9:22pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Kenfil: You are very funny, you are actually the one not thinking. If we go back to ask you so called male friends, 90percent regret not sleeping with you. Just try it. The fact that they respected you enough or mis-timed there strategy towards you does not rule out the truth. And you are not special, you must have been too unattractive or worthless for them to bother. A guy is telling you something about majority of guys, you are here countering with female oriented arguments and what you like. You are married right? I guess you still keep male friends, continue. You will swallow bone soon 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by leathalbeast: 9:32pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:are you saying a lady cannot keep male friends without anything happening? though it's rare it exists o. I kinda know a few like that. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 9:41pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
leathalbeast:There'll be confusion as time sets in. It happens like you said that opposite sexes can be friends. But it's like rare that's why I used "hardly". Most times, 90% of the "friendship" ends up being destroyed. Especially when you're also in a relationship and the girl tells everything to the 'bestie' then there's trouble. 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by naijaboiy: 9:47pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:Errr...so the summary of this your post is that girls should stay away from making guys as friends because all guys have the intention of being with them in the sheets? Right? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by leathalbeast: 9:50pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:it's true, at times one will fall for the other and that destroys the friendship but that type of friendship is nice though. for the guy your female friends mostly tell you how women behave and sometimes seeks advice from you about her relationship. for the lady too, she get to learn alot of things about guys from her male friend. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Next2Bezee(m): 9:54pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Kenfil: Why did the male friendships now disappear when yoi got married? A lot of girls & guys love being friends with the opposite sex & it's usually because they like the attention they get from the opposite sex more than the one they get from someone of the same sex. So it's not just you. But then again, it only makes sense to drop all that attention the period you decide to swear yourself to just one from the opposite sex (marriage). I'm not saying its wrong for girls to have male friends but those girls like the attention & will naturally have some of those friends gunning to remove her pant in the near future. So these kinds of people are not suited for relationships. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 9:59pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
naijaboiy:No ofcourse, your friendship should be defined. And it's not adviceable to take them as besties. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by naijaboiy: 10:00pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:So what do you take them as and how do you define such friendships? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:05pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
leathalbeast:LOL, that's deadly. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by fineboynl(m): 10:13pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:you are crazy |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by tosyne2much(m): 10:15pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
naijaboiy:Can't you see the absurdity of our people's mentality? Can you now see that education sometimes doesn't keep people enlightened? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Next2Bezee(m): 10:15pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
naijaboiy: If neither of them are in relationship then it's probably fine not to define what they can & can't do as friends. But if either of them is in a relationship, they could personally dictate to themselves limits they won't cross with their friends. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by fineboynl(m): 10:19pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 10:21pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
adajoe555: You relationship is a disaster waiting to happen. All it takes is one male friend who is really interested and up to his game. Then you will know that your BOO BOO know and why he said you should limit your friendship with guys. Will you be comfortable if he has a harem and call them all friends? Do not smell what you will not eat 10 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by leathalbeast: 10:21pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:LMAO, why is it deadly? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by MissRaine69(f): 10:24pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
I have male friends a lot of them. We are just that friends, we game ( a lot), work together, argue, talk and support each other and I do have female friends just not as many. There is no misunderstandings regarding the nature of our friendships. I grew up with most of them and value their presence in my life. How this is viewed I would not care less to be frank. 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Next2Bezee(m): 10:29pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
MissRaine69: Good for you. If you still feel the same way when you fall in love with a guy whose friends are almost all female & he seem to spend a lot of time with each of them everyday then even more Tuale for u. 6 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 10:30pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
tosyne2much: And i guess you are the smartest, the one whose education really made enlightened. If you have a counter claim, why not display your illumination so others can see the light. What exactly is someone in relationship seeking for in another person of the opposite sex in the name of friendship. You may be contained but stop masturbating and leaking hypocrisy everywhere. What does education has to do with matters of the heart and affection? Can you control or tell your body the specific amount of testosterone or oestrogen and oxytocin it should produce as the case may be?. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by naijaboiy: 10:31pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Next2Bezee:But what if the guy is not interested in being friends with her but just wanna smash? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 10:32pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Next2Bezee: You response is what i will term CHECKMATE! She would not even allow that. 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by tosyne2much(m): 10:43pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Prec1ous:You sound myopic to matters of heart and affection Listen up, if you are sexually indiscipline, don't every think every other guy is programmed that way because I don't know how you carried out your findings that virtually every guy who keeps friend with a lady sees her as a prey for sex gratification Speak for yourself, not for everybody 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Next2Bezee(m): 10:44pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Then she is free to go for it if she wants The Op's main concern is about his girl having too many male friends. And i believe that there will definitely be some of them who secretly want to smash the girl & will work towards it. So while it's not wrong for females to have male friends, it is proper to set boundaries & define the friendship if she is in a relationship already. I know a girl who won't go out with her male friends except with a group of other friends & don't visit their houses at all. Many may see her as stuck up or paranoid but her priority is her relationship and not what people think. She may not just be doing it to make her man happy, she may also be doing it to prevent situations were her friends get other ideas or situations were she lets something happen that she has to hide from her man. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
My best friend's a male, we've been friends since childhood. Nigga is older than me, has his own fiancée too and we've never been interested in each other. I have lots and lots of male friends. It depends on how you place yourself in such friendship. If you are the type of girl that's always seductively dressed or always telling him your problem, then one party will fall for the other, but if you're just mutual friends, no Strings attached, I don't see why I wouldn't be friends with guys. My opinion tho 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ozy4christ(f): 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Prec1ous:i dont agree with u my dear,all my friends are guys,i dont have a girl as a friend because of what i passd through.no man is a wood yea so its left 4 d lady 2 kw her boundary when staying wit her malefriends. 3 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by cuvox(m): 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Prec1ous: I have lots of female friends. great ones, help them alot and never for once even think of getting anything in return. going by your words, are you saying it's impossible to have female friends without hitting on them or what? if that's what you mean then you need to have a rethink. in reality, I know most guys only feign friendship to get close to a lady and smash her but stop making it look like all male-female friendship is just for fùckíng. some of us only have female friends cause they are the one we can genuinely pour out our hearts to.. genuine friendship bro. Las Las, everything depends on the lady/guy in question. it is possible to develop feelings for the opposite sex when spending time together.. but it's all about boundaries and being professional. can't ruin the friendship and trust I spent good time building over (a) round(s) of sex. it's not everybody we develop feelings for that we have to date/fùck. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 11:07pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Ebayray: The issue now is.. No one knows where strings will get attached. Depending on how close you were to him ... His fiancée may have seen you as a threat or quarelled about you (just a scenario) It starts at mutuals and fondness tends to ruin it all. A woman will always melt into a man, especially one who is always present and in that case, it is MR. FRIEND! 3 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by cuvox(m): 11:10pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Prec1ous: now you are explaining yourself better. |
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